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  • What Does He Think Of You During Sex?

    What Does He Think Of You During Sex?

    First of all, let’s highlight what men don’t notice – brittle nails, cracked skin or ingrown hairs at the bikini line. The fact that your breasts are slightly different doesn’t make the list either. Men are more likely to notice common things and behaviors that can tell if serious chemistry is developing between the two of you. He thinks about whether sparks fly during sex. Does he turn you on. Are you comfortable being naked.

    Here are some answers collected by womenshealthmag.com about what men think during sex.

    Your initiative

    “If we do all the work and you just wait to see what happens next, we’ll think you’re not interested. So show some excitement. Take the initiative. Lay us on our backs and get on top of us. Help us make this a great moment.”

    How your body moves

    “If you don’t move, the moment will be ruined. We will think that something is wrong or that you are just shy. But if you are active and sensual, it will turn us on. We want your body to bend. We want a woman to press her breasts against us, we want to feel her thighs slide between our legs. The more you give yourself to this moment with your whole body, the more we will feel that you are happy to be with us.”

    Your eyes

    “Are you looking deep into our eyes? Are you watching our naked bodies? Both options are good. We only feel uncomfortable when you look down (doubtful?), study your body (uncomfortable?) or stare at the wall or ceiling (bored?). So make sure your eyes don’t give us what you don’t want to give. Let us know you like being with us.”

    What Does He Think Of You During Sex?
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    Your breath

    “No, we’re not talking about your bad breath (although hopefully it’s not bad!). We’re talking about its sound. Is it faster than usual? We listen for a woman’s voice to be deeper. These clues tell us if you’re really excited. No, you don’t have to act like you just ran five kilometers or try to imitate the lower notes of an organ. But if you like it, show it. Let us feel your breath on our neck, whisper something sexy in our ear, let us know you can’t wait to see what happens. Our passion depends on your passion, so don’t be afraid to show it.”

    Did you wax and are you wearing expensive underwear?

    “Hey, no one will judge you if you’re not. But your preparation means you’ve thought about sex, and we love that. After all, we thought about it too. That’s why men are happy when their desires match!”

  • What Annoys Men During Sex? Things You Should Never Do

    What Annoys Men During Sex? Things You Should Never Do

    While a lot is said about women and their likes and dislikes in bed, can we say the same about men? Do we know what men DON’T like during sex? They probably won’t ever talk about it, but women do a lot of little things that make them cringe and you should pay attention.

    • Of all the things that men don’t like during sex, dirty underwear definitely ranks first. Wearing clean underwear is also necessary for hygiene purposes. Wearing “granny panties” is another thing that puts men in a bad mood. If you go ahead and dress in red underwear, and even better, if both the top and the bottom are in the same color, it will be a guarantee of his genuine excitement.
    • Watching adult movies and then refusing to have sex is another frustrating scenario that most men will not be comfortable with.

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    • Men like active participation during sex, and they don’t like to do all the work themselves, so if you’re just a “taker” and do absolutely nothing, you won’t rank on his list of best sex partners. Men want their partners to be equally involved during sex.
    • Saying you’re tired all the time (of course, right when he suggests sex) makes you sound disinterested and leaves him frustrated at the same time.
    • Men also don’t like it when women talk about their exes during sex. It’s all in the past and they don’t really want to know.
    • And finally, if you sprint straight from bed to the shower, it won’t leave a very pleasant aftertaste. The only thing he will think is that sex makes you feel like a whole load of garbage has just been dumped on you, which makes him feel dirty himself.
  • Things that men don’t care about during sex

    Things that men don’t care about during sex

    Men tend to say, “Honey, you’re too meticulous, don’t take everything so seriously,” but not all women succeed. Some will also be excited, especially in the intimate realm – when they make love to their partner. The Goodhouse portal describes what men don’t really care about and don’t pay attention to during sex.

    Quiet or loud?

    Of course, if you tear a man’s hair and shout in his ear as if planning to make him deaf, don’t expect anything good. It’s hardly worth shouting out loud unless you intend to take revenge on neighbors for their baby crying at night, a recently completed repair, or just to show that sex in your bedroom isn’t dead. The other extreme, when a woman sleeps in bed like a beam, is also not a solution. The bed is suitable for all-natural. Feel free to be passionate and express it.

    The smell of an intimate place

    If you tend to specifically smell your intimate area, remember that it is a part of the body, not a flower bush. Don’t exaggerate – choose more naturalness.

    Breasts during sex

    Are you upstairs, leaning over a man and seeing your drooping breasts? Stop! Is it important for you to feel pleasure? It is foolish to give up certain sex positions just because the breasts do not look particularly photogenic during them.

    Removal of hair from the bikini area and other parts of the body

    When you are in bed with your partner, he does not care how much hair is on your legs, armpits or in an intimate place. Well, definitely not so much for him to look for a ruler and measure how much this vegetation has grown since the last shave. So maybe still relax and enjoy?

    Are you already wet?

    This thing can be fixed with caresses, proper foreplay, and finally with lubricant. This is not an obstacle to enjoying sex.

    Sounds that turn red

    During passionate sex, as a rule, various bodily sounds will be heard – both from the contact of the bodies and from the genitals. But that’s no reason to jump out of bed and shout, “Oh, how embarrassing that is!” There is nothing scary and vulgar about it.

    Everyone has a way out

    Let’s say you like doggy style, but you avoid it because your partner will see your anus. But the truth is simple – it is for all people. And not just humans – even starfish. Therefore, it is not worth giving up the pleasant.

    Hairdo

    Broken curls, fallen artificial strands, hair is frayed? Who is interested in it? Believe me, a man shouldn’t really worry about that.

    Feel free to say what you want

    Nothing bad will happen if you tell your husband, “Can you be a little slower?” or “I like it when you do that.”