A man admits that he is cheating on his wife because she no longer seems sexy (even though, as he himself discovers, she has a perfect body).

“I'm 42 years old and I work as a photographer for a clothing catalog company. It's fun to work there and I've noticed that I like curvier women more because they're satisfied with themselves.

My wife is 38 years old and works for a company that promotes slimming. She is a marketing professional, completely immersed in work, and recently also started to exercise excessively.

She is thin but looks tired and her body has become hard. Her abs are tighter than mine and it totally puts me off having sex. Whenever she has free time, she goes to the gym.

My wife carefully plans the menu for both of us. She no longer wants to eat out and our sex life is practically non-existent as she reads her health magazines in bed.

Once at work I chatted with a model from Scandinavia. This 32-year-old curvaceous woman simply charmed me. I gave her some compliments, she invited me to her hotel for a drink.

We each drank one glass, then a few more, and finally went upstairs to her room. She offered to have sex. Her body was amazing - soft, supple, with curves where needed. She was extremely feminine.

I felt guilty afterwards, but on the other hand, I was sure my wife wouldn't find out about it.

After some time I was in bed again with another model who was 27 years old. She offered herself. Again, the young woman's body was so tender and soft, the sex was amazingly great.

I understand that I behaved wrongly. What can I do to keep our marriage from falling apart and how can I learn to admire my wife again?”

A psychologist from "The Sun" comments on the situation:

"Married life is not only physical attraction, it is also admiration for a person's personality, the desire to be with this person, communication between partners.

Your relationship is falling apart, probably because your wife is too obsessed with losing weight and devotes herself only to sports. Maybe she feels that she is doing it not only for herself, but also to please you?

People are under a lot of social pressure these days. Talk about your relationship, explain that you think her spending time at the gym is hurting your marriage.”

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