Most people who tend to take sides will do their best to hide their distrust. However, on the social news and online forum site Reddit, a forum has become an adultery club.
In a fraud forum, people talk about how their partners cheated and even give advice on how to keep this part of their lives a secret. The Reddit Cheaters forum currently has about 5,000 members. The forum, established in 2018, is described as a place to discuss the other side’s fraud in today’s relationship.
Some forum posts are made by people who have caught their partner in distrust, but mostly here are those who want to get rid of remorse by acknowledging or proudly talking about their victories.
In one of the records, the man reveals that he had a secret sexual encounter with another partner at a local gas station for nine months before the wedding.
One woman emphasizes that she has the right to “make mistakes” in this way (also several times), because in life she is allowed to have fun.
Another forum member says that six times a month he is unfaithful to his girlfriend and uses every opportunity to get casual sex behind him.
After reading these posts, it seems that a large part of the forum members do not feel guilty, do not grieve about their distrust, but are simply satisfied and want to tell how they managed to hide their feats.
TIPS ON HOW TO BE UNFAITHFUL AND FREE
In many posts, the forum members ask unfamiliar friends for advice on how to keep the novel a secret. You may even find the following questions: “How do I best cheat on my partner?” Someone asked the forum members what to give to their lover for the weekend together. Many recommend giving an online store gift card.
Another correspondence discusses how to mask beloved bite marks or absorbed bruises. The old-fashioned option is to wrap the neck in a scarf. A young man, without much remorse, asks, “Wouldn’t women 50 and older want to have fun with a younger man for a while?” Someone answers his question quickly with a link to older women who have recently divorced or are looking for a lover.
In the forum, strangers overwhelmed with guilt ask if it is not worth confessing to a partner. The answers may be different. A woman who has been cheating on her partner for almost three years asks if she has a moral obligation to confess to the other half. As you probably guessed, many find it pointless to admit if she is not caught. No one is interested in the fact that a woman no longer wants to live with these lies.
Another forum member writes: “We all make the wrong decisions, do what we regret, and so on. Do not pull the lying lion behind the mustache. ”
Another writes, “The only one who will be released after confession is yourself. You have wishes, you fulfilled them, which is completely understandable, now find a way to live with them. ”
In short, most forum members believe that it is best to remain silent about their distrust and mistakes.
So if you expect your partner or partner to confess if he left, you are most likely mistaken.