Let’s start with the very basics – what is oral sex? Oral sex is when a person’s mouth sexually stimulates another person’s genitals. Giving oral pleasure to a woman usually involves licking or sucking her clitoris and other external genitalia. It is also called cunnilingus. Oral sex for a man means sucking or licking his penis. It often is called a ‘blow job’. How to give a man unforgettable blow job? One of the options is a deep throat. But first the most important thing.
Oral cavity and its health
Various oral, respiratory and genital infections can be transferred from one part of the body to another during oral sex. Oral health is directly related to the transmission of infections: having a wound, bleeding gums, chapped lips or damaged skin in the mouth increases the risk of life-threatening infections. Mouth ulcers or damaged teeth accelerate the transmission of infections in the bloodstream. Thus, oral health should be a priority during oral sex.
Many experts claim that oral sex is quite risky. It may be safer to have oral sex than to have sex without a condom because you won’t get pregnant, but oral sex without a condom still carries a high risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Since oral sex usually involves contact with your partner’s genitals or anus, you are directly exposed to the risk of many sexually transmitted infections. The risk is greater for the giver rather than the receiver, as there is a greater chance of coming into contact with genital fluids, so it is important to use protection.
How to deep throat a penis?
Deep throating is very easy and comfortable to do, as long as you are a professional sword swallower and don’t have a gag reflex. For the rest, it just feels like choking… The basic principle is that the giver puts as much of the penis in their mouth as possible. The penis is pushed deep into the throat, which can sometimes cause gagging or even vomiting. Like many popular sex acts you see in porn, this technique usually feels great for the man, but can be very uncomfortable for the woman (or man) giving the blowjob.
Although sexologists claim that deep throating is safe, there are also various risks to consider:
- Trachea and bronchial injuries;
- Sore throat;
- Bruises;
- Hoarseness;
- Vomiting.
Of course, these injuries are not particularly dangerous. Signs that you may be putting too much pressure on yourself:
- If there is a feeling of choking;
- If you feel that your throat is swollen;
- If there is vomiting.
If you are doing a deep blow job for the first time, control the pace. In order for oral sex to satisfy the receiver and be safe for the giver, precision and control over the situation is a must have:
- Apply lubricant to his penis to avoid friction, which can be painful for both him and you.
- Find the most comfortable position. The position of the mouth and throat can help relax the muscles of the throat, making it easier for the penis to enter the throat. Lie on the edge of the bed with your head slightly hanging over the edge of the bed. Then ask your partner to lean over you so that his penis is in one level with your mouth.
- Start with suction. Gently pull your partner towards you, placing his penis in your mouth. Start with a back and forth motion before sliding his cock deeper into your mouth.
- Find the rhythm. When you can comfortably hold his penis in your throat, allow your partner to make slow movements.
- Inhale and exhale through the nose, synching your breathing with the rhythm of movement.
- Take a break if necessary.
There are also throat exercises that can be done to reduce the sensitivity to the gag reflex. Note that the training may take a long time to see results. Choose a phallic object, starting with a small object, such as a toothbrush or your finger, and slowly move it to the back of the throat. When you feel yourself starting to gag, stop and try to relax by taking deep breaths to stop shortness of breath. The more often you practice it, the faster you will notice improvements.
Important: do not practice this with a banana! It can easily break and cause choking!
When you can hold the object like this for a full 10 seconds, try slow in and out movement. This can further stimulate the gag reflex. Make sure you are breathing evenly. Once you get past this workout with a small object, move on to a vibrator.