When a woman is still young, it’s easy for her to fall in love with a guy just because he’s sexy, because even if he turns out to be a ‘real ass’, a woman at that age isn’t looking for a man to be with for the rest of her life anyway. She does not think so deeply and so far into the future. But over the years, women stop giving so much importance to his appearance and start paying attention to the qualities that make a man suitable for a serious and long-term relationship. The older a woman gets, the more important it will be for her to find a man who has these qualities:
Consistency and reliability
Now, a man’s sexiest quality is his reliability. Gone are the days when you didn’t know if he would call you and what was really going on between the two of you. A real man will express his thoughts and back up his words with actions.
He doesn’t feed you lies
Nothing is impossible, but finding such a man is increasingly difficult these days. You have probably encountered at least one pathological lier in your life, so it is important now to find the one who is telling the truth. No one wants to waste time dealing with serial cheaters, no matter how great they seem.
He has found his place in life
When you’re 18 and have a lot of time ahead of you, it’s not scary to meet a fun guy who doesn’t take anything seriously. But when you’re approaching 30 and he still doesn’t know what to do with his life, it’s a weird enough situation. At this age, you need to find a man who knows what he wants, achieves his goals.
He wants the same thing in a relationship as you
Although they say opposites attract, you have to have common values and priorities or nothing will work out. When the threshold of 20 years is crossed, a person mostly already knows who he is and what he wants, and he also has an idea of what he wants from his partner. Different interests are normal, the main thing is to have similar values.
He will never betray you – if he wants to be with someone else, he will break up with you first
When you were young, you could turn a blind eye to ‘red flags’ in your relationship or even forgive cheating. As you get older and wiser, you look for someone who would never do that, and if they did, you would leave them immediately.
Support
When you choose a man with whom you are ready to spend the rest of your life, you think much less about his abs and much more about whether he knows how to support you with the right words. The mind is very sexy, and a man who motivates you to be better is a pretty awesome thing.
Mature enough to compromise
Compromise is the key to success in a relationship. It is very important that partners are able to put themselves in each other’s shoes. If you’ve met a man who’s willing to watch your TV series because you watched his basketball with him, you’ve won the grand prize.
He respects your family and friends
If you date a man who can’t be polite to your loved ones, he doesn’t belong in your life. Showing respect and understanding with each other’s friends and family is a sign of a mature, healthy relationship.
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