According to experts, women and men have different understanding of what good sex is, so it is normal that there may be various problems or misunderstandings between them. What would men like to recommend their partners to make sex enjoyable for both of them?
Take care of your appearance
This does not mean that a woman should always look like she is ready for dinner at a fancy restaurant. However, if a woman wants a man to continue to admire her, she must take care of her appearance. Men usually ignore small flaws that women worry about the most (belly or cellulite). For them, the way a woman’s skin, hair, nails and general body shape looks is much more important. Of course, it is not worth taking too much care of your appearance just for the sake of a man, but a woman herself also feels more attractive and sexier if she takes care of herself.
Shyness is no longer in fashion
Again, this does not mean that a woman should sacrifice her principles for the sake of a man. However, a shy woman is an ideal of the past. Modern men more often prefer women who are not shy to talk about sex, their desires and needs. Talking about sex often excites men as much as the sex itself. Men want to have an active woman next to them, who knows how to caress herself and respond to a man’s caresses, who is open to new techniques and experiments. On the other hand, if a woman is not ready to try something new, she should not do it specifically for a man. Discover new experiences little by little, satisfying your own needs first, but not forgetting the man’s desires as well.
Don’t get carried away
As we know, women’s brains work in several modes and they can think about several things at the same time. While a man during sex thinks only about sex, a woman can fly in the clouds thinking about things that have nothing to do with sex. However, quality sex requires complete immersion, because only then you can focus on feelings, feel your partner and experience true pleasure.
Show interest in sex
In the eyes of a man, a woman is sexiest when she shows interest in sex. Snow queens whose hearts need to be thawed no longer attract men because they require too much effort. And that is why there is an opinion that women are less interested in sex than men, although there is no scientific basis for this opinion. So, if you want to impress a man, you must not only show interest in sex, but also take the initiative. Today, the winners are those who perceive sex as a process in which both partners experience pleasure.
Feel the pleasure
Why have sex at all if you don’t feel pleasure? Men like not only to know that a woman is satisfied, but also to see it. Therefore, a woman should not be shy to express her satisfaction with her voice and facial expressions. True, you should not exaggerate either, because then he will think that you are faking it.
It is also very important for men whether a woman knows her body. If you don’t dare to say “Honey, I want you deeper/stronger/faster” during sex because you think it will hurt a man’s feelings, you are wrong. Any man will be happy to hear from his partner exactly how she wants to be caressed, and he will be even more happy if the woman compliments him afterwards.