It is said that men is more excited by visual stimulation: a partner’s naked body, sexy underwear, an erotic film. All of this is true, but hearing also has a big impact. Many studies confirm that certain phrases spoken during sex increase arousal and can lead to a strong orgasm. How? Very simple – during arousal, all senses are heightened, including hearing. And it should not be forgotten!
But before you get down to business, remember some golden rules:
- Words must come from the heart. It’s not worth saying what you don’t feel or want. Hypocrisy and unnaturalness should be avoided.
- Say what your partner would be happy to hear. Experiment. Say different phrases and watch your partner’s reaction. Over time, you will discover exactly the words that excite your partner the most. If you’ve just started using intimate phrases in bed, don’t get stuck with profanity or excessively obscene words, as this can unpleasantly surprise your partner. Start slowly: choose simpler expressions at first, then more passionate ones.
- Feel the limit. It is enough to say a few phrases during sex. Do not turn sex into a continuous flow of intimate words.
What do men want to hear?
- Compliments. This is the simplest. Say what you see. And say it in a soft voice.
- His name. Call him by name. It is better to avoid the usual diminutives: “honey bear”, “love”, “sunshine”, etc. At other times, these words arouse tenderness, but in bed, a person’s name and its sound arouse the most. Your partner will know you are talking directly to them.
- Erotic fantasies. Talk about how you would like to have sex. In what position would you like to make love or what role would you like to play. It will fire you both up.
- Use your words to control his actions. Tell him how to kiss you, where to caress, how fast to move, how deep you want to feel him. If he hears you, be sure to encourage him with: “that feels so good”, “perfect”; “Yes exactly like that”; “very good”; “don’t stop”.
What phrases will please him?
- “I want you”
- “I can’t take it any longer. I want to feel you inside me”
- “You make me crazy”
- “Your touches are indescribable”
- “Your body drives me crazy”
- “Your smell turns me on”
- “I feel so good with you”
- “I want to feel your hands everywhere”
- “I’ll let you do whatever you want with me tonight”
- “Take me any way you want”
- “I’m going to cum”
- “I’ll give you anything you want”
- “You are mine. I want you now”
- “Whisper in my ear. It turns me on”
- “Your arms are so strong. Don’t let me go, hold me tighter”
- “Show me how much you like me”
- “Your kisses make butterflies dance in my stomach”
- “You’re so sexy”
- “Be gentle to me tonight”
- “Keep going until I ask you to cum”
- “I had such a passionate dream. Let’s repeat it in life?”
- “I saw a new position. Shall we try it?”
- “You have earned an erotic massage tonight”.
After learning the simplest phrases, you can move on to very hot and even rude phrases. Choose the level of openness yourself and expand the boundaries of norms. Remember that everyone’s openness and acceptable behavior is different, even when using erotic words and phrases. Intimate conversations are a guarantee of passionate sex, regardless of the length of your relationship.