It is difficult to explain the stereotype that, ideally, a woman in a relationship should be younger than a man, or at least one year old, but it is no secret that society is more positive about couples where the man is older than the woman. Here are the key benefits and also the possible stumbling blocks to consider if you want to build a relationship with an older woman.
A 40-year-old woman already has enough serious life experience, she has children, ex-husbands, lovers. She has already experienced a divorce, financial difficulties… If you start a relationship with such a woman, you must be ready to accept her life. Of course, this does not mean that you will have to solve her problems – thank God, she has already learned to do it herself. But you have to know: for women of this age, there are enough problems to worry about.
EXAGGERATED PUBLIC ATTENTION
The cohabitation of a middle-aged man and a young girl is perceived by society as relatively normal, but the same cannot be said of the relationship between a young boy and an older woman. If you are involved in a relationship with an older woman, count on increased public attention, misunderstanding of relatives and friends, but – if you are ready to stand over it, everything is fine.
SLAVE AND HARSH LADY
There is an opinion that women choose young lovers because they are easier to manipulate. Often in such a relationship, a woman is in a leading position (a tough lady), while a man is a slave. And don’t get it literally! Be prepared that your intended one will try to shove you under the slipper, because she is used to her wishes being fulfilled. By no means do we want to say that these are all older ladies, but the risk of expecting such an attitude from an experienced lady is always higher.
Often women of this age (35-40 years old), especially those who have recently experienced a divorce, are not looking for a serious relationship. Their goal is to get the most out of sexual play. Younger guys have more strength and energy. In addition, women of more solid age are able to surprise their partner with unprecedented “tricks”. If you want to enjoy new, unprecedented feelings, a relationship with an older woman is for you.
Experienced women have learned to deal with their neuroses, fears, stress, and other “demons”. They have enough reason to know what is important to them in life and what is secondary. They know how to dress to look slimmer and won’t bother you with such questions. They are convinced that they can handle anything on their own, no matter what happens in life. Of course, this does not mean that they never have a bad mood or a bad day. But older women know that there are enough more important things in life than parties, shopping, and endless eating and whims in trying to get a man’s attention.