An Instagram model explains that the secret to a happy marriage is that men are allowed to dominate relationships, and more women should take on the role of the good old “traditional wife.”
Monica Huldta, 37, who lives in Scottsdale, Arizona, USA, knew from an early age that she was destined to be a loving wife and was proud to put the needs of her 39-year-old husband, John, first.
A housewife who grew up in Sweden considers herself a real Stepford wife. “I have never been a woman who has been trying to get a huge career,” she said. “To be honest, I don’t want to work – I like to be a housewife and take care of my husband.”
“Ever since I saw this movie, The Stepford Wives , I’ve known I want my life to be just that.”
However, this lifestyle is not for everyone – both men and women have problems with Monica’s approach to marriage. She says, “One of my ex was not at peace with the idea – so he’s my ex now.”
“Women also say that I am crazy or that I am ashamed of other women. But I don’t care – it’s my life and I love it. “
The daily life of a traditional wife
Monica’s typical day, which she regularly shares on her Instagram account (@swedish_bella_backup), is related to home care, training and cooking for her husband.
She says, “John adores the food I cook. He always says that food is my field and that he just wants a nice dinner. If he asks me for something specific, he always gets what he wants. ”
Monika’s husband also expects that she will dress beautifully even though she is at home. She said: “John likes it when I look good at home, like in sexy sportswear, and he doesn’t like me wearing makeup at home.
“Some women might not like being told what to do or wear, but I like it when he gives me instructions.”
“When I give him everything, it makes him happy – and it makes me happy. I like to see that my husband is happy and I don’t see anything wrong with that. “
Asked how she feels about some women considering her life choices to be regressive or even “humiliating”, Monica says she is not worried about others.
She admits: “I don’t think it’s humiliating. I think men and women are created differently, and in fact there is nothing wrong with that. We have lived this way for centuries – only now is this way of life rejected. ”
Obedient in both the kitchen and the bedroom
Monika’s submissive character surprises both in the kitchen and in the bedroom – she is available to meet her husband’s needs whenever he wants.
She explains: “When it comes to the bedroom, I am very submissive and he is dominant. I like it when a man takes the lead and gets what he wants. I am always available for my husband’s needs and I like it. It excites me, so I have no problem with it. “
“My husband knows how to dominate properly, and he knows my needs. I find it extremely attractive to a man. ”
And although she doesn’t have a traditional job and she likes to be a housewife, Monica is a very successful model and brings a lot of money through her OnlyFans account. She opened it in 2017, but only started using it more in 2020, and the woman is already one of the most lucrative models on the site.
She says fans love her “traditional wife’s” outlook on life – and that many men, some of whom are married, often say they miss it in their relationships.
For anyone considering adopting the so-called “traditional wife” lifestyle, Monica outlines three main benefits. She says: “First, you have more freedom to take care of yourself. I train five times a week because my schedule allows it. Another plus is that you will have a closer bond with your husband. You dedicate your life to making him happy just as he works to make you happy. It is equal treatment of each other that makes you inseparable. ”
And finally, living like a “traditional wife” means you will have the advantage of seeing your children grow up. You will always be close to them. ” She and her husband currently have no children, but Monika has a strong belief in parenting when that day finally comes. The model says: “When we have children, I will definitely raise them very traditionally. If we have a daughter, I will teach her everything I know about being a good wife, and my husband will do the same with our son. ”
Is a “traditional wife” the key to a happy marriage?
While some may be shocked by Monica’s old-fashioned approach to marriage, the model believes that many relationships would be happier if more women adopted this way of thinking. She adds: “If people didn’t condemn it so much and just tried it, I think they would understand that it works. People today are so unhappy, always looking for the next passion, so why not just accept who we are and how we are created? ”
“We would have fewer divorces, and I think people would be happier overall. At the moment, we are trying so hard to go against our nature – people are just confused. I believe that just because a woman chooses to be a traditional wife does not make her weak. In fact, on the contrary, strength is needed to disobey the norms imposed by modern society. “
“I really think women and men were much happier in their traditional roles than they are now. And it is not anti-feminist; I choose to put my husband first and who doesn’t want to take care of her? ”
“I never have to worry because he takes care of me too.”
The couple do not consider themselves materialistic, although they have a luxurious house, they love to travel and often use Monica’s income to experience new things together or visit new countries.
The skillful model also invests a lot of money in the OnlyFans business – and her husband is happy to help and is never jealous. “My husband is very supportive; he helps me edit photos and come up with ideas. If he were not so supportive, we would not be where we are. I may just be a housewife, but together we are a team. ”