It seems that from endless studies about intimate life and from our own sexual experience, we know everything about men’s desires, fantasies and hobbies… However, there are things that men persistently hide from women. It can also be related to complexes or stereotypes imposed by society. In any case, it’s time to lift the veil of secrecy at least a little and figure out what are 3 sex secrets that men keep from us.
1. A man does not always want sex
Probably all women are convinced that men want sex more than women. It is possible that men think the same. However, you shouldn’t rush into alarm bells if your partner no longer wants sex every night before falling asleep. It has long been proven that during intercourse women are charged with energy, while men, on the contrary, lose it. This explains the fact that men fall asleep after sex.
Remember that the peak of men’s sexual activity is around 7-9 in the morning. But not all couples are ready to make love in the morning. Especially if it’s a weekday.
Age, health problems, stress and fatigue also affect sex drive.
2. Men fantasize during sex
About what? About everything they want to try, but haven’t had the opportunity. For example, he imagines that he is making love to a flight attendant or a striptease dancer, that he is making love in an airplane or on top of Everest.
In fact, such male fantasies are innocent. However, if you want to implement one of them, try to “extract” some hints from him by asking questions. Who knows, maybe you’ll want to turn into a mysterious geisha or stripper for one night. He will definitely appreciate it.
3. Men can’t stand if they are criticized in bed
Even if you do it tactfully, he still won’t like it. Therefore, if your lover asks you what he should do to improve your orgasm, it is better not to tell him what he is doing wrong.
Go the other way. Whisper passionately in his ear about your feelings during sex, tell him what you like the most.
Couple decided to experiment with sex: after a few days, an interesting thing happened