Undeniably, group sex is still a taboo subject for many. There are many myths and fears about this type of sex . While for others this topic is on the list of erotic fantasies , for some it does not seem a tempting idea. In any case, the most important thing is that any sex is based on the consent and consensus of all parties involved, and it must undoubtedly be a safe process.
Here are several people who share their impressions of group sex. And admittedly, these experience stories are quite amazing!
No commitment, just sex
Justs: “My first group sex experience was with my youthful girlfriends. They had both arrived in our childhood city. We all met at a concert and then went to my house to discuss what I saw, but suddenly we found ourselves in bed – in threes. The first group sex experience – exciting, enjoyable and worth it! ”
“The next time was a couple of years later, when we had a romance with a colleague. Free sex whenever we both wanted. One such evening, we touched on the topic of group sex and attitudes towards it. We both wanted it! After discussing our circle of acquaintances, we sent an SMS to a friend with an invitation to come and spend the evening with us. Arrived. We greeted him half-naked with glasses of wine in his hands. The fact that she did not turn and walk away, but came in, was a good sign. We spent the evening and the night satisfying each other. ”
“It wasn’t just once – we met often and wanted to involve even more people.”
“After a while, one girl left our trio. Then we decided that the group should be tested in a different proportion – a girl and two men. We found a guy who wants to join. Sex is completely different! The experience is interesting, at least I definitely recommend trying it, it’s really worth it. Is it possible to attract a third if you are already in a long relationship with your loved one? I do not know. There should probably be unconditional trust in each other and an understanding that it is just sex, and jealousy has no place here. “
Group sex requires strong trust
Greta: “I know there are some who want to try group sex, but for some reason they are afraid. It is especially difficult if the partner does not agree or talk about it. I thought about it myself, and I knew it would be interesting to try, but it always seemed to be a fantasy. ”
“Group sex requires strong trust in the people you will be doing with, and of course complete relaxation to enjoy.”
“Thinking about making love to more than one person, I really didn’t want another woman to get involved. However, in the end we fell in love with exactly two women and one man. It all happened so naturally: we loved, fell in love and satisfied each other all night. I can safely say that this was one of my best experiences that I will not forget for a long time. ”
“By the way, it is very important that there is no jealousy in such a relationship. In our case, we had no jealousy at all, we just enjoyed the process. Until then, I don’t even think it would be nice to touch not only a man, but also a woman. “
“Of course, the people involved should feel attracted to each other.”
“In our case, the man involved felt like a king – in the end, everything revolved around him. We satisfied him, and he, of course, caressed and satisfied us both orally and in the usual way. In the future, I would like to try sex with several men at the same time. One part of me really wants it, the other is scared, and I’m a little ashamed of it. “
Then the guy left me
Renāte: “During the New Year party I had an experience with my boyfriend and an acquaintance. It was fun for everyone. It was the first such adventure, but after this experience the guy left me, because it turned out that I was too unfaithful to him, although he did not object to sex in a threesome. The current guy, who is a foreigner, treats group sex very liberally, but says that if such an idea arises, one must first talk carefully and plan everything to avoid negative consequences. “
We meet both couples and just girls
Valerija: “My partner and I have had different group sex experiences, and we practice it from time to time. Perhaps the main reasons why we do this are new feelings. ”
“It feels very exciting to feel different sounds around you, you can hear different sounds – it’s exciting.”
“We meet other couples and only girls. Feelings are definitely different. It is usually more difficult with girls because we are a couple, but we still prefer to meet a third person. I am bisexual myself, so it is a pleasure to spend the night with a girl. It’s much easier with a couple – usually people in a couple know well what they want, what they like, all they have to do is agree on rules and boundaries. ”
“If you discuss everything and don’t go beyond the convenience of the other couple, you can have a pretty fun experience.”
“How does group sex practice affect our relationship with our partner? It’s a very simple thing – you need to talk, talk and talk again. There have to be things that tie the couple together, ie if the partners are only tied to sex, that’s not a good thing. But if you trust your partner, if you see that there are other things that bind you and are important to both of you, the involvement of other people will not affect the well-being of your relationship. Because you will only be happy to see your partner enjoy the moments and experience joy. ”
We all felt like a dream come true
Anita: “I will share my story. I am a married woman, I am twenty-five. The first time I had sex in a threesome was almost a year ago with my husband and another girl. Once I revealed to my husband about my fantasy – threesome sex (I wrote it down on paper and gave it to my husband). I learned that he would like to try it too. Gradually, we began to answer each other’s questions and began to talk: how could this be done? ”
“What should this third party be like? Can we firmly agree that the third person in our bed will be a girl and not another man? ”
“We decided to find a girl on Tinder’s site. We also considered escort services, but I was annoyed by the thought of paying money for a woman’s body. Not because it’s illegal, but because you never know if the girl you bought really wants to end up in the situation you’re planning to put her in. That’s why we created a profile on the dating site. I really didn’t expect to receive such a response. We kept getting news from girls all over Europe. These girls were determined to come to the country where we lived just to have sex in a threesome. At first it seemed strange, later we got used to the fact that there are simply people who live this lifestyle. After a few months of correspondence with several girls, we finally found one whose geographical location was convenient for us. She was attractive to both of us, and we invited her on a date. ”
“We met him, a little worried about the bad end of the evening, but at the same time we tried not to expect anything. We arrived at the hotel and things quickly turned to bed. We began to undress each other, constantly kissing and caressing each other’s bodies. We liked it. Early in the morning we got out of bed and took the girl home. We returned to where we had come from. True, in the morning we did not feel uncomfortable or ashamed (which everyone so often fears). ”
“We felt like we had experienced something fun, sexy and as if we had fulfilled our fantasy.”
“Basically, during the whole meeting we did not experience any unpleasant feelings. I was not jealous and felt comfortable all the time. So is my husband. Later, when we discussed the first sex in a threesome, we just laughed and reiterated that many people would never experience the feeling we experienced because they were afraid of shame and mulching eyes the next morning. Well, for anyone who fantasizes about group sex and wants to try it, I first want to discover a way to fulfill my fantasies. A simply written or expressed desire can become a reality. Talk to your partner! And the dream will come true! ”