We are used to the word “prostate” being used mainly when talking about diseases or in advertisements for drugs that treat prostate problems. Many forget (and maybe don’t even know) that properly done prostate stimulation can bring a lot of pleasure to men. Prostate massage produces much more intense orgasms than penis stimulation, so it’s definitely worth a try. Where to start and how to correctly perform a prostate massage?
Briefly about the prostate
The prostate is a gland about the size and shape of a walnut, located between the bladder and the root of the penis. The urethra (the tube that carries urine and sperm out of the body) runs through the center of the prostate. As a man ages, the prostate tends to grow. In men aged 60-70, the prostate can reach the size of a plum or even larger. An enlarged prostate can cause many unpleasant symptoms related to urination.
In addition, the prostate helps remove sperm from the penis. It is also surrounded by many nerve endings, so a properly performed prostate massage can reward you with extremely pleasant sensations. A prostate orgasm can even benefit your health. Prostate massage is sometimes used to treat erectile dysfunction. It can also help prevent or even treat prostatitis. So, why not give it a try?
How to prepare for prostate massage?
To make the experience pleasant, there are a few simple things to take care of before the massage:
- Take care of your hygiene. For this purpose, you can use an enema or a stronger water jet. The cleaner you are, the more you can enjoy.
- The one who is performing a prostate massage should have clean nails: trim them, so that they are short and not sharp. This will help prevent rectal scratches and tears. Hands should also be completely clean and dry.
- Use a lot of lubricant. For this purpose, a silicone-based lubricant will be the most suitable – it is thicker and doesn’t dry so fast.
- Under no circumstances should a prostate massage be performed on a person who has hemorrhoids or rupture in the anus. Such actions can cause bleeding and increase the risk of infection.
- It is very important to relax and trust your partner. This will help the thing to run more smoothly and more pleasantly.
- It is also recommended to urinate before the massage – stimulation of the prostate can cause the urge to urinate, so it is better to do this in advance so that you don’t have to worry during the massage.
- Also, don’t forget that the more excited you are, the more enjoyable the massage will be. (It will also be easier to find the prostate and stimulate the desired point.)
How to give a prostate massage?
Once you have taken care of hygiene and all the necessary tools, the massage can begin. First, you need to know where to “go”. The prostate is about 5 cm deep inside the rectum, between the rectum and the penis. Although stimulation through the anus is the most direct route to massage (and pleasure), the prostate can also be stimulated indirectly by touching the area between the testicles and the anus. To make the prostate easier to find, the man must be aroused. During arousal, the prostate enlarges slightly, so it is much easier to feel it. Touching it may make you want to urinate.
Finger movements during prostate massage
Some techniques you can try if the massage is done with your fingers:
- “Come here” movement. Lubricate the index finger, insert it into the anus and bend it upwards in a “come here” motion towards the navel. Repeats the movement, gradually increasing the speed, thereby increasing the pleasure at the same time.
- Door bell. Place the pad of your finger on the prostate and apply light pressure as if pressing a doorbell button. Experiment with speed, pressure, shorter and longer intervals to see what your partner likes best.
- Circular movements. Touch the prostate in a circular motion with the tip of your finger. Vary the speed and pressure to find which combination gives him the most pleasure.
Stimulation using sex toys
Nowadays, you can find very good, gentle and high-quality prostate massagers that will help you discover this mystical pleasure faster and more accurately. Their shape is usually designed for precise and smooth stimulation, and the vibration modes help you reach the peak of pleasure faster. With sex toys, it is much more convenient to massage the prostate if you do it by yourself. So, if you want to experiment, a prostate massager is something really worth considering.
How to recognize prostate orgasm?
Prostate orgasms are very similar to normal orgasms, but they are usually more intense and can be felt throughout the body. Sometimes after such an orgasm, the body may begin to tremble with pleasure.
Ejaculation
Some men ejaculate during a prostate orgasm, but this is not always the case – every body is different and therefore reacts differently to stimulation. However, if you have had an orgasm without ejaculation, it is most likely a prostatic orgasm.
So, if you have decided to try prostate massage – do not hesitate. Men often share their experiences and claim that prostate stimulation has turned their sex lives upside down (for the better, of course). So, if you feel that your sex life lacks spark – try to reach a prostate orgasm.