When a relationship just begins, everything seems perfect. But at some point, the man for whom she had already planned to have children and live with her until old age simply disappears without explaining anything. Why?
Luke McCord, a relationship specialist, explains: “Men are animals in a way. Primarily, what they notice in a woman is appearance. If you look beautiful, he will invite you on a date. And for a while, it will be enough. However, because the man knows exactly what he doesn’t like, he will quickly start paying attention to your “inner content”. The spiritual world, the character, the habits – it all matters. And over time, it becomes more important than appearance.
At the beginning of a relationship and maybe even on a first date, there are some important nuances that a woman should pay attention to because some men perceive them as a warning to take their feet over their shoulders. And no, unfortunately, it won’t change if the man gets to know you better.
1. YOU HOPE THAT HE WILL BE “YOUR SAVIOR”
Men don’t like to take emotional responsibility until they feel attached. If a man thinks you just “need” him and not “want” him, an alarm will sound immediately in his head. An emotionally healthy man will not agree to be the filler of the emptiness of your life and soul.
You may have heard the opposite many times, but a man does not dream of saving a woman from her unhappy life. He wants to be with a person who, even without him, can be happy and live to the fullest. It is not infantilism or an immature mind. One is to help someone you are already attached to and with whom you are in a relationship with, but something else is different to experience at the beginning of that relationship. It seems scary to a man.
2. YOU WANT TO FORGET YOUR EX
No man wants to be a substitute. If you are divorced or have a long-term relationship, do not expect a poor person to agree to comfort you. Men are attracted by women whose lives are in order. Even if not to the end, the key to them is successfully coping with different situations. Such women know what they want out of life, are confident, and not afraid to be alone. If you are looking for a man because you are afraid of loneliness, potential fans will “read” it in your eyes and quickly disappear.
3. YOU ARE THE QUEEN OF DRAMA
Men cope with emotions worse. Psychological research has shown that women express their feelings much more strongly. Men hate dramatic emotions because they don’t know what to do with them. When a woman asks, “Where do you think our relationship leads?” the man is overwhelmed by negative emotions that he does not know how to deal with. When a lady raises a deep scene of jealousy or says, “You will pay more attention to her than I do,” he does not know how to react. And it is easier for him to get rid of you than to explain this “drama”.
The beginning of a relationship includes getting to know each other, having fun together, building emotional intimacy. However, if a woman starts to appreciate the potential partner’s contribution to the relationship from day one (week, month), expecting more than the man can offer, it is unlikely that he will stay in such a relationship.
4. YOU ARE NOT CONFIDENT
There is a saying, “If you don’t believe in yourself, why should others do it?” If you do not trust yourself, your actions, no man will fill this gap. Do you constantly need confirmation that you look great, that is, raising children and divinely preparing? The man will be tired that you will want to hear about it all the time. Nothing is as exciting as self-confidence. What can we offer a potential partner if we do not respect ourselves as a person?
Conclusion. Women are wonderful, without them men would not stand. True, without men they can do well. If you don’t have a partner right now, that doesn’t mean you have to find it and turn your quest for the prince into a white horse for the purpose of your life. Life will be much better if it is not overshadowed by the constant race after a man. Women are amazing creatures. Start enjoying life and all men will be at your feet.
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