It’s no secret that often the desire for intimate intimacy between the couple is quite different – while one can think only of a cup of coffee, the other tries to light up, while in the evenings when one feels tired, the other would not mind…
As it turns out, these differences are physiological – studies show that men are more likely to want to make love in the morning, while women want to make love in the second half of the day. However, the incompatibility of desires in a couple’s relationship can not only reduce the quality of sexual life but also lose the connection.
To avoid this, read the recommendations compiled by experts :
What is the reason for the different desires for intimacy?
When men wake up, their testosterone levels are 25 to 50 percent higher than the rest of the day, and the longer and deeper a man’s sleep, the higher his testosterone levels will be.
In women, on the other hand, testosterone levels in the body are significantly lower, and in the morning it directly decreases.
Various surveys have also shown that during the day, thinking about the beloved man, women “prepare” for possible sex, gradually creating lust and desire for intimacy, while men’s desire for sex decreases as testosterone levels fall.
Experts also emphasize that emotional and visual stimulation – pleasant emotions and well-being created by a partner – is vital for women to create lust.
How to strike a balance?
Although it is not possible to fight the laws of nature, they can be “circumvented” a bit. Studies show that physical activity increases testosterone levels in the body even 30 to 40 minutes after a workout.
Communication, compliments, and understanding, as well as trying to find a compromise, are also important.
If your partner is tired in the evenings, light him up by preparing a light dinner and getting dressed or simply seducing on his own initiative.
Men, on the other hand, are advised to take care of their loved ones – simple cleaning of the kitchen instead of a partner, allowing her to rest better and sleep longer, will result in a lively mood the next morning, which in turn will benefit your efforts to establish intimacy.