Askmen.com conducted a survey that revealed 10 taboo topics that men should not talk about on their first or even the next date.
Probably, many men will admit that there have often been such cases when they told something to a woman during a date and felt that she was completely bored. Therefore, the question arises, how to behave so that the charming lady spends great time with you? On the one hand, the answer seems to be very simple: you just don’t talk about what doesn’t interest her. However, this is easy to say but difficult to do.
It is important to remember that the purpose of dating is to arouse interest in your personality, so it is worth avoiding the following topics, at least at the beginning of dating:
10. Health problems
She is not interested in your health problems. Don’t think you’re going to get her attention by telling her you have a stomach ulcer. This can only work if you have accidentally sustained an injury, such as a broken leg or arm.
9. Jargons
Always remember that women don’t like jargon, especially if they don’t understand them. If you use a lot of really confusing words during the conversation, she might think you’re limited, or at worst, that you think she’s stupid.
8. Ex-girlfriends
This is the worst topic and that’s it. NEVER talk about your ex-girlfriends. Don’t tell her that you were unfaithful to your ex or how annoying she was for calling you ten times a day. The woman should think that you have broken off any relationship with your ex-girlfriend(s) and look at the future realistically and optimistically.
7. Sports
You have to be careful here because many girls these days don’t love sports as much as you do. Of course, it is understandable that you want to share, for example, an intriguing football game, but it is likely that she will not be interested. And the fact that you know the results of all the important games will certainly not make her think that you are the smartest man in the world.
6. Stories about unsuccessful trips
You should talk about your travels with great enthusiasm. The story about how you missed the bus or how you got into turbulence on the plane and couldn’t go to the toilet for two hours will definitely not surprise her. She is also likely to start telling unhappy stories which will cause a lot of boredom for both of you. In this case, you will simply waste your time and lose the opportunity to light the spark.
5. Household
Trust me, a woman, especially one you don’t know well, really doesn’t care what you did today. You can only talk about household matters with someone you know well. You should also avoid discussing TV programs, series and similar topics.
4. People she doesn’t know
It’s very easy to ruin a date if you talk about people she doesn’t know. If you tell about a person you really like, a friend or an acquaintance, she can react in two ways: she will form her own opinion about this person and start evaluating them, or she will start comparing herself with them. If you talk about someone you don’t like, she will start to think that you are a rude and thick-skinned person, in short, you will reveal all your flaws.
3. Cars
As any five-year-old will tell you, boys play with cars, girls play with dolls. You can leave your stories about the most powerful engines and the most original car designs to the company of men.
2. Excessive love for pets
She doesn’t need to know what kind of cute dog you had as a child, how it behaved or how you played with it. A girl might like that you have a pet, but don’t make your pet more attractive than it already is. An excessive love for animals may indicate that you have problems communicating with people. And you don’t want her to suspect something like that, do you?
1. Sex
On the first date, talking about, for example, sex positions is not the best idea. Forget everything you’ve read in porn magazines. A woman may think that you are an unreliable, careless type, in the worst case, that a pervert is sitting in front of her. However, if a woman starts to hint about sex, you can take a deep breath and engage in this fun conversation.