A group of sexologists at the University of Chicago surveyed 5,000 young Americans to find out what they find most annoying during sex. Here are the results.
1. Selfishness (34%)
Selfish expressions during sex are not pleasant at all, but let’s face it, it is quite a common phenomenon among men. Women really don’t like it when a man, after releasing his “genetic material”, thinks that he has done his duty and then just selfishly falls asleep.
2. Searching for the mythical G-spot (31%)
Here’s the agony women go through trying to coolly endure all-night G-spot pursuits by her partners: “My ex-boyfriend used to drive me crazy by groping inside me for hours, trying to induce super-orgasms. And each of our nights began with this search. With that, any desire to make love disappeared. I suffered, but one fine night I got tired of it…” said one of the interviewees. By the way, women aged 21-35 mostly suffer from “G-spot search”.
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3. Answering a phone call (29%)
Some overworked individuals continue to think about work even during sex, answering calls or pretending to have forgotten to call a business associate. Many of the girls surveyed believe that such “entrepreneurs” should simply cut off all their “assets” and leave the phone behind the bedroom door.
3. Unnecessary voice activity (22%)
Respondents of both sexes unanimously agreed that moaning and roaring cause not only laughter, but also the most genuine irritation. Expressions from porn movies are especially annoying: “Ooo, ja, ja, das ist fantastisish” or “Fuck me, fuck me, harder, harder!!!”, “Oh, baby, I’m already inside you!!!” or “Yes! Feel my little friend!!!”.
4. Going to the toilet at the most interesting moment (19%)
Such behavior is so annoying that it remains without comment.
5. “Sucking” a woman’s breasts (16%)
Women don’t like it when a man makes “sucking” sounds (“chmok, chmok”) during breast curessing, and this is only because making love to an inexperienced young man requires a particularly perverted fantasy.
6. “Hey, let’s do it quickly” (9%)
Sex does not like sprinters. At least from a female perspective.
7. Manifestations of “Machismo” (7%)
Behaving like a real “beast” in bed seems more attractive to men than to women, for whom sex in the style of “I’m a sexy animal” means more rudeness than passion. Evidence that such “machismo” is widespread in the United States is that the majority of women surveyed said they lack the tenderness of men.
8. “Rude” sex (5%)
Obnoxious cursing in bed attracts only a minority, especially when it is understood in our society that partners should be nice to each other.
It should be noted that in this survey, most of the claims were made against men, and there is a reason for this, but from a methodological point of view, this is not correct, because, very likely, men are also not always satisfied with the behavior of women during sex…