It often happens that one party wants to enjoy some intimite moments, but the other is not in the mood for it. What excuses to use in this case?
A frustrated man decided to write down all the excuses his wife makes when she doesn’t want to have sex. TikToker @joe_drae decided to share them with the world, revealing a long list of reasons why his wife has refused to enjoy the pleasures of bed with him.
The list starts with the excuse that they already did it last week. Next comes simply “bloated” and a desire to just cuddle, not to have sex. Number four would sound like: “But I just made the bed!”
The line of excuses continues with lack of energy, “I feel fat”, “tomorrow”, “I’m tired”. The back pain excuse also joins the list.
Since the husband has offered to have sex at different times of the day, she did not want to because it is “too early” or “too late at night”.
The same goes for room temperature. His wife reacted negatively to her husband’s advances if the room was “too hot” or “too cold”. In addition, sex said no if the spouse was “too drunk”. The reason has also been “children”.
Of course, you can’t forget the classics – “headache”, “I’m not in the mood” or simply pretending to be asleep.
The list shared on social media has created a lot of buzz and is getting people talking. Although many encourage the man to find another wife, most agree that the problem is not with the excuses, but with the person who published the list.
For example, one reader writes that the real reason is that the man has not helped his wife with housework or children for a long time. It’s also openly said: “Dude, if she has so many reasons to not want to be intimate with you, maybe it’s time you question yourself…” and “In my experience, it’s not her. It’s you. Women want to do it more when they’re happier with the person they’re with.”