First of all, it should be explained what feminization is and what it is for. These are the actions by which a submissive man is transformed into a submissive woman. With the help of clothing, make-up and the adoption of certain behavior patterns that we call only feminine, you can achieve results that bring pleasure not only to the submissive, but also to the dominant side. Feminization is part of a D/S (dominance & submission) relationship. Historically, women have always been an extremely marginalized group, constantly dominated by the male gender.
A woman in this case, even while remaining a woman, takes the role of a man, demonstrating her masculinity through appropriate stereotypes of male behavior.
Feminization is not the same as cross-dressing
Feminization is often confused with transvestism or cross-dressing. The main difference is the goal to be achieved by dressing up and assuming the role of a woman. Adherents of cross-dressing are people who enjoy the process of dressing itself, the details of women’s clothing and they do it voluntarily. The revelation of the feminine side usually becomes a way to relieve tension, because men who are fond of cross-dressing often have to appear distinctly masculine in society, make decisive decisions, and their masculinity is usually never questioned.
Many straight men are shocked at the thought of having to dress like a woman, let alone engage in other activities that are considered only “female duties” in society. This shocking experience is full of indescribable experiences when a man tries to fit into the role of a woman as accurately as possible to satisfy his Mistress.
Of course, people and their interests are different, so the course of action can also be radically different, depending on individual taboos, the location of the session, the range of available accessories and erotic toys.
Name changing and humiliation
The act of feminization usually begins with a name change – from male to female. A man’s name can sometimes be “transformed”. If the male name is difficult to change into female name, any name can be given. One option is to give a name that would suit a porn star (and of course a submissive man), i.e. – Lola, Rebecca, Amanda, Esther, etc. Of course, you can not give a name at all, but call it, for example, “disgusting whore”, “dirty slut”… Intimate organs are usually given derogatory names – it can also be called “shit”, “useless”, “pussy” etc.
Women often say that a man usually “thinks with his second head”. So, controlling his arousal is one way to make him more feminine, ie. force him to think with the “right head”. One method is tying the penis to the body, as if eliminating the manhood, the bulge between his legs. Another method is various “chastity” protectors – steel, plastic, wooden “cages” to restrain the penis so that the man cannot respond to stimuli and a natural erection does not occur. It also means that the man is denied the opportunity to have sexual intimacy with the woman and can now only be a passive observer.
A woman can play with herself alone or invite another man and have sex in front of her submissive man, making him feel uncomfortable. Negative comments are often made about the submissive being miserable and unable to satisfy his Mistress. It is possible to react negatively to other parts of a his body, to humiliate him, to laugh at his flaws, just as men tend to behave with each other when talking about women. So for dominant women, verbal disdain is sometimes more acceptable than other actions.
Which dress shall we wear today?
Undeniably, it is possible to make a man look more like a woman with the help of clothes and accessories. Scenes in pornographic films on this subject often begin with a woman “catching” a man wearing women’s underwear and forcing him to put on more women’s clothing. You can always adapt this scenario to your own games.
Therefore, exaggerated sexy clothes, which we are used to seeing in strip clubs and in relevant films, are best suited. It is best to choose black, red or pink clothes. Black is classic and sexy, red is provocative, and pink is a reflection of innocence. Of course, there are also specialized outfits such as schoolgirl, maid or Playboy bunny uniforms.
First you need to take care of your underwear, which should be satin, silk and/or lace. You can also choose silk nightgowns. Cotton is not a sexy fabric – it is used to sew comfortable underwear for sports. Special bra inserts can be used to make the breasts look more realistic. Long socks and stockings are a must. Of course, shoes are also necessary – high heels that cause as much discomfort as possible and restrict movement.
Of course, the hardest part is finding the right size clothes and shoes. Men’s body shapes are different from women’s – the hips are narrower and the shoulders are significantly wider, so it is best to choose fabrics with elastane. They can adapt to different body types. Shoes can be ordered online.
A man becomes instantly feminine after putting on a long hair wig. Hairstyles that are suitable for both men and women should be avoided. The longer the hair, the more charming the submissive lady will become. You can also choose beautiful earrings and necklaces. Clip-on earrings that are placed on the ears can be a form of torture because the earlobes start to hurt and turn red when worn for long periods of time.
And what is a woman without make-up? With the help of professional make-up and shading, you can create a perfect look, and it will be difficult to distinguish a man from a woman, so make-up is especially important. You should choose a red shade of lipstick, bright eye make-up, stick-on eyelashes, blush. Glue-on nails in bright red or pink tones can be used. A dominant woman has to force a man to shave the parts of his body that women usually shave.
Strapon for pleasure
An important aspect is the sexual act between the dominant woman and the submissive man, who is also treated as a woman at that moment. The best option is to use a strap and a rubber phallus, which the woman can attach to herself and please the man in an anal way. In feminization, anal sex is usually classified as a woman’s “duty” to satisfy a man. The participation of other men is also possible when they satisfy the submissive or he satisfies them orally.
In addition to all this, feminization gives the opportunity to force a man to do all the housework that women usually do – wash, iron, clean, cook for his Mistress. A man can learn to give his Mistress a manicure, pedicure, massage or other beauty treatments.
It is worth reminding that these are not mandatory aspects of feminization and everyone chooses the most acceptable option. Sometimes it happens that one of the partners has more experience. That’s when articles like this one come in handy. Passionate games for you!