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5 Sex Positions Where All the Attention Is On the Breasts
The best sex positions include as many erogenous zones as possible. However, the most popular ones ignore one important erogenous zone that, if properly stimulated, can make sex incredibly pleasurable. We are talking about breasts. Let’s look at sex positions that focus on the breasts.

Both breasts and nipples are not only extremely sensitive to touch, but are also one of the most intimate parts of the female anatomy. Laurie Mintz, author of „Becoming Cliterate“, says that drawing your partner’s attention to your breasts can create a stronger bond between you, which ultimately leads to stronger orgasms. Even science has proven that touching the nipples can activate the same areas of the brain that respond to genital stimulation.

Breasts usually get a lot of attention in the beginning, but seem to be forgotten later on. “My advice is to get them involved all the time, not just at the beginning,” advises Mintz. Here are five sex positions in which it will be especially convenient to achieve it.

Doggy style

In doggy style sex position, your partner is usually behind you with their hands resting on the mattress or placed somewhere on your butt. In order for the breasts to be stimulated during this sex position, he simply needs to hold onto them. When he enters you from behind, he can easily play with your breasts depending on how and with what intensity you like it.

And while it’s up to you to decide whether you like it harder or softer, slower or faster, or maybe you want him to squeeze your nipples, your partner is actually in control of the action. So you can just relax and enjoy. You can also try this position by leaning over the table for more balance.

Woman on top

If your partner lies down and you sit on top of him, he will be able to enjoy an incredible view. You can tease him by arching your back and preventing him from reaching your breasts. That way, he won’t be able to play with them until you let him. Don’t forget that when a woman is on top, she decides everything.

However, the most important thing in this position is not what he sees, but the pleasure you experience. So when you’re tired of teasing him, let him touch your breasts or even lean close enough for him to touch them with his tongue.

Face to face

Your partner sits comfortably on the edge of the bed, in a chair or on the floor, and you sit on his lap facing him, holding onto his back or shoulders. Your breasts will be close to his body, creating intimate contact. He may try to grab your breasts or simply press his breasts against yours, generating a lot of body heat.

Spooning

Spooning is so comfortable that it allows you to enjoy sex longer and lazier. Bonus – this position is great for breast play. You lie on your side, your partner lies behind you. Let him caress your breasts and nipples before he enters you. Try to extend the introductory caresses as long as possible, let him hold your breasts in his hands and caress your nipples with his fingers. When you can’t take it any longer, let him enter you and let your breasts rest in his hands as you near orgasm.

Oral sex for her

This list of positions includes oral sex for a reason. Lie comfortably on your back with your partner’s head between your legs and his arms stretched straight ahead so they touch your breasts. He will be able to enjoy all the erogenous zones of your body, and you – indescribable sensations.
06.26.2023.
30 fascinating facts about sex positions
1. “Speculum al foderi” is a 15th century book dedicated to sex poses. Sometimes translated as “Koitus’s Mirror” or literally “Mirror of Fucking”, it describes the art of various sex positions.

2. Although the missionary position is the most popular position in the United States, it is far from popular in the rest of the world.

3. The Latin name for the ‘doggy style’ is “coitus more ferarum“, which means ‘sexual act in the style of wild beasts’. In the Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian book, it is known as the “cow pose.”

4. Due to the lack of eye contact in the “doggy-style” sex position, some researchers believe that people have biologically moved away from this position in search of another that promotes intimacy, which in turn fosters a stable, lasting relationship.

5. The missionary pose is also called the “marriage pose,” “mom & dad pose,” and “European-American position.”

6. Sex position in which a woman is on her back can be unsafe in later stages of pregnancy. In particular, a woman should avoid lying on her back after 4 months of pregnancy, as the weight of the growing uterus can put pressure on the main blood vessels.

7. Astyana, Helen’s of Troy maid, wrote a sex handbook “On the Positions for Sexual Intercourse”. She was influenced by two other Greek erotic writers, such as Philaeni and Elephanti.

8. In Scene 1 of Otello’s act, William Shakespeare called the missionary position “a beast with two backs.”

9. Men who suffer from premature ejaculation often find that the position in which the woman is on-top helps their problem. For some, it reduces the sensitivity of the penis, which helps prevent culmination.

10. The term ‘missionary position’ is thought to have originated from Christian missionaries in the South Pacific or Africa. According to the missionaries, this was the “right” position for sex, because the Bible says that a man is superior to a woman in all things, including sex.

11. Most difficult sex positions are the standing ones. It often takes a lot of flexibility and balance to enjoy them.

12. In the Middle Ages, anal and oral sex were considered unnatural because none of them could lead to reproduction, which many purists considered to be the sole purpose of sex.

13. The position in which the partners sleep next to each other is one of the most comfortable and is ideal for the elderly, during pregnancy or after illness or surgery.

14. Some researchers believe that the best positions for conceiving are those in which the man is on-top, such as missionary. This provides deeper penetration so that sperm can enter the cervix more easily.

15. Women who are unable to orgasm in a missionary position claim that the chances of getting an orgasm increase by 56% when using the CAT method (Coital Alignment Technique). It is like a missionary position, except that the upper body of a man is further away from the woman and facing one side.

16. Some of the most interesting names for sex poses are scissors, crab, snake, rabbit, wheelbarrow, willow tree, groundhog and butterfly.

17. Sex poses in which a woman is on-top are the most dangerous for men. Almost half of all penile injuries occur when a woman is in this position. Half of the study participants reported hearing a crackling noise at the time of the injury. Auch!

18. Women consider these three poses to be the most unpleasant: 1) doggy style, 2) reverse cowgirl position, and 3) 69. The reason for this is that the doggy style is often painful, the reverse cowgirl is too awkward and uncomfortable, and 69 is too disturbing to really enjoy pleasure.

19. The Kama Sutra, written between the 1st and 4th centuries AD, describes 64 sex positions known as 64 Atrs. Its author, Vātsyāyana, believed that there were 8 types of intimacy multiplied by 8 positions in each, forming a total of 64. It describes love as a “divine union.”

20. In 1972, the British scientist and physician Alex Comfort (1920-2000) wrote The Joy of Sex, which describes more than 600 sex positions. The book was an international bestseller, and its popularity gave him the nickname “Dr. Sex.”

21. Gershon Legman (1917-1999), an American cultural critic and folklorist, recorded more than 3,000 sex positions during his lifetime. He died at the age of 65 after “excessive sexual effort.”

22. Although sex in water allows you to try creative sex positions, seawater, a pool, or a jacuzzi are full of all kinds of bacteria that can cause a urinary tract infection and other diseases. (Read more about it here).

23. In the Washington, sex positions other than missionary are technically illegal.

24. In the Middle Ages, doggy style sex was the most sinful position (except for anal sex). It was considered “bestial” because it confused the boundaries between man and animal.

25. In the Middle Ages, the punishment for “deviant” sex positions could be severe. For example, the penalty for having sex with a woman on-top was three years in prison. People feared that such positions would change the natural order of the “higher” man and the “lower” woman.

26. Albertus Magnus (1200-1280) was the first to rank sex poses from most acceptable to lowest: 1) missionary, 2) lying side by side, 3) sitting, 4) standing, and 5) tergo (from behind). He agreed with the church that the missionary position was the only completely “natural” position, but was more advanced in his beliefs that other positions might be appropriate for obese or sick people.

27. In the Middle Ages, some people believed that children conceived in a “unnatural” sex position could experience birth defects.

28. St. Thomas Aquinas (1225-1274) extended the definition of sodomy to include all sexual acts and positions except vaginal intercourse. Sodomy was punishable by death, such as mutilation, burning alive, or hanging.

For a man who thought sex was evil, Thomas Aquinas was sure obsessed with it

29. The sex position, known as ’69 ‘, is named like that because the sex partners are inverted, similar to the numbers 6 and 9. In the Kama Sutra, this position is known as ‘the congress of crows’.

30. Dr. David Rubben’s book “Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex (But Were Afraid to Ask)” in 1960 was one of the first modern sex guides to discuss various sex positions and help incorporate the Kama Sutra into Western psychology.
06.09.2022.
Kamasutra – more than just a book of sex positions

Kamasutra is not just a book of sex positions that parents hide from their children in the darkest corner of the bedroom. Kamasutra means much more than just sex. The etymology of this word comes from the Sanskrit language. “Kama” means “passion, pleasure, love, or sex,” and “sutra,” when translated directly, means “thread,” but has a different, broader meaning: “text.” So “kamasutra” can be translated as “the text of love” or “teaching of love.”

A little bit of history

It is not known exactly when Kamasutra was written, but historians suggest that it may have been around 300 BC. The place where the book was written is also unknown, but it probably happened in the north of India. No original pages have survived to this day. The author of Kamasutra is mentioned in all sources as Vātsyāyana.

The structure of the book

Kamasutra is a very large tractate. It is compiled from many of the authors’ teachings written in the abstract, making some parts of the book even difficult to translate into English or other languages. Kamasutra consists of 7 large parts, which are divided into separate chapters (there are 36).

The main parts of the book:

Dattaka – basic principles

In the first, introductory part of the book, four goals of Hindu life are considered, but in this part – the most important goal of Kama (love). It contains many philosophical teachings on how to acquire knowledge, wisdom, and live with honor.

Suvarnanabha – love and sexual union

Information and visual material can be found in the second part of the book. The author Vātsyāyana believed that there are 8 different types of love, and each of them has 8 positions, so here are 64 different types of sexual acts, such as hugs, kisses, different sex poitionss and other types of erotica.

Ghotakamukha – “obtaining” a wife

The third chapter deals with lonely life and the search for a wife. The methods described are not entirely appropriate for our time and are largely based on astrological compatibility and the benefits of marriage for the families involved (caste systems).

Gonardiya – the duties and privileges of the wife

These are the responsibilities of the wife – cooking, housekeeping and other household chores. These one-sided gender roles may have been important 3,000 years ago, but in today’s world they are no longer so clear-cut.

Gonikaputra – friends and family

The fifth section describes the relationship between men and women that is not related to sexual intimacy. It involves understanding one’s own feelings and those of others, forming and strengthening emotional connections.

Charayana – courtesans

The sixth part looks at how men use premarital services to increase self-confidence. Here are some tips on how to get along with ex-lovers or friends, how to help yourself become rich and what to look for in a future partnership.

Kuchumara – occult practices

Kamasutra’s book ends with a chapter on occult sex practices, myths and legends. This chapter is about seduction, perfume making, their use, various remedies for sexual dysfunction and so on.

Diversity of intimacy

The Kamasutra tractate calls for a much broader and deeper view of intimacy and sexual intercourse. A kiss is not just a kiss, a hug is not just a hug, they have many different forms, they can come from passion or from a friendly relationship. For example, Vatsyayana’s book looks at 8 different forms of “alingan” (forms of a hug). The first four express mutual love, but they do not have a sexual touch. The remaining four are for foreplay and sexual intercourse.

Another example of the intimacy forms is kisses (chumbanas). The book names as many as 26 different kisses. In the beginning there are those whose aim is to show respect, affection, and then there are described passionate kisses among loved ones. There is also talk of cultural differences in kissing in different parts of India.

Positions for beginners

Although for some Kamasutra sex positions may seem like the most difficult acrobatic tricks, we recommend trying at least some. In this way, you will diversify your sex life, discover each other bodies, experiment, and often this is exactly what is missing in relationships. Let’s look at different positions that you can try.

Standing positions

Sammukha – at first glance, this position does not seem simple, but it is perfect for beginners. The partner leans against the wall, spreading her legs, and the partner enters while standing in front. This position slightly “reduces” a woman’s height, so she may have to stand on a step.

Yanukurpara – standing while having sex is often considered very uncomfortable, but this position is definitely worth it. Lift your partner behind their buttocks and she hugs your neck. This posture allows you to experience extremely deep penetration and maintain eye contact, thus helping to create an intimate bond.

Tripadam – this position is perfect if you don’t have much time for sex. It does not provide such a deep penetration, but gives a short and quick pleasure. Both partners are facing each other. The man grabs the partner’s knee and picks it up. The woman wraps her leg around her partner’s hip and holds it firmly to him. By the way, this position is most suitable for partners of similar height.

“Milk and water” – get on your knees on the edge of a chair or bed, your partner will get on your knees behind you. In this position, the differences in the height of the partners are not significant at all. If your partner is a woman, you can easily stimulate the inside of her clitoris, breasts or thighs.

Sitting positions

Piditaka – this position is very comfortable and gives an unusual pleasure to both partners. One partner lies on their back with knees at their chest, supporting their feet on the other partner’s chest. Other one kneels in front, lifts their partner’s hips and makes movements.

Virsha – a position in which one partner is lying on their back, the other is sitting on their lap, turning their back. The sitting person can bend over and hold on to the ankles of their partner. This position looks really simple, but in reality it requires a lot of strength. Translated from Sanskrit, “virsha” means ox.

Indrani – This sex position is named after the wife of the supreme Hindu god Indra. The partner lies on their back, pulling their knees to their chest. The other kneels in front of their partner and makes movements. You can use your hands for support. This position gives a very deep penetration, so be sure to watch your partner’s reaction.

It is false to think that Kamasutra is only about sex and different sex positions. This tractate covers all the most important areas of life and reading it will change your lifestyle in a positive direction.

People often believe that the positions described in the book can only be performed by very flexible and physically strong people. While some of them may seem quite extreme, many will not require more flexibility than average. Most importantly, always listen to your partner and if you feel discomfort or pain, try another position.

12.23.2021.