Every man dreams of reaching an orgasm at the same time as his beloved woman. Or they are even willing to experience it after her, just to see his beautiful partner overcome with pleasure.
Most would probably agree that bringing a woman to orgasm requires some effort. However, having orgasm at the same time is an even more difficult task. The matter is further complicated by the fact that the moans of a woman in ecstasy often turn out to be exaggerated: it is much easier for women to do this than to say that the partner is clearly pushing the wrong buttons down there…
Well, maybe your chosen one isn’t lying – she admits that you couldn’t make her orgasm, but for the sake of peace of mind (and in the name of a healthy, fulfilling sex life) you should also know the very signs that indicate that she has faked her orgasm.
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You finish at the same time, but it happens… too often
Although in movies (especially of a certain genre) such an event as orgasm at the same time is inevitable, in real life it’s not.
Strangely, people do not realize that the image they see on the screen is a staged fiction, a presentation of the ideal version. Unfortunately, real sex is much more complicated, so it is not always possible to smoothly approach the situation when you both reach orgasm at the same time.
Because as you well know, getting her to orgasm is not an easy task, but climaxing in unison (and almost every time) is an unlikely scenario.
The scene resembles something you see in porn
If you notice that during the “orgasm” your partner behaves almost like a porn actress who, moaning loudly and biting her lips, gives the kind of performance that the viewer wants, it is very likely that you are only seeing acting and she has faked her orgasm.
In fact, women do not react too loudly to orgasm. It is not difficult to understand that the reaction is exaggerated. If she is really having an orgasm, you will most likely notice a rather strange and uncharacteristic expression on her face.
You don’t feel vaginal contractions
Just before and during orgasm, the muscles of her perineum and vagina begin to shrink – these are called contractions. This is due to the overwhelming sensation that affects the lower abdomen.
When a man’s penis (or fingers) are inserted into her vagina, it is almost impossible not to feel the contractions during orgasm, so if they are missing, but your partner is moaning from “orgasm”, you know that she is only faking it.
She doesn’t need to take a breath
Both men and women experience similar emotions during and immediately after orgasm: first ecstasy, then relaxation and relief.
So, if a woman grabs her phone out of nowhere after an “orgasm” and doesn’t need to calm down at all, she may have faked her orgasm.