To make you understand that fetishes are completely normal and many have them, here is a list of celebrities who have different fetishes.
Kristen Stewart
Actress Kristen Stewart of the popular “Twilight” saga has a very strange armpit fetish. In several interviews, this young woman admitted that she likes the smell and the process during which her partner lickes her armpits.
Jennifer Lawrence
This actress’s fetish is not much stranger than armpits. They are… sponges.
Charlie Chaplin
The legendary silent film actor Charlie Chaplin enjoyed throwing pies at naked women.
Russell Brand
Actor and comedian Russell Brand often has sex with imaginary women. Yes, you understood correctly.
Enrique Iglesias
The popular musician turns out to have a very popular fetish. He is sexually attracted to feet.
Christina Aguilera
This singer has a latex clothing fetish, which is also very popular.
John Mayer
Like his song “You’re Body Is A Wonderland,” John Mayer likes to smear whipped cream all over his lady’s body and then lick it off.
Matthew McConaughey
This actor is aroused by nothing but food!
James Franco
In an interview, one of Hollywood’s funniest men, James Franco, said, “Sometimes I’m excited about rabbits. I do not know why.”
Jada Pinkett Smith
If you are wondering what the secret of Jada and Will Smith’s long marriage was, it was probably her fetish. Jada is an exhibitionist and enjoys naughty sex in public.
Ricky Martin
Have you heard of the gold shower? To be specific, you want someone else to urinate on you or vice versa. It turns out the singer Ricky Martin likes it.
Robert Pattinson
Judging by his fetish, the actor was supposed to play a werewolf instead of a vampire in Twilight. The actor has a fetish about different scents – not just perfumes, but all human smells in general. The actor himself is convinced that it is related to pheromones.
Amy Winehouse
The owner of a great voice encountered a spanking fetish during her troubled life. Her ex-partner said it could last for hours.
Fetishes are a topic that interests everyone. Some people are not afraid to admit that they have a fetish, others look at them and think that they definitely have something wrong with their heads.
The word “fetish” was first used to denote the worship of certain religious objects when they were endowed with supernatural powers. For example, various statuettes or crosses. When we hear this word today, we immediately associate it with sexual arousal. A fetish is a specific part, object or characteristic of the human body that causes sexual arousal.
Nowadays, this word is so common that sometimes it loses its meaning. For example, if you like that women wear high-heels, that doesn’t immediately mean it’s a foot fetish. Nor does the fact that someone is aroused by a certain smell mean that it is a sexual deviation. There are many different fetishes to name, and they are all normal, as long as they don’t interfere with your daily life.
Am I insane?
When can a fetish be diagnosed as a mental disorder? To understand this issue, let’s first look at the criteria for diagnosing fetish disorders according to the “Manual of Diagnosis and Statistics of Mental Disorders“. Fetishes are considered to fall into the same category as voyeurism and exhibitionism and meet three criteria:
The first criterion: you must have sexual desire that targets a part of the body other than the genitals, or is a non-living object that has lasted for more than six months. They must be expressed in fantasies, desires or behavior.
The second criterion: your fantasies, desires or behavior have caused you considerable suffering or disrupted your daily life.
Third criterion: the object cannot be the clothing you use to change (for example, a man changes into a woman’s clothes) and it cannot be a stimulating device, such as a vibrator. So the desire to dress in women’s clothes or use a vibrator is not a fetish.
So for a fetish to be considered disruptive, it must somehow cause you serious inconvenience and last for at least six months. On the other hand, if these criteria are not met, then the particular fetish is a simple sexual interest in activities or objects that you find pleasing.
So as long as your fetishes don’t cause serious problems in your daily life, it’s not worth worrying about and blaming yourself.
Fetish categories
Although there are many fetish objects, they can be divided into three main categories:
Material fetish – A person with such a fetish usually feels very attached to a certain material, such as latex, rubber, silk or leather. This kind of fetish is quite common and it is quite easy to live with.
Object fetish – a person with this category of fetishes feels craving for certain things, such as high heels or underwear;
Fetish of body parts is a craving for, for example, feet, hair, buttocks, etc.
Fetish objects
A person who is not exposed to this subject may have many questions, for example, what exactly are classified as fetish objects? The truth is that it can be almost anything. Imagine any object, and there will probably be at least one person in the world who will have a fetish to it. People have the most unusual fetishes – it just once again shows how different we are and how diverse the world is. Let’s look at some examples:
Cravings for body modifications such as tattoos or earrings;
Craving for certain clothing, such as socks, skirts or underwear;
Craving for rubber or leather materials;
Craving for certain types of footwear, such as high-heeled shoes;
Cravings only for certain parts of the body, such as the feet (classic foot fetish), mouth, nails, etc.
Craving for head or body hair;
Craving for less common items such as stethoscopes, soothers or diapers;
Lactophilia – craving for breastfeeding;
Menophilia – craving for menstrual blood;
Excitement that occurs when you see someone sneezing.
How does fetishes become alive?
This question is most often asked by people who do not have a fetish themselves, or by those who are afraid to admit it to themselves, because it is difficult to understand how certain objects or human qualities that have no obvious sexual significance in our lives can cause arousal. According to the “Health Line” magazine, there are many reasons why we are bound by one thing or another.
First, some people are more sexually aroused than others. For example, if you accidentally come into contact with a traditionally non-sexual part of your body (feet or fingers) in an intimate situation, the person may like it, and then he or she will naturally begin to see and use it as a sexual object.
Personality is also important – in 2014, a survey was conducted in which 270 people practicing BDSM were interviewed. The results of the survey show that those who like a dominant role have different characteristics than those who take on a submissive role. The sense of power and control was important to the dominant, they were more confident, while the group of the submissive indicated emotionality and expression of feelings as the most important. Both groups valued empathy, honesty, altruism and pleasure equally.
Another aspect that significantly affects the expression of our sexuality is childhood and adolescence, its experiences and traumas. If the subject is enjoyable and important in early adolescence, when our sexuality is just beginning to reveal, there is a good chance that we will associate it with sexuality in the future. The same “Health Line” article talks about Williams, a man with a diaper fetish, and a lifestyle in which adults are considered babies.
While this may sound strange, there are even special communities where people can go and feel safe talking about their fetishes. In the article, he says that he first saw a man in diapers at the age of about 16 when he surfed the Internet. Even then, the idea seemed attractive to him, only at that time he was not yet aware of the existing large community and could not clearly state what he was feeling.
Fetish and relationships
When it comes to fetishes, it is important to talk openly with your partner, trying to include fetishes in your relationship whenever possible. Our partners must accept all forms of our sexuality, not try to get rid of them, because only then can a full and dignified relationship be possible in which we can realize our needs.
For example, if you have a foot fetish, you can sometimes include foot massage or other activities you like in your intimate activities. The desire for a particular material, such as latex, could be filled by changing from time to time. Even if you feel that some fetishes are starting to interfere with your daily routine, talk to your partner and seek help together.
An American researcher claims that all fetishes are weirdos, but not all weirdnesses are fetishes. Fetishes are sexual desires for inanimate objects, body parts, or situations that are not usually considered erotic. Strangeness is a broader term that encompasses a variety of sexual interests, behaviors, hobbies, and fantasies that are far from the most common norms. In this article, we will look at what are the most common sex fetishes and why people are prone to them.
An American researcher explains that fetishes and unusual sexual desires develop slowly.
A sexually aroused person can see something, say, a shoe, and eventually start arousing associated with shoes.
Or, by linking an object, a part of the body to an orgasm, the brain will expect the same thing in the future, so the person will look for the same object or part of the body.
Fetishes mostly seem like something forbidden, because many people think that they are very rare. In fact, most people have fetishes. Insects on the genitals? Cravings after vomiting? What else?
If you are willing to implement your fetishes with the other party, remember that exploring any fetish or sexual oddity requires the other person’s consent and patience.
FOR YOUR ATTENTION – A LIST OF FETISHES AND SEXUAL WEIRDNESS
1. Tying
Tying is the restriction of a partner’s movements with a rope, duct tape, or handcuffs. Tying is a game of domination and submission. When someone wants to be exposed, it is often because it makes them feel admired. The dominant partner demonstrates such undivided affection and attention.
Be warned that over-binding can not only be uncomfortable but can also depress nerves. The tying process must first be mastered and the so-called “security word” must be agreed upon, which, once pronounced, requires the immediate release of the partner.
2. Representation of drastically different ages
During this fetish, the partners behave as if they are at a different age than they really are. A common combination is an adult and a presumed infant or young child, or one is an adult, the other is already old and helpless. This game can be seen as a game of domination and obedience to which the youngest partner plays.
3. Hand fetish
The eroticization of a certain part of the body is called partialism, so the hand fetish is also called hand partism. Those with a hand fetish are sexually aroused by their fingers and hands. It is possible to crave a certain part of the hand, manicure, or certain hand actions – from washing dishes to caresses.
4. Foot fetish
Foot partialism means that you are sexually aroused by your feet. Such people want to see their feet, for example, in high heels, some are fascinated by foot massage or toe licking, others – pedicure, foot tattoos.
5. Somnophilia
Somnophilia or dormant beauty syndrome is when you are aroused to see a person who is sleeping or unconscious. This fetish also means a change of power – the one who is awake dominates. Of course, everyone has to be smart. Everyone needs to know what to expect and know that it can be stopped at any time, for any reason.
6. Catoptrophilia
Self-observation in the mirror during intercourse is called catoptrophilia. People who like such games have a mirror by the bed or they masturbate by the mirror. Adding this game to the bedroom requires the consent of your partner.
7. Sensory game
In the case of various sexual oddities, erotic games involve the whole body, not just the genitals. According to experts, sensory games also affect the genitals, but very often parts of the body that are not considered erogenous, such as the back, are involved. Sensory games focus on the body, the many sensations we can experience: massage, temperature changes, tickling and various other types.
8. Electrical stimulation
Electrical stimulation can be considered as part of sensory play. It uses a small electric shock to wake it up. The main focus is on the lower body, as it is important that the electrical device does not come too close to the heart. Beginners are advised to use controlled sex toys that combine pleasant vibration with an electric shock.
9. Mouth bandaging
Mouth bandages can be applied to domination and subjugation games. Sexologists explain that the subject’s helplessness is exacerbated by closing his mouth so that he cannot speak – he is humiliated. Exploring this sexual oddity with your partner requires openness, respect, and curiosity, not demands.
10. Role play
According to experts, many sexual oddities and fetishes can be attributed to the role of sexual roles, all the more so because many BDSM individuals agree in advance on his and their partner’s roles, the story – for example, a teacher and a naughty student. The partners discuss in advance what they want to do, their roles, and so on – all the information is known to both.
11. Voyeurism with the consent of both partners
In this case, the person is observed – how he undresses, falls in love, or engages in some other sexual activity. This sexual oddity should not be confused with human espionage, which is inappropriate and illegal. In our case, the observed person should enjoy it, even play with it in a way. Voyeurism often occurs at swing parties or parties with BDSM elements.
12. Sadism
Sadism refers to sexual arousal, thinking of the pain that is inflicted on someone else. “Pain” is a confusing word in the world of BDSM and it does not mean that someone is excited about a finger pressed into a door. BDSM fans prefer the term “intense feelings”, which means that a person likes to be beaten, slapped, or the like. These feelings are different from pain in other contexts, such pain stimulates the production of endorphins in the body. If a person is prone to sadism, the other partner should like masochism, ie the desire to experience pain.
13. Autonepiophilia
Autonepiophilia, or paraphilic infantilism, means that a person’s sexual pleasure is caused by changing or pretending to be a child. In this type of adult play, one usually plays the father or mother and the other the child. The baby can be fed, wrapped in diapers, or similar. Studies have shown that the BDSM aspect often overlaps with paraphilic infantilism, as one person takes on a very humble role.
14. Lactophilia
In the case of autonepiophy, there may be great interest in a baby bottle with real breast milk, which can also become a fetish. According to experts, lactophiles are people who want to watch a woman breastfeed or drink her milk. For example, in a lactophilic relationship, there is a man and a woman with their milk – she experiences sexual pleasure while breastfeeding each other.
15. Urophilia
According to sex therapists, urophilia is a fetish when a person becomes sexually aroused when he is sniffed. Elements of BDSM are also possible here – the person being urinated is humble in front of each other.
16. Necrophilia
Horror film-worthy necrophilia is described as sexual arousal that occurs during sexual contact with a dead human body. According to research, people who feel attracted to such sexual activity often have difficulty adjusting to life. They have a hard time finding a living partner, so they are interested in the dead. In the case of necrophilia, an extreme element of BDSM is also observed – sometimes there is the agitation that the corpse cannot resist or give consent to sexual activity.
In this case, you can hire a sex specialist and ask to pretend to be a dead person, as well as you can use cold sex toys.
17. Vorarefilija
Vorarefilia – fantasies about a person eating or watching a person eat or swallow. This sexual interest is influenced by cannibalism when one often fantasizes about a living person or how a larger person or swallowing itself. There is also an element of BDSM – after all, it is a scenario of predators and victims, a variant of domination and humility. People can imitate such scripts in role-playing or animated porn movies, which is a fast-growing genre among adults.
18. Macrophilia
Macrophilia is a sexual attraction to the giants and is a fast-growing sector of the pornography industry. Macrophils are aroused by the idea that they are pressed by the breasts of a giant, a tall person obeys or is physically injured. Some macrophiles are simply attracted to people who are taller than them. With the help of animation, virtual reality, and pornography, you can unleash your fantasies that you are vulnerable, insignificant, and helpless in front of a giant.
19. Emetophilia
Emetophilia or craving for vomiting is a very rare but persistent thing. A person is attracted to vomiting by himself or someone else, getting excited by watching, listening to someone vomit. Emetophilia has only been studied scientifically once, in 1982, so little is known about it. Obviously, this fetish also includes elements of dominance, submission, and humiliation.
20. Zoophilia
Is zoophilia a sexual perversion? Not quite – it is often believed that the relationship between man and animal is based on mutual love. Zoophilia is more common in people who grow on farms and who also have difficulty communicating with people. An animal partner can attract them more than a human.
21. Formicophilia
Formicophilia is sometimes considered part of zoophilia. This means agitation when you see crawling insects or small creatures on the body, especially the genitals, that sometimes bite or suck blood. Studies on formicophilia are limited and existing sources indicate ants, cockroaches, snails, and bees.
In almost every couple’s relationship, there comes a time when sex begins to seem boring and monotonous. But this is to be expected. Even the most passionate relationship loses steam after having sex in one way for several years. I admit that there are a lot of sexual activities that you are thinking of exploring but have not revealed to your partner. Well, friends and girlfriends, now are the time to share these desires and make the bedroom things a little more perverted.
In English, sex is often described by the word “kinky” (in Latvian it would be “perverted”, “strange”), but it conjures up a picture of a person dressed in black leather, rope-tied women or something less pleasant. But these types of “perversions” are extremes . Perversion (or obscenity) can also be easy when a husband hits his wife in the ass.
How to start a conversation with your partner about your sexual desires?
This can be a bit intimidating, and one suggestion is definitely to consider: if you discover your desires immediately before going to bed, your partner may feel completely surprised and derailed. You want your partner to feel comfortable and excited about the experience, so get enthusiastic consent before trying anything new.
This means discussing your ideas before embarking on the process.
Start a conversation with a glass of wine at dinner or in another environment where you feel both comfortable and relaxed.
It might be easier to start this conversation with fairly familiar fantasies or role-playing ideas. In addition, it will be easier if you first ask the other about his sexual fantasies. That way, you start the conversation with each other’s wishes, and then you can share yours. When it’s your turn to share, be positive and confident about what you want.
Also, make it clear that you don’t expect it every time you have sex – only once. And, most importantly, don’t force the other to do what he categorically disagrees with.
HOW TO PREPARE?
Watching porn together or reading erotic literature can help you recharge. Once you’ve agreed on a few new moves, divide the new sex initiatives into “his nights” and “her nights.” Starting with “her” wishes, there is a good chance that she will be much more enthusiastic when it comes to “his” turn.
It may also be useful to leave the children with their grandparents or rent a hotel room. This will rule out the possibility that someone might disturb you. A hotel is a good idea, as a different environment can facilitate the transition to a new experience.
HOW TO START?
Now that you and your partner are on the same wave, there are many ways to enjoy more naughty sex than usual.
1) Tie each other
You don’t have to use handcuffs or chains to add a little naughty to your sex life. You can start with a small tie (such as a neck tie) and an exposure game.
In one case, a man can tie his partner’s arms over her head. If she thinks she likes it (of course, ask to make sure), consider continuing it next time. First, use soft knots.
2) Try light beating
Beating can absolutely revive bed things. How much should be beaten depends on each person. Always start with a light touch and reinforce it throughout the process. Follow the other person’s feelings and other emotions.
3) Try to prolong the orgasm
Yes, many people live to reach orgasm. However, when trying to suppress orgasm, the climax may be even more intense.
4) Participate in role-playing games
In order to get involved in role-playing games, it is necessary to break a kind of barrier, but it can also pay off to a large extent. Many popular roles (boss / secretary, teacher / student, stripper / client) play on topics where one person is in control and the other is subordinate to him or her. It is a strong dynamic even in a healthy and fun sexual relationship. In this way, a woman and a man are allowed to realize their fantasies.
For extra sharpness, go to a bar where none of you can be recognized. Arrive 20 minutes apart and try to “get to know each other” by pretending you’ve never seen each other. Have you always wanted to “hit the edge” for a sexy stranger or a handsome stranger? Now you can.
You are not claiming the best actor award here – for great sex though.
5) Introduce an anonymous stranger into the relationship
If the portrayal is not to your liking, perhaps inviting an “unknown” person would make everything spicier. Here’s one example: one of you is arranging a meeting with a stranger to please your partner anonymously (blindfolded). Tinder, Feeld and FetLife are great resources. And if you have “friends of this kind”, you can always ask if Ilze wants to participate in the joint anonymous satisfaction of your girlfriend.
However, before starting such an activity, all those involved must set certain boundaries. The most important thing and attention should be paid to the person with their eyes closed. It is incredibly sexy to close your eyes and feel the extra tongue or hands, but when your eyes are detached, see only your partner in the room.
6) Use a cold sex toy
Lowering the temperature can make the senses worse. Buy a good glass dildo or anal plug and put it in the freezer. Gently pull it along your partner’s naked body, bringing it closer and closer to your genitals. Introducing a sex toy will be a pleasant shock to the whole body. Note: Try it only with glass or stainless steel toys (otherwise you may damage your toy!).
7) Block the noise
While eye protection is a classic way to take away sensory sensations when it comes to various perversions, earplugs (or noise-canceling headphones ) provide another way you can be more submissive. Earplugs can not only block out annoying background noise, but can also be used to tease and control a loved one who is aroused by your sexy voice.
8) Arousal from tickling
Not all perversions are painful, intense or life-changing. Some forms of perverted sex are playful and just plain fun, like what’s commonly called a “tickling game.” This can be done with soft materials, including feathers, silk and fur. Blindfolded eyes will make the senses even more intense.
9) Use a security word
If you want to go a few steps further and step up your game, just make sure you have agreed on a security word beforehand. Saying “no” could be an integral part of a fantasy, so make sure your security word is something completely out of context. Try something like “peanut butter” or “teddy bear”.
WHAT TO DO NEXT?
When you’re done, remember that your relationship is more important than your current experience. Then give your partner a gentle hug and kiss and tell the other how much you enjoyed the process. You should also make sure that the other person is also feeling well.
In the coming days, talk about what you both enjoyed – and what – not to make sure you feel comfortable with the experience and ready to try it again soon.
Whips? Sexy lingerie? Role-playing? Sexual fetishes are an extremely broad topic, which will be far too little to discuss in one article today. Therefore, in order to better understand this topic and distinguish a new page in their world of sexual arousal, the editors of Sekss.lv invite you to look at sex from another side, namely, the peculiarities of fetish. This time we will look at the most unusual fetishes, which often cause confusion and outrage in people.
Fetish or the key to sexuality
Before embarking on the squeaking of special fetishes, we need to understand what really lies under this concept. A fetish is basically any object or activity that is able to arouse excitement in a person.
The key is to understand that fetishes are neither disease nor perversion, but rather simple phenomena that in a sense act as the keys to a person’s sexuality.
Clowns are also sexy
You have probably heard of the fear of clowns or bone phobia, which is faced by a relatively large part of humanity. But did you know that there are people who enjoy looking at these colorful mosques? Fans of the clown fetish often include various dressing elements in their night games, which are characteristic of the clown’s attractive wardrobe.
Attention – the welder!
Exhibitionism is a form of fetish that characterizes arousal derived from the discovery of one’s genitals, nipples, or other intimate areas of the body in public. In the vernacular, the followers of this fetish are often also called coat welders. It should be noted that to practice this fetish, you should choose a suitable place, such as a nudist beach!
Oh, mirror, tell me so
Women are usually associated with disproportionately long reflections, but mirror fetish is a phenomenon that is more common in the stronger sex. This fetish is very simple in nature and means that a person enjoys masturbation, making love, or other erotic activities in front of a mirror or other reflective surface.
Welcome to the world of tricophilia
How much do you enjoy visits to the hairdresser? Tricophilia enthusiasts find indescribable arousal from touches dedicated specifically to the hairy area of the head. Tricophiles usually feel the most arousal directly from washing their hair.
Genitals and ants
This fetish honorably ranks first in the list of the most incomprehensible fetishes. Fans of formicophilia love insects so much that they are ready to let them crawl on their genitals. Ants are most often used for these erotic games, but other proponents of formicophilia have taken a step further and have preferred snails instead of insects.
Helium princes and princesses
Yes, touching the surface of the balloon can also be sexual! Balloon fetish is characterized by a huge variety, namely, they can be included both in traditional sex as elements of foreplay and in the masturbation process as a surface against which it is possible to actively rub. Enthusiasts of this passion claim that bursting a balloon with the help of their body is like a climax in the traditional sense of sex, namely, orgasm.
Instead of a partner – trees
Dendrophilia basically means love of trees. It must be said that this love can manifest itself in different ways. Those dendrophiles who also associate this love with their sexual world enjoy the rubbing of their naked bodies and genitals against the rough bark of the trees. One thing is clear – if a dendrophile has to choose between porn and a leisurely walk through the forest, he will definitely prefer the forest.
Sexy plush bears or plushophilia
The three most characteristic things in the world of this fetish are masturbation with soft things, change of clothes in various animal costumes, and general arousal from the presence of plush things.
A seemingly innocent fetish, but you will have to think carefully about how to explain to your offspring that only dad or mom can play with a particular plush toy.
My little pony
This playful animated film, in which several gorgeous and cute ponies are played as the main characters, has inspired not only children. As a result of this cartoon, a whole community with a special name – “Bronze” – has emerged. The so-called “bronze generation” consists mainly of adult men who are aroused to see these lovely creatures. Of course, “bronze” does not do without the inclusion of various elements of an animated film in your intimate life.
If, after reading this article, you have discovered completely new tendencies in yourself, do not blame yourself! Sexual fetishes are a completely normal phenomenon and their practice is not to be condemned. If you also need a partner to implement your fetish, feel free to use the advertisement section on the portal to fully conquer the hills of pleasure!
