Women evaluate oral sex in different ways: for some it is categorically unacceptable, for others – they have nothing against it, but they do not feel pleasure during it. The third ones do it wholeheartedly and enjoy it themselves, thereby satisfying their partners even more. But it seems that we will not find such a division among men: it is believed that all men like oral sex. But is it really so?
Can a man not like oral sex?
Banal, but a fact: men are different even in this aspect. You will not believe it, but among them there are those who do not like oral sex. True, there are few, maybe even very few. The largest group who don’t like blowjobs are men who have ejaculation disorders. Or they will make the excuse that they haven’t met the right partner yet. Tip: just try it. There is a high probability that you will be able to solve this intractable problem in this way.
Oral sex as perversion
There are also ideological opponents of oral sex – some men perceive it as a perversion. Usually because of some completely unfounded stereotypes heard in childhood or adolescence. For example, “only prostitutes do oral sex”, “it’s unpleasant for a woman”, etc.
You should talk it over with your partner before making a judgement. Your evidence will probably be overwhelming: if you really love this person and it’s not really up to you, why should she do it? But men do not always have to decide for their partner. And basically, this whole situation results in complexes – maybe it’s worth consulting a specialist?
Deeper is not always better
If your mouth is small and his penis is large (in terms of proportions), the heroic tactic “the deeper the better” is definitely not for you: watching tears fall from your eyes and your throat being irritated is not a great pleasure – it’s more like sadism . And I would like to believe that there are actually fewer sadists among men than it seems. Good results can be achieved, for example, by playing only with the head of his penis, licking and caressing it with your tongue and helping with the hand.
What about the teeth?
Not all women know that even one careless touch with your teeth – and a man will remember you as a predator with three rows of teeth. If you use your teeth carefully and correctly, your man will thank you. It’s not about bites, it’s about gentle touches.
Keep the beat
There is no need to use a metronome, but for blowjobs (as for any type of sex) rhythm is very important. Oral sex is not a sprint, but if you want to speed up the process, light touches on the testicles and inner thighs will excite your partner even more. You can play with yourself too – almost all men like to watch a woman masturbate.
Experiment!
Oral sex is also sex. This means that monotony and routine do not lead to anything good. Difficult techniques such as deep oral sex can take a long time to master, but remember that even a simple change of position will have positive results. And most importantly, he have to see, feel and understand that you, like him, like oral sex. Trust me, this is exactly what will make your partner a tireless lover who is determined to do absolutely everything for you.