First of all, let’s highlight what men don’t notice – brittle nails, cracked skin or ingrown hairs at the bikini line. The fact that your breasts are slightly different doesn’t make the list either. Men are more likely to notice common things and behaviors that can tell if serious chemistry is developing between the two of you. He thinks about whether sparks fly during sex. Does he turn you on. Are you comfortable being naked.
Here are some answers collected by womenshealthmag.com about what men think during sex.
“If we do all the work and you just wait to see what happens next, we’ll think you’re not interested. So show some excitement. Take the initiative. Lay us on our backs and get on top of us. Help us make this a great moment.”
How your body moves
“If you don’t move, the moment will be ruined. We will think that something is wrong or that you are just shy. But if you are active and sensual, it will turn us on. We want your body to bend. We want a woman to press her breasts against us, we want to feel her thighs slide between our legs. The more you give yourself to this moment with your whole body, the more we will feel that you are happy to be with us.”
“Are you looking deep into our eyes? Are you watching our naked bodies? Both options are good. We only feel uncomfortable when you look down (doubtful?), study your body (uncomfortable?) or stare at the wall or ceiling (bored?). So make sure your eyes don’t give us what you don’t want to give. Let us know you like being with us.”
“No, we’re not talking about your bad breath (although hopefully it’s not bad!). We’re talking about its sound. Is it faster than usual? We listen for a woman’s voice to be deeper. These clues tell us if you’re really excited. No, you don’t have to act like you just ran five kilometers or try to imitate the lower notes of an organ. But if you like it, show it. Let us feel your breath on our neck, whisper something sexy in our ear, let us know you can’t wait to see what happens. Our passion depends on your passion, so don’t be afraid to show it.”
Did you wax and are you wearing expensive underwear?
“Hey, no one will judge you if you’re not. But your preparation means you’ve thought about sex, and we love that. After all, we thought about it too. That’s why men are happy when their desires match!”
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