In terms of female orgasms, the situation is much worse than that of men, because most of the time there is a gap between couples in the bedroom. A large number of women can’t reach orgasm when making love with their partner. On the other hand, almost all men reach the peak of pleasure. What to do if your woman doesn’t reach orgasm?
No wonder most divorces are initiated by women. Sex therapists most often have to answer the question of how to maintain passion in a relationship. Age and routine are not friends of passion either. In order to maintain the spark, both partners have to make an effort – they have to put in the work, because nothing happens by itself. The good news is that a woman can achieve orgasm in several ways. If your lover does not reach orgasm with you, it is time to change the situation and try new methods in the bedroom.
How does it feel when you reach orgasm, how long does it last?
Orgasm is usually described as a rhythmic contraction of the genitals. Orgasm is the climax of arousal. The woman’s vagina and uterus contract, pulse and blood pressure rise, followed by the greatest mental and physical relaxation. Usually, the orgasm wave lasts from a few seconds to half a minute, but often it can be longer.
What is the difference between female and male orgasms?
A man’s orgasm is also essentially rhythmic muscle contractions, but they last for a shorter time than women’s. Men usually ejaculate when they reach orgasm, although orgasm and ejaculation are not related.
How to satisfy a woman so that she reaches orgasm every time?
Women can experience orgasm in different ways. Bring variety to the bedroom and forget about headaches.
Start with the clitoris
The clitoris is covered with pleasure nerves. For a woman who has never had an orgasm, the journey of pleasure should begin with clitoral stimulation. Some women like to massage their labia, others like their clitoris. Your goal is to find out which point gives the most pleasant sensations. Make sure the lubricant is applied to the clitoris and start massaging in a spiral motion around the clitoris. Be patient, because it takes 20-40 minutes to reach an orgasm from finger or tongue movements. If you don’t have that much time right now, buy a sex toy with a clitoral suction function. It creates air pressure that mimics the sensations a man’s mouth normally provides.
The next stop is the G-spot
Before you approach the G-spot, it’s a good idea to go to the bathroom, as the same muscles that control the bladder are also involved in vaginal orgasm. The G-spot is located in the front wall of a woman’s vagina – no deeper than the length of your index finger. It is important to understand that if the woman is not maximally aroused, this spot can be missed very easily. (Read more about it here – The Mystical G-Spot – What is it and where to find it?).
Find thise pleasure point and stimulate it until the orgasm! Remember that this point should be stimulated lightly. Make circular rhythmic movements back and forth with your fingers. Change the rhythm, speed and pressure until you find what is most pleasing. If your fingers get tired, you can use a G-spot vibrator.
How many orgasms can be achieved in one night? As much as you want!
In the case of a mixed orgasm, one member have to be the clitoris. The other area of stimulation can be, for example, nipples or anus. Simultaneous stimulation of both pleasure nerves will cause a particularly strong orgasm that will take over the whole body in waves. The combination of G-spot and clitoris works 100%. If you don’t see a spark in her eyes, try nibbling the nipples, kissing her breasts, anal plug, stroking the legs while massaging the clitoris.
Secret dream – sex with two men
Fantasies are the vitamin of a woman’s sexual appetite. The most popular fantasy is having sex with two men at the same time. Telling a man about your fantasies is a serious challenge. But maybe it’s worth it! Anal stimulation can cause a climax as strong as a clitoral orgasm.