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45 Best Sex Poses – Part 1

The easiest way to add variety to your sex life is to try different sex positions. This is something you and your partner can do right now. But before we go into the list of less typical sex poses (and some classic variations, such as the sex poses of missionaries, cowboy girls, spoons, and dogs ), you need to ask yourself: what is what you hope to achieve by changing your sex poses?

If your sex partner is a woman, to help her reach orgasm, you will need to choose sex positions in which you can also manually stimulate your partner’s clitoris in addition to the usual act. Most women will not be able to really get aroused or have an orgasm without some form of clitoral stimulation.

If you are looking for more psychological arousal, then you can try impulsive positions. In them, sex partners can be pressed against the wall or have sex on a hard surface.

Or maybe you want to explore the elements of BDSM (English: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism – tying, discipline, sadism, masochism). Here, too, you will find some engaging sex poses where you can feel both dominant and submissive.

Or maybe you just want to try something new? Great, just keep in mind that not all of these sex poses are appropriate for the entire length of the act. You may want to change them. In this case, you can start with one of the most extreme and athletic poses, but then move on to a less demanding pose, where you can fully relax and feel good.

Some of these poses may require a little practice. And some can be potentially dangerous – not in a sexy way, but “Oh, my back hurts!” way. Don’t overdo it. If sex poses don’t seem right, move on. Here are many to choose from. Explore them slowly. Think about what you hope to achieve from your sexual experience, and of course enjoy it.

1. Bicycle

Benefits: A man in this position can observe the movements of the penis.

Technique: Stand by the side of the bed or table while your partner lies on his back and raises his legs to his chest. Her knees are bent as if she were doing a ‘bike’ exercise. Grasp her ankles and enter her. Insert the member slowly, as deep jolts may be painful for her.

Also try: Have your partner place your heels on your shoulders. It will open her hips.

Tip: Encourage your partner to play with her clit. Also, explain that she can control your penetration by tightening her thighs.

2. The veiled face

Also Known As Lap Dance

Benefits: Face-to-face direct intimate contact; comfortable posture for a long act

Technique: Sit on the edge of a chair or bed. Then your partner sits face down on you, wraps your arms around your back, and sits on your lap. The partner can move up and down, leaning on his feet or knees. If you want faster movement, help by grabbing her buttocks.

Try also: You can also try this position while sitting in a rocking chair. Old wooden rocking chairs on wooden or stone floors provide a wide range of vibrations.

Tip: There is plenty of room for creativity in this pose to stimulate various erogenous zones in the upper body, head, neck, and face.

3. Socket

Benefits: This is a good posture to imagine a little and get a new look behind your partner.

Technique: From the inverted equestrian position, make her lean forward, stretching her legs back. She should support her body, resting on her elbows, as if in a plank position.

Tip: Your partner can easily stimulate your clitoris while your partner enters it. If you’re passionate about beating, this position will fit.

4. Standing O

Benefits: Ideal posture for all kinds of partner satisfaction, using the mouth to lick the clitoris, rubbing your fingers, or various sex toys to stimulate the G-spot.

Technique: One partner is on his knees, the other is standing. A stander can put one foot on his partner’s shoulder.

Tip: Ideally, your partner’s arms are tied over her head. This can be achieved using some BDSM techniques.

5. The little soaker

Benefits: Great posture that allows him to stimulate his partner’s clitoris with both his mouth and fingers.

Technique: A person at the top uses a bed, sofa, or chair to keep himself above his partner. The person at the bottom inserts the penis into the vagina or anus. The one at the top performs elbow bending movements to move up and down on your partner’s penis.

Tip: Play with your partner’s clitoris for extra stimulation.

6. 69 bridge

Also Known As: Golden Gate.

Technique: If you can, try it.

Tip: You may need to help lift your partner’s pelvis so that her mouth can reach your penis.

7. Cat

Also known as: Coital Alignment Technique – CAT.

Benefits: Strong clitoral stimulation. In a study published in the journal ‘ Sex and Marital Therapy ‘, women who were unable to orgasm in a missionary position reported a 56% increase in orgasm using this CAT technique. Other studies show even greater success, with up to 73 percent of women reaching orgasm in this position.

Technique: CAT is very similar to the missionary posture, except that the bodies are straighter and closer together. In this position, the partner’s chest is close to the partner’s shoulders. Have her bend her legs about 45 degrees to move her hips up. In this way, continuous contact with the partner’s clitoris is maintained.

Also try: to ask your partner to straighten your legs. Press the pelvis down slightly while the partner holds the pelvis up.

Tip: Instead of moving up and down, swing back and forth to provide enough stimulus to reach your partner’s orgasm. Make this posture even better by making circular movements with your pelvis.

8. Waterfall

Also Known As: Drunk Head.

Benefits: Blood will also flow into your partner’s other head.

Technique: Move to the side of the bed, lying with your head and shoulders on the floor while your partner rides on you. Blood will flow to your head, creating an incomprehensible feeling in your mind during orgasm.

9. One at the top

Benefits: This is the best posture for women with a particularly sensitive side of the clitoris.

Technique: Lie on the floor while your partner is lying on the side of the bed. Lift one of their legs and ask for support by grasping the thigh just above the knee. By lifting one hip, your partner will be able to make some movements to help in the process or guide you to the ideal place.

Tip for him: Use both tongue and finger joint during oral sex. The contrast between the soft tongue and the hard fingerbone will create a pleasant feeling.

10. Equestrian

Benefits: This position has both G-spot and cervical stimulation. Great position for the person at the top to control their orgasm. It also provides a great view of everything that is going on.

Technique: Equestrian is one of the best sex poses, because it provides a variety of interesting views and feelings, as well as offers your partner psychological benefits, taking responsibility for the pace and depth of movement. Both shallow and deep movements can be performed alternately. A shallow jerk will stimulate the most sensitive front of the vagina.

Also try: lying down so that your chest touches with your partner stretching your legs back. Your partner’s feet should rest on your feet and make rocking movements that rub against the vulva and clitoral area against your pubic bone for more pleasure.

Tip: From the equestrian position, let your partner switch to sitting on your face so that you can also do oral stimulation.

11. Hot chair

Also Known As: Love seat.

Benefits: Good posture for G-site stimulation.

Technique: Sit on the edge of the bed or on a chair. Your partner is sitting on your lap, turning your back. Your legs are between your partner’s legs. The woman can move back and forth or up and down by holding the edges of the chair. She can control the angle of entry by tilting her back. While the dog’s sex poses are those in which the man’s dominant position is discussed, the hot chair position is dominated by the partner. And that makes it one of the best sex poses for both of you.

Also try: your partner can reach out and stimulate the base and testicles of your penis. In the meantime, you can massage your partner’s nipples.

12. Speed cycle

Benefits: additional vibration.

Technique: This is the same ‘hot chair’ position, only this time you are both sitting on the washing machine set to the highest washing cycle.

13. Stairs to paradise

Benefits: Your partner will have nowhere to stay and will not have to wait until you reach the bedroom.

Technique: This is a variation of the ‘hot chair’ posture when your partner is sitting on top of you while you are sitting on the steps. The stairs offer good seating options as well as handrails for extra support.

14. Inverted riding pose

Benefits: With a pillow under your head, you get a great view of your partner’s back. She can control the depth and pace in this position.

Technique: The partner in this position lies on his back with his legs outstretched. Ask your partner to kneel next to you, then turn and spread your legs, sitting facing you. The partner rises up and down as if riding on the partner’s penis.

Also try: Have your partner lean forward or backward to change the angle of your penis and get more stimulation.

Tip: From this position, it is easy for the partner to reach out to touch or direct the partner’s penis where it feels best.

15. Card position

Benefits: Double stimulation for your partner; for you – a great view of her back and the penetration of his penis in him.

Technique: Lying on your back, bend one leg with the other stretched. Your partner sits on your lap so that your thighs are on either side of your bent legs. Your partner can hold your knee and use it to support you.

Try it too: She can press hard on her partner’s bent thighs to get even more pleasant feelings by rubbing.

Tip: Your partner can massage your partner’s leg during the operation or reach out and touch her penis.

16. The lazy man

Benefits: Gives control to her, maintains intimacy.

Technique: Place pillows behind your back and sit on the bed with your legs outstretched. Your partner squats on your lap and moves up and down on the base of your foot. The partner uses one hand to push the penis into himself. The partner can easily control the depth and speed of movement.

Also try: From this position, you both fall into the position of a ‘spider’ or an even more challenging variation of this position called ‘X’.

17. David Copperfield

Benefits: This posture will be of little resistance to those partners who prefer strong, upward action.

Technique: Place a pillow under your partner’s hips to raise your pelvis. Bend her legs so she can place her legs on your shoulders.

Also try: intensify your oral efforts with simple hand movements: try to press lightly on your abdomen with your hands, stretching the skin away from the pubic bone and helping to expose the clitoris.

Tip: Let your tongue rest firmly and flat over the entire length of your vaginal entrance, then let your partner move and rub against your tongue.

18. Heir to the throne

Also Known As: Lazy Girl.

Benefits: The most important sex posture that will arouse your partner. Use this posture to help your partner adjust and relax.

Technique: Have your partner sit on a chair with their legs wide open. Next, you take control. Your partner can guide you easily and she will have a good view of what is going on between her legs.

Also try: Sit on a swivel chair and turn it left and right while holding your tongue still.

Tip: Insert your index finger and ring finger into your vagina and perform “come here” movements to wake her G-spot. Press the pubic bone with your tongue or other hand. This double stimulation, if executed accurately, will cause your partner to melt.

19. The service is closed

Technique: Direct stimulation of the clitoris may be uncomfortable for some women. In this case, it could help for your partner to shrink her legs during oral sex. With a little pressure, place your hand over her pubic bone, then work your tongue around your clitoris with firm tongue movements.

Tip: Use both your tongue and your finger joint during oral sex. The contrast between the soft tongue and the hard fingerbone will create a pleasant feeling.

20. Pretzel

Benefits: Deep dog-style face-to-face posture.

Technique: Kneel down and grasp your partner’s left leg between her while she is lying on her left side. Your partner wraps your right leg around the right side of your waist, allowing you to enter her vagina. Penetration from behind often causes back pain in women, but this sex posture allows the partner to relax comfortably while enjoying a deep penis penetration.

Also try: Manually stimulate your partner with your fingers. Or remove the penis and rub its head against your partner’s clitoris to bring him close to orgasm.

Tip: Treat a woman’s clitoris gently. It is more sensitive than your penis, so tap lightly at first. Some women even prefer gentle pressure around it rather than direct stimulation. Start slowly and gently, then increase speed and pressure.

08.12.2020.
Oral sex – the best poses for a woman’s pleasure

What is great foreplay without different variations of oral sex? Oral sex is a very creative form of foreplay, which, of course, is not limited to 69 poses. If you are one of the followers of oral pleasure in terms of delivery, you should definitely get acquainted with the 3 best oral sex poses, created especially to satisfy a woman’s pleasure boxes. Who knows, maybe tonight is the right time to let your tongue come out? She will definitely appreciate it!

Allows the partner to take precedence

Although the poses listed in this article are for the pleasure of the fair sex, this does not mean that ladies are allowed to fall on the couch with their legs open and wait for the wonders of the blue sky. On the contrary – allowing your partner to take on the role of leader – puts her in control! The more control the ladies have, the higher the pleasure peaks will be – she knows perfectly well what movements are needed to achieve a screaming orgasm!

Lie on a comfortable surface (sofa, bed, or mattress) and invite your loved one to “sit down” on your face. In this case, “sitting down” does not mean hampering your breathing process – it explains to your partner that her thighs should be gently pressed into your cheeks, while the lady’s female organs should be slightly above your mouth. This is the ideal height of the vagina, which will allow your loved one to fully control the situation and guide the movement of your tongue to the right place at the moment.

A combination of oral sex and “dog” posture

If your chosen partner is quite anxious to use the so-called “dog” posture in the context of traditional sex, advise her to try this sensual formation during oral sex as well. Ask your loved one to stand on all fours and start with gentle kisses on her back until she reaches her partner’s most sensitive area. This posture is especially successful because it allows you, as a provider of oral pleasure, to stimulate the lady’s flushed breasts with one hand.

Being on all fours, your partner’s vagina will have a particularly attractive look, which will allow you to look deeper and pay undivided attention to your beloved’s little labia.

Meet – entangle

Let’s take a look at what we consider to be the most beneficial oral pleasure posture, namely, give and receive at the same time! If swirling your tongue along your loved one’s slightly salty lips causes you a clear wave of arousal, make your partner get involved and give you pleasure too!

What can be done to make such a seemingly boring 69 position more exciting? Swap places! The beloved location at the bottom will allow you to vary the depth of penetration of your member into your partner’s mouth, but at the top you will be able to vary more comfortably with all possible combinations of tongue revolutions. The perfect outcome for the evening is guaranteed!

Did you know that oral sex is also possible alone?

Exactly! If it so happens that you have to spend some time apart, advise your loved one to make up with sex toys specially made for oral pleasure. Such pleasure tools are available to both female and male audiences and will perfectly mimic the tongue or juicy lip trains. A great gift for oral pleasure enthusiasts!

08.11.2020.
13 historical sex facts that are not taught in school

Sexy gossip is nothing new. It is safe to say that as long as sex has existed (read: people), there have been various fetishes, strangeness, and all the juicy facts associated with it. Although attitudes towards sex have changed over the years, depending on culture and perspective, one thing is the same: people definitely like to have sex.

Here are some interesting sex facts and stuff that are definitely not taught in school:

1600 BC: In Egypt, women used a cotton cloth soaked in a mixture of fruit juice, honey, and dates as a spermicide and placed it in their vaginas.

In 700 BC: the ancient Greeks, who went to war, gave their wives bread dildos or ‘olbocollicus‘, which replaced them in their absence.

54 BC: Cleopatra is said to have filled a box of papyrus with bees to use as a vibrator.

1200:

During the Jin Dynasty, the Chinese began using many crazy sex toys, such as penis rings and sleeves.

In addition, there have been reports of the use of goat’s eyelids (with lashes still attached, possibly to promote clitoral stimulation in female partners). Eventually, penis rings made of ivory and jade began to appear in the 1600s, and some of them even had dragons with carved fork tongues.

1300: In France, men are sometimes forced to masturbate in court to prove that they can do so.

1450: The first mention of pubic wigs or ‘mercenaries’ is made. There are two general theories as to why a pubic hair wig was needed during the day: one is that prostitutes had to shave their hair to avoid pubic lice, but they did not want to look so ‘naked’. The second theory notes that prostitutes wore mercenaries to hide any signs of syphilis.

1790–1809: Napoleon wrote to Josephine’s wife: “ I will be home in eight days. Don’t wash! Says Karol Que, PhD, a permanent sexologist at Good Vibrations.

1848-1880:

The pre-Hippie sex community ‘Oneida’ was established in New York State. ” When we think of sex and communes, we usually imagine communities in the 1960s, but also communities in the 19th century,” says sexologist Queen. The Oneidians believed in a system of “free love” in which any member could have sex with any other member of the community as long as they agreed. At the end of the commune, the Oneida silverware company was established, and yes, it is still operating.

1894 – Michigan physician John Harvey Kellogg invents Kellogg’s breakfast cereal in an effort to curb masturbation. He thought that the tastier the food, the more likely you would not be aroused.

1900 – Vibrators were invented to treat women with a condition called “hysteria,” according to sexologist Quina. The healing effects of vibrators were called “hysterical relief paroxysms”. Fortunately, the word “orgasm” is shorter.

In 1917, the first LGBT publications, Les Mouches Fantastiques, were launched in North America. They were created by Montreal-based lesbian poet Elsa Gidlova and her friend Roswell George Mills.

1918 – 30,000 women are imprisoned under the Chamberlain-Kahn Act, later called the American Plan. The goal of the American plan was to combat the spread of STDs among American soldiers by targeting American women directly. These women were forced to undergo gynecological examinations, imprisoned, and subjected to horrific “treatment”, including sterilization, as well as treatment for mercury and arsenic if they were diagnosed with STDs. Sex workers, dark-skinned women, and immigrant women were treated even more harshly.

The fact that mercury treatment and sterilization did not work was not taken into account, as venereal disease vectors were mostly soldiers.

The 1970s: Two swingers infiltrate the Central Intelligence Agency or CIA. Karl F. Koher (a Czech intelligence officer and KGB spy) and his wife, Hanna Kohere, used their swing and exchange sex parties to gain intimate access to useful people and other valuable information.

08.10.2020.
Anal sex – myths and untruths

Regardless of your gender, it is safe to say that more than once in your life you have encountered myths about one of the greatest taboos or anal sex of the Latvian people. Some of them are extremely stupid, but others make you look wide and put a huge cross on the introduction of anal sex in real life. What are the most common myths about so-called “bottom love” and is this event really as bad as it is? Let’s take a look behind the scenes of anal love.

Anal pleasures are painful

In our opinion, this is the most common and, at the same time, the most false misconception. Anal sex can be very enjoyable for both a man and a woman and provide indescribably enjoyable feelings that have never been experienced before. It is often the representatives of the beautiful sex who suppress concerns about the pain of anal sex, but this is only because this myth has a bad tendency to spread at the speed of light.

It should be noted that some inconvenience and concern may be caused by a partner’s inexperience in the process of anal sex foreplay. It takes time and patience, but it is definitely worth it.

“Anal Sex” gives orgasm only to males

Another myth that has gained widespread popularity is that anal games provide maximum enjoyment for men only. It must be said that orgasm in itself is a rather difficult topic, especially among women, but it could not be said that during orphan love, female orgasm is a rare phenomenon. On the contrary! Most women who have given birth to anal love games at least once in their lives admit that orgasm during anal pleasure is possible – it only takes time and proper stimulation.

Enema procedures should be performed before anal sex

The word “enema” sounds scary, will you agree, right? Various sites in the depths of the Internet claim that enema before engaging in anal sex is not recommended, but mandatory.

Down with enemas! This myth is absolutely untrue and there is no need to worry about getting dirty! Medical experts emphasize that it is practically impossible for a male member to come into contact with feces or pieces of feces because they are much higher in the human body than the place where a man’s belongings can reach.

Of course, a warm shower before and after anal sex will never go wrong and will help get rid of the bacteria found on the way.

Only women want to receive it

Who claimed that only women want to “get” anal penetration? That’s right – this type of sex can also please a man’s feelings! In fact, a man’s anal build is much more grateful to enjoy the pleasures of “bottom love.” What does that really mean? The man’s prostate is about half a finger (index finger) from the entrance to the anus, and stimulating it with one of the sex toys, or the aforementioned finger, may seem particularly pleasing to the man.

It is high time to abandon the stupid stereotype that only a woman can feel the role of a “recipient” of anal sex. Heterosexual men also enjoy the indescribable pleasure of the beloved woman’s touch in the anal area. What are you waiting for? Take action!

At the end of the article, it is only necessary to mention that anal sex is one of the things that should definitely be included in your “bucket list”. Yes, maybe someone will not like it or it will seem uncomfortable, but most will be excited about the newly acquired peaks of pleasure.

08.10.2020.
The sexiest accountant

It was a dream I loved on stage. We decorated the stage for an unknown reason, and for an even more incomprehensible reason, she leaned over to see her socks and black strings under her short black dress. I had scissors in my hands as created for her lovely panties. I put one hand on her back, forcing me to lean on the table, the other hand-operated the scissors, then my zipper, and I was in it – completely, unstoppable, irresistible, alternately in the vagina and ass, I was tense, I felt my own pulse. I grabbed her by the hips and she came to me in both places of love. I found her clit with my other hand – it was hot and wet. My second breath was born – I wanted to give her the best orgasm. She screamed, there was applause somewhere behind the curtain, the curtain moved. I cover her mouth with my hand and fuck me cruelly, the ramp lights turn on, the applause alternates with applause, she shrinks like agony, embracing my member tightly and I explode in her – I was awakened by Rita, our new financier. ”Hey, are you asleep? The chef wanted to see the new project! ”

I drank a glass and from a business talk, I remember the slice of Rita in her short dress and I wonder if she has socks today, if she has strings, if they are wet, or if she is as worried as I can have an orgasm on her face, or she has a gymnast vagina that can wrap my dick tightly and again from the beginning – does she have socks… All nonsense ever ends and this meeting too. I drank a glass of water again, but it did not benefit my anxious member. The idea was born to drink something hot, like coffee. I went to the office kitchenette. I opened the door, and Rita was working along with the coffee pot. As a student, I watched her through the gap and waited for her to finally bend over to put the coffee back on the table. My eyes were on her slender legs and the slit of her dress, I tried to see if she had socks on her legs. I appreciated the shape of her ass and even more – I saw the boundary between the two hemispheres and could mistakenly slip a finger into her soft hole. Rita twisted her hips and leaned over.

I had variegated eyes – she was wearing socks and blue strings! The next thing happened automatically – I was in the kitchen for a moment, I put my hand on her back, the finger of the other hand slid flawlessly into her hot vagina, I felt my cock swell. Rita got in, I chaotically stuffed her mouth with a pear than there was no better hand, with cramped fingers, she opened the zipper, she moved tightly, put her dick on her already wet panties, I slipped her finger into her vagina again – this time it was not only hot but also moist, fertile moist. I didn’t have time to struggle with her exquisite panties, I took a bread knife, it was like it was made to cut my panties, and I was in her – deep and capable, and only then did I realize that it all happened automatically and that it was too late to apologize or resign. I glanced at her hemisphere and at her mature member, who, driven by inertia, disappeared into Rita’s heat and humidity every moment, grabbed her by the hips and she came to me, every time I managed to get into him more and more, I wanted to love her everything, I wanted her ass. The last push – I couldn’t do more and more, but I managed even deeper, a little more capable, his Elsa. Then I opened her hemisphere with both hands

I aimed at her ass and walked slowly inside her. Rita tightened her ass, I clenched her clit and could break more freely in the ass that surrounded my penis like a tight ring. I broke in him and broke slowly and endlessly, all my blood was there, in him, I was everything in him. I lay on top of Rita, she was bent over, I slid her finger into her vagina and held her in her ass dozens, hundreds of times, outside of her ass, she couldn’t move, she had MY – completely, she stabbed MAN at every push, she had the coolest ass in the world and I had the biggest member in the world. Rita screamed with pleasure and I wanted her to float, to get dizzy from me, to moan, to have the greatest orgasm. I sat her on the table, I wanted to see her heated vulva, see her mature lips TUR, her face orgasm as I make her happy. I slid into her vagina slowly, she was so ready to leave completely, it crazy me, I wanted to love her in both places even more than before. I opened the hemisphere again and went into the ass, it immediately covered me with iron, I fucked her, then I remembered that I wanted to love her in both places at the same time, I left her gaze and there was a pear, I couldn’t find anything better at hand. I took it by the narrowest end and slid it into Rita’s wet vagina. I opened the hemisphere again and went into the ass, it immediately covered me with iron, I fucked her, then I remembered that I wanted to love her in both places at the same time, I left her gaze and there was a pear, I couldn’t find anything better at hand. I took it by the narrowest end and slid it into Rita’s wet vagina. I opened the hemisphere again and went into the ass, it immediately covered me with iron, I fucked her, then I remembered that I wanted to love her in both places at the same time, I left her gaze and there was a pear, I couldn’t find anything better at hand. I took it by the narrowest end and slid it into Rita’s wet vagina.

Her legs were shaking, I would stretch them as much as possible, we both needed a lot of space. I work with pears in one rhythm, then alternately. The pear disappeared here, it appeared here, Rita’s eyes were fogging, she was floating, she was screaming, I was forced to stuff her mouth with the same pear, she got caught in my already panties and I fucked her, I caught her in the ass and she came to me, I came in her, I tore her to pieces, I made her moan, I made her essential, just mine and I made her vaginal muscles contract and be the most beautiful woman. Rita was beautiful during orgasm and I always remember her when I think of the sexiest financiers…

07.20.2020.
Passion

It was a small but cozy room.
The smell of flowers and candles vibrated in the air. A mysterious, intriguing, and exciting melody sounded. He wanted to turn on the light, but she stopped, saying, “No need, I’ll pour us some wine right away.” With glasses of wine in her hands, slowly rocking her hips to the beat of the music, she approached, looking directly into his defiantly stubborn eyes.

Overcoming her own timidity and prejudice, because tonight she wanted to forget everything, giving in to her wild passion. This time she wanted it in spite of everything, even the thought that she might never see her again after that could not stop her. Her whole being longs for him.
He stood and looked at them with eyes full of astonishment, which had rarely been seen by anyone. He watched her approach, her eyes gleaming, the candlelight playing with her stature.

He liked it, but he was stubborn and always wanted to be a determinant. Her lips touched the glass and after taking one sip she came closer and closer. Slowly but surely, because something had made her think she wasn’t the only one who wanted it. She had noticed the lights of lust burning in his eyes as he watched him in secret. But he hesitated and did not even move to approach her. Maybe he was afraid to burn in the fires of her passion, but now she could no longer control it and had been released.

She took a glass of wine from his hands and placed it on the floor. Her lips burned with passion, unable to bear the hesitation. He was amazed at such daring and waited stubbornly for as long as she had enough courage and patience. Grasping the collar of her shirt with her hands, she kissed him hotly. It was a single second when his hands pulled out his shirt so that all the buttons tore and flew where they happened.
He kissed him, stroking his body, but he stood numb without even touching her. He kissed him again and felt small drops of sweat on his forehead.

She had also noticed that his body was shaking with lust, but he was reluctant to show it. Well, if he’s so insensitive, I don’t have to – he thought to himself. She turned, took her glass of wine, and, as cool as he had stood all this time, when she had let go of her passion, went to the terrace to watch the sunset….
He was confused as he recovered and saw her move away. Now was his time, because the situation had not turned out exactly as he had intended.
He approached her quietly. He placed his hands on her shoulders and leaned on his neck, he touched it with the tip of his tongue. He reached close to her hips with gentle hand movements. As she watched the sunset, she had not noticed his approach, and the touch inadvertently made her breathe, feeling a tremor of his height, and her body took over again.

She approached him and let him believe he had won. She succumbed to his gentle hands, but inside she was still furious and offended. In her thoughts, she cursed herself for her own boldness and damn passion. She wanted to hate all men for waking up to her again and again. But she couldn’t because it was her nature.
She was ready to give up all her passion, but in return, she wanted to get the same. And how cool he was a moment ago did not allow her to answer with the full return. She stepped down and said, don’t try to strain yourself for me if you don’t want to! Don’t even think that one touch of yours will make me forget everything! She thought.

As if understanding her thought, he thought to herself – Something needs to be fixed in this game! With a strong grasp, he pulled her close and squeezed her lips with his own before protesting. She didn’t try to answer yet, trying to get out. However, he did not allow it, and slowly, almost insistently, she began to button up her blouse until it was finally open. She felt her fingers touch the ends of her nipples, stroking them. Feeling a tickling touch, they quickly turned into large chocolate peas.
Changes like an avalanche captivated her whole being, and she gave in to caresses, kisses that became more and more tender and sensual. Her inner determination to be steadfast disappeared and she approached him more closely.
He lifted him up and carried him to bed, slowly lying down with him. His hands caressed her body from her clothes until she was completely naked, then she also got rid of her clothes with purposeful movements. Curled up on her body, her lips sliding gently down her neck until she touched the swollen ends of her breasts again, he began to gently squeeze them. His hand approached her lap carefully. Feeling his hand, she moaned quietly. With his foot as if unnoticed, he slipped between her legs, slipping between them.

His whole body was overwhelmed and quick, but gently he entered it. She felt us enter her and instinctively tensed her muscles, embracing her as if she had bound her strong body with her hands. They began to move slowly and deeply, adapting to each other until it switched to fast, hectic movements alternating with endless kisses and caresses.

There was no more time, no space, no more than forbidden. She screamed and her body trembled. As if waiting for him, he shuddered and, embracing loudly with insane force, embraced him. She felt a strong current trickle into her lap, creating the long-awaited peak of pleasure in her. Her whole body trembled with well-being, and each cell tried to get as much pleasure as possible, giving it to its fullest.

Until finally they fell asleep quietly and peacefully in each other’s embrace…

07.20.2020.
Learn the most intimate body areas of your girlfriend

The first step: get to know her

– Encourage her to lie on her back and spread her legs as wide as she is comfortable.

– Offer her extra pillows if she wants to watch what you do. Being able to see each other and maintain eye contact will allow you to maintain emotional intimacy.

– Lie on your stomach with your face between her thighs. If your neck becomes stiff, try to kneel next to her and approach from above.

– Waiting is the most powerful aphrodisiac. Tease her by licking and kissing the inside of her thighs, stimulating the area around her genitals, and rubbing her cheek along her pubic hair.

Attention! Forget everything you’ve seen in porn movies! If oral sex is shown at all, it is usually short and cold-blooded.

Step 2: Use your tongue

At this point, it gets really interesting…

– Distinguishes her pubic hair by hand. If she has had a Brazilian wax, the pubic lips open up lightly, completely exposing the clitoral area.

– The best way to warm him is to move the tongue slowly from the entrance of the vagina to the head of the clitoris.

– The tongue must be flat and released under moderate pressure. There is nothing worse than digging with a hard, pointed tip. Remember that the underside of the tongue is softer than the top with taste buds.

– After repeated slow and sweet licking with a flat tongue pressed against her clitoris and gently shake it.

Light flicks of the clitoris can work wonders, just don’t use your teeth.
Attention! Don’t be afraid to use your nose, it can perfectly push your pubic hair and gently pinch her slit, pubic lips, and clitoris. Of course, make sure you don’t have a runny nose and you can breathe.

The third step: become a detective

– Moaning, trembling, pelvic movements, and shouts: “Oh god!” is a good sign. Constant breath and stiffness of the dead – bad.

– For some women, pleasure can be shy – light movement or shortness of breath indicates that you are on the right track.

– The clitoris is much more sensitive than your penis, and if some women like strong and fast stimulation, others dislike it.

Attention! If you feel that she is responsive, you can also try to gently stimulate the outer and inner labia, vaginal opening, and skin between her vagina and anus.

Step Four: Learn Some More Advanced Techniques

– Eighth. With your tongue, draw an eight-shaped figure in the clitoral area.

– Chupachup. Gently suck her clit or take as much of her genital area in her mouth as you can. Your greed will be appreciated!

– Tongue march. Gently insert the tongue into the vagina, giving her a stunning feeling.

– Trick with your fingers. Many women like the sensations caused by a finger or fingers inserted into their vagina or anus while you lick your clitoris. At first, check for vibration, as this technique may seem too intrusive if not desired.

– Doggy style. Have your girl fall on all fours so you can please her from behind.

Attention! Never stop finding out! Just because you’ve found one trick that makes her moan out of pleasure doesn’t mean there aren’t many others.

Step Five: Go for Gold

– Don’t worry if it doesn’t work out. Not everything goes according to plan, but that doesn’t mean you haven’t given her pleasure.

– If she does not give a sign that it may end soon, or if you want to relax, offer a continuation with the help of your hands.

– If it seems that the climax is approaching, do not start rushing automatically. Slow movements can also cause shocking sensations.

Attention! If your partner reaches orgasm, find out at what point she wants you to stop working with your tongue. Too long a delay can be just as unpleasant as a hasty interruption.

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Oral sex
If you are satisfied:

During oral sex, the partner’s saliva dissolves the layer of fat and disrupts the normal microflora of the mucous membranes of the genitals – the biological protective layer of the mucous membrane is destroyed. The mucous membrane becomes easily traumatized and microtraumas occur. These microtraumas can be a gateway to infections such as syphilis, herpes virus, and hepatitis B and C (jaundice).

Saliva levels of the HIV virus are low to cause infection. During prolonged oral sex, bleeding microtraumas may occur on the lips, corners of the lips, or bleeding gums (especially if the teeth have been cleaned before contact). Microtraumas can also occur in the mucous membranes of the penis, labia, clitoris or anus. In this case, the risk of contracting HIV / AIDS increases significantly. The risk of becoming infected with HIV / STDs increases in proportion to the duration of sex – the longer the contact, the higher the risk of infection.

In addition to these diseases, fungal inflammatory processes can cause problems. These problems can also occur if you have one independent sexual partner:

In men, complaints are usually of an unpleasant itching sensation under the foreskin, redness of the head of the penis, and increased plaque formation under the foreskin;

In women – redness and itching of the mucous membranes of the external genitalia.

Fungi are usually activated when the normal mucosal flora of the mucosa is disrupted.

How to avoid infection:
- reduce the number of occasional sexual contacts;
- always use condoms or latex films during accidental contact;
- Lubricants for oral sex should be used if condoms are not used to reduce mucosal trauma and slightly reduce the risk of HIV / STD infection. It is recommended to use the lubricant even if you have one regular sexual partner.
- For the prevention of yeast infection after washing or after contact, it is recommended to lubricate the head of the penis with one of the antifungal ointments.
If you are satisfied:

Usually, during an erection, mucous fluid is released from the urethra of a man’s penis, but in women, mucus is released from the vagina, which can contain any microorganism that causes STDs (gonococcus, trichomonas, Gardnerella, etc.) by sucking and licking your partner’s genitals. Saliva has antibacterial properties, as a result of which some microbes can be destroyed. If there are enough microorganisms and they are virulent (viable) – they can cause tonsillitis – angina. Usually, on the second or third day there is a sore throat, difficulty swallowing, and there may be a fever.

Satisfying someone orally, you can become infected with syphilis – then after an incubation period of an average of 21 days, a painless ulcer will form on the lips, tongue, tonsils, or cheek, and the lymph nodes will increase.

In addition to these diseases, you can also get viral hepatitis A, B, or C (jaundice).

Concentrations of HIV in the male penis are low. When exposed to saliva in the mouth, the virus is inactivated, so the risk of becoming infected with HIV is very low. The risk increases if microtraumas occur on the lips or in the corners of the lips. The risk of contracting HIV / STDs is particularly high if the partner ejaculates (stops) in the mouth.

The levels of the HIV virus in a woman’s vaginal secretions are high enough to allow her to become infected with HIV.

Eye contact is possible while playing with a partner’s member. Infections such as gonococcus can be brought into the eyes, which can lead to loss of vision during the day; chlamydia, which can cause chronic inflammation of the eyelids.

If your partner has had anal contact with someone before you have been in contact with you. You have the potential to become infected with nematodes, scabies, dysentery, and other infectious diseases. There is also a risk of getting these diseases by irritating or licking your partner’s anal area.

How to avoid infection:
- It is necessary to limit the number of casual sexual contacts and partners;
- Always use a condom or latex film during occasional contact. During oral sex, the condom can only be placed on the head of the partner’s penis. Condoms lubricated with sperm ointment should not be used as they can cause allergic inflammation of the oral mucosa, so it is recommended to use condoms lubricated with a special lubricant (‘Taste’) that have different flavors. Condoms lubricated with anesthetin (“Strength”) are not recommended for oral sex;
- Have oral sex no sooner than 2 hours after brushing your teeth, including using dental floss. Brushing your teeth causes microtrauma and bleeding gums, which can increase the risk of infection. Therefore, it would be better to brush your teeth after oral sex;
- If your partner has ejaculated (finished) in your mouth, you should spit or swallow the sperm immediately. When sperm enters the mouth, saliva creates a protective layer that lasts for a very short time. It is then recommended to rinse the mouth with oral disinfectant solutions or to chew gum that increases salivary secretion.
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Anal sex
Compared to other types of sex, anal sex has the highest risk of contracting HIV / STDs. For some, such contact is enjoyable, while for others it can be painful and traumatic. There is a risk of infection if such contact has not taken place at all – it has only been attempted.

Although anal sex is the most common cause of HIV infection compared to other forms of sex, anal sex can also be safe.

Always use condoms and lubricants during anal sex!

During anal sex, microtraumas always occur both on the penis and in the anal area. When the penis is inserted into the anus, the sphincter and mucous membranes of the anus are stretched, which almost always causes microtraumas. Microtrauma to the penis is most commonly caused by the attachment of the foreskin and ligament to the head of the penis.

The use of lubricants, gentle treatment of the partner, and dilation of the anal opening – reduction of the resistance of the sphincter of the anal opening – can reduce the occurrence of microtrauma injuries.

The possible problems can be divided into two categories:
1. Injuries – Various injuries can occur when inserting the penis. Injuries can also occur during sexual intercourse if your partner’s movements are rapid or brutal. Anal trauma is usually accompanied by pain, discomfort and bleeding. With microtraumas, the bleeding will be negligible – virtually imperceptible. Regular trauma to the anus can cause inflammation of the veins, leading to the formation of hemorrhoids. Excessive trauma to the anus may result in rupture of the sphincter.
2. Infection – without a condom, there is a high chance of becoming infected with HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases, even if your partner does not ejaculate (if your partner does not stop you). It is possible to become infected with all known STDs during anal sex, especially if a condom is not used and ejaculation occurs in the rectum.
In 50% of cases, STDs in the rectum go without complaints!

Anal trauma can be reduced by:
- it is desirable to sit in a warm bath or bowl of water for 10-15 minutes before contact, as heat treatments relax muscle tension and make it easier for them to relax;
- during sex use a lot of lubricant – lubricants that improve slipperiness;
- promote the loosening of the anal opening sphincter prior to penile insertion. It would be advisable to lubricate the anal area with a lubricant, then slowly begin to relax the entrance to the anus with your fingers or special “toys”. Insert one finger first, then two fingers into the anus. And only when the insertion of the fingers is not difficult and the muscles are noticeably relaxed can the penis be inserted slowly;
- during exercise of the penis, do not tense, but try to relax in the same way as during defecation;
- the less traumatic, the greater the muscle relaxation is in the so-called “doggy” position – leaning on the elbows and knees and with your back towards your partner. This position will make it easier for your partner to gently inject your penis.
After contact, you should wash and lubricate the anal area with 2% Troxovazine gel – this will promote the healing of microtraumas and prevent inflammation.

To avoid becoming infected with HIV / STDs:
- Anal sex is practiced only with one regular partner who does not use intravenous drugs. If your partner uses intravenous drugs – refuse such contact or use a condom!
- Choose a less risky type of sex during casual sex – masturbation or oral sex;
- In casual contacts – regardless of whether the partner is known or unfamiliar, it is mandatory to use a condom during anal sex;
- Unlike the active partner (who is injecting), the passive partner (who is injecting) cannot take specific preventive measures after sexual intercourse to prevent HIV / STD infection. The passive partner is more at risk of infection.
If you enter the penis

There is a risk of minor microtraumas and the risk of contracting HIV, sexually transmitted diseases, and other diseases caused by the rectum.

During anal sex, even without a condom with a regular partner, there is a possibility that the intestinal microflora (intestinal rod, etc.) enters the urethra, which can cause non-specific inflammatory products in the urethra and prostate.

STDs (gonorrhea, trichomoniasis, etc.) in the rectum occur in 50% of cases without complaints, so your partner may not know that you are ill. Also in the first stage of syphilis, a syphilitic ulcer (chancre) may be in the rectum, which neither you nor your partner may know or feel. Therefore, there is a high risk of contracting any of these diseases.

As both partners almost always experience microtrauma during anal sex, you are also at risk of becoming infected with the HIV virus.

When you drive your penis inwards, it works like a piston trying to push everything forward. In the erect state, the opening of the urethra of the penis is more open and without the use of a condom, the contents of the rectum (mucus with microorganisms, feces) are “expelled” in the urethra. Because of this, there is a high risk of micro-organisms capable of causing inflammation entering the urethra.

Complaints may occur 2-7 days after contact for discomfort while urinating. There may be no complaints if the inflammation is chronic. In the case of a chronic prostate, the first complaints may appear after 5 to 7 years.

Initially, various types of sexual disorders may occur (premature ejaculation, decreased libido, etc.); there may be pulling, discomfort in the perineum; difficulty urinating (need to urinate at night), and other complaints.

After contact, the foreskin may swell, this is observed in cases where microtraumas occur in the foreskin, in which various microorganisms enter (intestinal rod, Gardnerella, etc.). Usually the day after contact, the foreskin becomes thick, red, and it is difficult to pull it over the head of the penis.

The most common injuries are a rupture of a ligament. Complaints usually appear immediately after sexual intercourse – an unpleasant burning and aching sensation under the head of the penis.

To avoid becoming infected with HIV / STDs:
- Always use a condom during anal contact, whether with a well-known or completely unknown partner!
- If you have one regular sexual partner who does not use intravenous drugs and you do not use a condom during sexual intercourse, you should:
1. before contact, the partner should empty the rectum (perform an act of defect). For this purpose, special microclips are available in pharmacies, after which the abdomen is excreted within 5-10 minutes;
2. it would be desirable for the partner to rinse the rectum with the help of an enema;
3. make extensive use of lubricants. Thoroughly lubricate both the penis and the partner’s anus. Paying special attention to the head of the penis, including the opening of the urethra. It is desirable to use antibacterial lubricants. For anal sex, it would not be advisable to use a nonoxylone lubricant (as this may cause irritation of the intestinal mucosa.
4. before inserting the penis, thoroughly massage the anus with your fingers to relax the muscles;
5. at first, inject the penis very slowly and gently;
6. after sexual intercourse it is definitely necessary to wash and it would be desirable to have a shower;
7. after washing, lubricate the penis with an antifungal or anti-inflammatory ointment.
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Self-satisfaction and the risk of infection

Self-satisfaction – onanation, masturbation. Self-satisfaction is based on various expressions of tenderness that are used to achieve sexual arousal and satisfaction.

The word “self-gratification” is the most appropriate term, because literally translated from Latin, the word masturbation means “shame on the hands.” Hands are not always used to satisfy oneself. Some do this by rubbing along the sheet with an object using a shower jet.

As a result of self-satisfaction, a person enjoys, relieves tension, and enjoys sexual satisfaction. Only old-fashioned people find it reprehensible and reprehensible. Self-satisfaction is one way of satisfying sexual desire, especially when there is no regular sexual partner. Some start self-satisfaction as a boy and continue to do so throughout their lives. Some start doing this at puberty, others at an older age. And there are those who have never done so. For many men and women, orgasm with self-satisfaction is physically stronger than having sex. This can be explained by the fact that you know and feel better what and how to do it to get more pleasure, which often your sexual partner cannot know and feel.

How often a person engages in self-satisfaction depends on the person himself, his mood, and situation. Some are satisfied every day, others once or twice a week, others more or less often. Although complacency is a normal physiological process, it should be noted that complacency can also be a manifestation of neurosis.

People for whom sexual activity serves to reduce or eliminate anxiety, restlessness (a form of neurosis) become very nervous, easily aroused if they cannot be sexually satisfied for a period of time. Neuroses can be based on many different reasons – not accepting one’s sexual orientation, lack of love and understanding from the people around us, lack of a permanent partner, etc.

Self-satisfaction is the safest form of sex during which it is not possible to become infected with HIV / AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) if you do it alone and you do not have contact with your partner’s semen or vaginal secretions. If you and your partner satisfy yourself individually, but your partner ends up on you (sperm gets on your skin or mucous membranes), there is a certain risk of getting HIV / AIDS and STDs (syphilis!).

There may also be some problems with complacency. In men, the most common complaints after complacency are foreskin edema. The foreskin becomes thicker and it is difficult to pull it over the head of the penis. This can occur in cases where complacency has been prolonged over time. Microtraumas occur in the foreskin of the penis, in which microorganisms enter the inflammatory process. It may also indicate a chronic inflammatory process in the urethra.

Frequent complacency (several times in a row) can lead to genital muscle overload, which can lead to atony of these muscles. It usually develops when the muscles of the seminal vesicles and prostate are overloaded regularly. As a result, ejaculation (sperm ejaculation) is disrupted – there is no normal – spontaneous ejaculation, but after orgasm, the sperm slowly flows out of the urethra.

Regular pressure on the urethra during ejaculation to prevent sperm from splashing out during orgasm can damage the bladder sphincter. The sperm is pushed into the bladder by force during ejaculation. This can lead to the relaxation of these muscles and urinary incontinence – urine will flow out of the bladder arbitrarily.

When it comes to self-satisfaction, mutual masturbation (deep petting) should be mentioned, when the partners are sexually aroused and satisfied by touching and stroking the partner’s genitals with their hands. If your partner’s semen or vaginal discharge comes into contact with your skin or mucous membranes (mouth, penis head, anus), there is a risk of becoming infected with HIV / AIDS and STDs.

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