There have often been rumors of various excuses for men not to use a condom during sex. And what are these reservations – “I can’t finish with a condom”, “I won’t feel anything”, “I’m allergic to latex” or just “I don’t want to wear a condom.” This list is endless.
While this may seem extremely irresponsible, it turns out that the fairer sex often climbs the same rake.
When we interviewed our readers, we learned that it is often women who encourage men to give up condoms during sexual intercourse .
One reader admits that he always prefers sex with a condom: “I don’t need trouble, plus, it can take sex for a much longer period of time. BUT there are women who have told me – Listen, remove that rubber band, I want to feel your dick!
I don’t understand which end they mean! ”
“Once, when I was younger, I met a nice girl at a Midsummer party. When we got to the MDGs, she said, “You can come into me the same way, I have a spiral.”
“It has been experienced that a woman does not want to meet if I wear a condom. I was surprised and thought that I was obviously not the first to have such an ultimatum. ”
One reader puts it quite specifically: “It’s unbelievable that women themselves ask to have sex without a rubber and later cry when they have a baby. Men are not interested in staying that way. They also transmit diseases, etc. Men are not to blame here. ”
An experienced man expresses his opinion: “About 7-8 out of a hundred women have asked for a condom. And I’m talking about smart women. That’s why I don’t go anywhere without a condom because I know how women actually live. “
“Women tend to be quite hypocritical in this respect. At the time of the correspondence, a lot of people pretend to be so right and safe sex supporters, but in reality, it is completely different. I am a man who does this often and with different women, and I always use protective equipment. No woman has ever asked me if I have any illness, just looks at the condom in surprise and says one of the usual phrases about menstruation and pills. There has been one who tears off a condom and says he really wants it. Someone once said something like, “I want to feel that you’re really good with me.” Well, what nonsense ?! ”
“I always gladly agree to use a condom. My thoughts are that men under the age of 30 need to wear a condom. This is completely understandable to me.
But if you sleep with ~ 40-year-old women, it’s different. You tell her that you will take a condom and she will answer immediately that she has no illness, or that we can just do without it, if she has a spiral or is taking pills, she really wants to know me, and so on. It is very difficult for a man to maintain common sense in such a situation. I would probably never ask a woman for sex without rubber. For women over the age of 40, please request more condoms! ”