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A woman wants to make love only in the dark – how to change it?

“My wife always wants to make love in the dark. In absolute darkness. Every time I want to turn on the light, she asks to turn it off, otherwise she “can’t relax and doesn’t feel sexually aroused.” I, on the other hand, get upset when I see her naked body during sex, so this situation starts to upset me, ”the…

“My wife always wants to make love in the dark. In absolute darkness. Every time I want to turn on the light, she asks to turn it off, otherwise she “can’t relax and doesn’t feel sexually aroused.” I, on the other hand, get upset when I see her naked body during sex, so this situation starts to upset me, ”the reader writes.


The sexologist’s answer: “The debate about making love in the dark or in the light is as old as the world, it is quite a problem for most people. Often women do not want to make love in the light for three reasons – I will list them and provide possible solutions. ”

SHE DOES NOT TRUST HER BODY

“Many women prefer sex in the dark because they are worried about how their bodies will look during sex. Maybe your wife doesn’t want you to see her belly when she bends her legs at the knees, maybe she’s not happy with the look of her breasts when she leans over you. Or maybe she doesn’t want her genitals to be seen nearby.

“Women’s magazines and portals are full of intolerant headlines -” What sex poses are best to hide your body imperfections “and so on.”

If women’s bodies are treated so harshly, it’s no surprise that they are starting to lack confidence. The saddest thing is that most men don’t even notice the so-called flaws that make their girlfriends and wives mulch. If you suspect that your wife is worried about your body, tell her how much you like her body. If she is particularly worried, look her in the eye during sex – then she will relax and realize that you are not criticizing her body.

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TOO BRIGHT LIGHT IN THE BEDROOM

Most light objects are quite bright and cast unattractive shadows on the body. Bright light distracts. Fortunately, this problem is easy to solve. Install a dimmable light in the bedroom or turn on a dim light. By the way, in red light bodies look especially attractive and very sexy. Finally, light candles in the bedroom.

FEELINGS ARE MORE PRONOUNCED IN THE DARK

There is a good chance that in the dark your wife will feel stronger pleasure. When one feeling is limited, other feelings become more pronounced. So if she doesn’t see what’s going on, she can enjoy the touches more. If so, you can put a bandage on your wife’s eyes. Light candles in the bedroom so you can see what’s going on around you, and this light won’t be visible through the bandage. ”

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