Sex on the beach is always served as a spontaneous, romantic, almost magical moment. But let’s be real, our attempts are likely to end with sand in pants and other places. But that doesn’t mean you don’t have to hang out by the sea – you just have to prepare.
Let’s look at expert-approved tips that will provide a really fun experience:
1. Make sure it is legal
There is nothing more awkward about getting caught by someone during sex (especially if you are caught by the police). So before you heat up the beach sand, make sure you understand the laws about sex in a public place. In Latvia, as it is already known, it is not allowed, but there are 4 countries in the world where it is legal, and three of them are nearby – Germany, Denmark and the Netherlands. In Germany, however, sex in public is only allowed if you are not naked. In the other two countries, this is allowed in some places.
2. Choose private or secluded beach
This may seem obvious, but if you’re thinking about quicky on some popular beach, don’t do it! The more isolated, the better, so you can really enjoy it and avoid an angry passerby. Depending on your location, you may have to wait until dark so that the beach is clear, but there is nothing better than making love in the moonlight.
3. Prepare in advance
Of course, you want to be spontaneous, but trust us – you don’t want sand to get into your private parts. To increase comfort and avoid abrasion, create a small “beach sex bag” that includes:
- Sandproof blanket or simply a large blanket (to lay on);
- Large towel (to cover).
Take other things with you that make sex more enjoyable. The main thing is not to use sunscreen instead of lubricant! This can cause infection or damage latex condoms.
4. Wear something that is easy to take off
Of course, choose something sexy but functional, such as a tie skirt or loose shorts. (Insect repellents are also good idea to prevent insect bites.)
5. Choose your location wisely
Look for a place that is free of garbage and is relatively flat. And make sure you are far enough from the shore to avoid unexpected tides.
6. Take time for foreplay
Just because you have sex on the beach doesn’t mean you have to put up with quicky. Cover with a blanket or towel and start with simple touches and dirty talking. By the way, experts say that a better choice is oral sex, touches, caresses and partner satisfaction with fingers and hands.
7. Choose a position
To prevent sand from getting into unwanted places, experts recommend positions where your genitals are furthest from the sand, such as doggy style. But on the other hand, it’s not the best position to avoid prying eyes, so you can also try a sex position where you both lie on your side, or a spooning position. Whatever you choose, use a blanket or towel to cover.
8. If you see someone, don’t panic
That’s why you have a blanket! If someone is approaching, make sure nothing is showing and be as relaxed as possible. If you are giving oral sex, stop and place your head on your partner’s abdomen or thighs instead. If you have sex, stop and just cuddle with each other.
9. Stop immediately if sand gets in your genitals!
You’ve probably done everything you can to prevent this from happening, but don’t worry if it happens. Just go into the water and rinse it off!