There are many reasons that cause discomfort and pain during sex. Women most often experience pain during vaginal intercourse. The medical term dyspareunia is used to describe this phenomenon.
Types of pain caused by dyspareunia
Pain caused by dyspareunia can include:
- Superficial – at the moment when the penis enters the vagina. They usually occur for the following reasons: the woman is not sufficiently relaxed; too little arousal and vaginal dryness; incomplete healing of perineal tears after childbirth; vulva infections.
- Medium deep – during penile movements. The most common reason is incorrect sex position.
- Deep pain – pain is usually felt in the pelvis, waist and lower abdomen. Common causes: endometriosis; inflammatory diseases of the small pelvis; ovarian cysts.
We must not forget to mention that pain during intercourse can also cause psychological problems. Generally speaking, it is painful intercourse for an unknown reason that prevents partners from reaching orgasm and causes unpleasant sensations during sex.
What else can cause pain during sex?
Unpleasant sensations during sexual intercourse can also be caused by incorrectly chosen products – an irritating lubricant or an unsuitable condom.
It is important to mention that men can also experience pain during intercourse. The most common causes are genital diseases, such as inflammation of the prostate or urinary tract infections.
It is very important to know that pain during sex can indicate serious health problems!
If the intimate relations were pleasant before and pain or discomfort appeared suddenly – definitely consult a doctor!
How to avoid pain?
If the doctor has confirmed that you do not have any serious diseases, you can look for a solution that will make sex enjoyable again.
Talking to a partner. Share your hopes and desires with your partner. Not only will it help you relax more easily during sex, but it will also bring you closer together.
Longer foreplay. Take your time, allow yourself to enjoy your partner’s caresses, kisses and touches.
Lubricant. If you feel pain only at the beginning of intercourse, try a lubricant. It is best to choose natural ingredients that are tasteless, odorless and suitable for sensitive skin. This will reduce the risk of vaginal irritation.
Position. Don’t be afraid to experiment. If you start to feel pressure, stretching, sharp pain during sex, tell your partner and offer to try a different position.