How to find out what are men’s biggest erotic fantasies? As you can see, they sometimes have nothing to do with sweet ‘vanilla’ sex. At best, we learn about them from his laptop that is accidentally left open, and at worst,… But let’s not talk about it this time. Let’s take a look at the most popular men’s fantasies and share tips on how to make them true.
First of all, the existence of erotic fantasies does not mean that there is something wrong with your chosen one or that he is going to take a side step. Both men and women have sex fantasies (take a look here and find out what the women fantasizes about). Secondly, despite the most common desires, each of us has an individual approach to one or another story. What seems to one to be an innocent act can cause mental trauma to another. Therefore, the basic principle of checking fantasies should always be voluntary. Do only what you like and something that does not cause fear or discust.
Male erotic fantasies: sex with a stranger
Sex with a stranger is one of the most popular scenes of all time and nations. Romance, passion, tension and fear, revealing one’s spontaneous desires. Who has at least once dreamed of such thing? Do not blame him for such a need, it is better to become this stranger. The easiest way is to change your image or do some role-playing. Buy an erotic stewardess costume, change your hairstyle, make-up and start foreplay from the moment you serve your ‘customer’. Longer performances are suitable for more discerning couples, such as playing strangers on the beach and later going to a secret meeting in a hotel room.
Sex as a wild animal
The desire to take a woman roughly and repeatedly several times in a row is a kind of wild thing. This kind of sex makes a man feel like a wild beast who does not waste time on human conditions, gentle foreplay and romance. Admittedly, ladies often support such fantasies. However, unlike in pornographic films, there is usually one big problem: the arousal physiologies of men and women are different. Generally, women need a longer foreplay to reach combat readiness. In such situations, small tricks such as a special stimulating gel to increase the sensitivity of the clitoris or sex toy placed in vagina can help.
Who will be the third?
Sex with two women is undoubtedly another leader in men’s erotic fantasies. This is due to the natural, innate polygamy, that is, the desire to have as many women as possible at the same time. The truth is that quite a few couples choose such experiments, which is perfectly normal. However, it must be understood that a third person enters your relationship, which means that there is usually mistrust, shyness, complexes and other things.
Diversity in all ways and places
The fantasy of using a woman for oral, anal and vaginal satisfaction in one session is related to the desire to use all the partner’s erogenous zones and thus to fully realize themselves as a man. If your partner is really one of those who is ready for such a marathon, don’t forget about precautions.
Sensual mouth
Let me tell you a secret. If you can give him oral sex perfectly, you will become the best woman in his life. I an not joking. For a man, oral sex is not only the highest expression of trust, but also the maximum expression of humility. In addition, oral sex, thanks to the structure of the oral cavity and tightness, it gives a man unsurpassed feelings. Many men find that these feelings are much more pleasurable than vaginal sex.
It only takes three things to give him an idea of this dream. The first is to acquire these skills. The second – use a special lubricant that eliminates unpleasant taste sensations and provides slipperiness. Third – serve this food effectively. You can do it unexpectedly or vice versa, torment him all day with intriguing hints and present it in a romantic evening.
Attack from behind
Anal sex is also at the top of the sex fantasy rating. Like oral pleasure, this format of intimacy embodies the couple’s great trust and male dominance. Many of the stronger sex adore it because it is a violation of what is forbidden and there is no risk of an unwanted pregnancy. In addition, of course, one of the main reasons is the feeling provided by the narrow entrance and flexible penetration.
Despite the fact that many couples today engage in anal sex, many women are wary of such intimacy. And that is completely fine. Improper preparation can really harm you. But if you do everything according to the rules, you will not only give pleasure to your man, but you will also experience completely new feelings. The most important condition is the use of special anal lubricants, and hygiene.
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