Male infidelity is more a regularity than a rare phenomenon. How to recognize that your partner has another woman? Some psychologists claim that only a woman who wants to be cheated on can be cheated. She just doesn’t want to notice. In the practice of psychotherapists, there are even wives who truly believe that the other women’s panties in their husband’s suitcase, who returned from a business trip, got there by accident.
If you want to know the truth, first answer yourself two questions:
- Why do I need to know that he is unfaithful?
- What will I do if I find out his “sins”?
Women are very emotional beings, and to these questions they answer, for example, “I’ll take the kids, the dog, the sofa, spit in his face and leave.” Think about it, are you really ready to raise children and provide for your family alone?
If you do not know how you will survive, how you will look in his eyes, when you say: “You are a bastard, I know everything” and do nothing about it.
If you are determined to know the truth, you can expose the man according to the signs listed below.
1. The first signal is his phone
There has appeared a new password on his phone, he periodically goes out with it somewhere, and in the evenings someone like “Andy the plumber” or “John the farmer” calls him. Infidelity and the phone are almost synonymous these days. If a man has another woman, he will have to communicate with her in some way.
2. Conspiracy
The man changed his email and social network passwords. Before that, he saw no need to hide anything from you. Now he is in a negative mood and does not allow you to interfere with “his freedom”.
Should you panic? No, but it’s worth thinking about.
3. Small lies
For example, a man went to get food but came back with nothing because the shop was closed and he didn’t know how to go to another. Or the bus suddenly stopped and a girl with brightly painted lips fell on top of him and smeared his shirt collar.
Inconsistency, disclaimers, stupidity and illogical things usually have a basis.
4. Relationships have changed
He has turned from a prince into a strange and cold type? He has become constantly dissatisfied, depressed, angry, gloomy. Caresses and warmth, gifts and compliments have decreased. Of course, there may be other reasons for this. Maybe he’s going through a mid-life crisis right now or he’s overloaded with work.
5. Reduced sexual activity
This point is suitable for men after 30. Sex becomes rarer, worse, and sometimes it seems that he simply fulfills his duty for the sake of loving peace. Of course, there are men who work well on two fronts, but they are the exception.
6. Work takes up all the time
He is forever busy, constantly creating work reports and projects. Maybe you used to spend at least 3-4 evenings together, and now he pays you very little attention. General emotions and activity are quite low.
7. Changes in appearance
He has started taking care of himself, he goes to the gym, has changed his hairstyle, bought new perfumes and shirts, but before that he only wore sweatpants and sweaters.
Not only the appearance has changed, but also interests, new hobbies have appeared.