This is a candid story about why a man buys sex for money. Why is he bound by the love of shopping?
“The joke is that we have a stereotype: only two types of men use the services of prostitutes – rich businessmen and unpleasant-looking old men with a thick wallet. It is often believed that businessmen go to the girls to buy due to lack of time, because they do not manage to build normal relationships, but old men – because otherwise, you can not go to beautiful girls. Then, here, both the first and the second can afford not to hide their adventures. Everyone else has to do it. And I belong to the others, being a Latvian man “ordinary”. At least that’s what I got from the girls.
I’m a programmer, I have a very decent income and so I can afford sex for money two to three times a month. I do this without the company of friends and the use of alcohol, which is another myth that men go to prostitutes after getting drunk and flocking.
My first experience
The first time it happened to me was completely by accident at a bachelor party. I was twenty years old at the time. A joker called the “massage parlor” and called three girls. The girls came to serve the company, accompanied by two typical bodyguards. By the time they all arrived, the company was already upset and I had to find out. Then I realized that dealings with the relevant authorities need to be done specifically – how much, how much to pay, what services, for how long, how the payment will be made.
Fortunately, my bodyguards were willing to compromise and we were left with two girls. I took one of them to my home. I have never done that since. This should not be done for personal safety. The telephone number I use to call the relevant authorities is separate from me, I never call from a private or work telephone. It is also necessary for security.
I really enjoyed the night I spent with the girl I was shopping for. The sex was great and we chatted very nicely. My girlfriend left me at that time, where I was not in love with anything. I told all this to my “guest”. She, in turn, shared her privacy problems, which turned out to be a little different from the other girls’ concerns.
When the girl left, I hardly thought that she wouldn’t take the money. Stupid, of course! But at the time, I was confused by the friendly atmosphere in which our meetings took place, which was very different from my then idea of how a client and a prostitute treat each other. Of course, he took the money, and it was for me to learn that, first of all, attitude has a business substance, no matter how the relationship with a woman develops – whether it’s just sex or a candid conversation about personal topics. There is nothing more to look forward to.
I met that girl a few more times in a room rented by her and a colleague. I liked her “sister” even more and I spent time with her from time to time for almost a year. Then the same girl recommended my girlfriends to me and they turned them on again. Thus, by the age of twenty-seven, I had accumulated quite a lot of knowledge about the use of intimate services.
Terms and conditions of use
I never look for girls on the street. It would confuse me to do such a delicate act in front of others. Only once, on a business trip, did I get excited about looking for intimate services in a foreign city. And I’m not interested in minors, drunk or drunk, or desperate. I called the desperate ladies who, due to lack of money, took to the streets and agreed to do everything for the lowest price. Among such ladies, firstly, sexually transmitted diseases are common, and secondly, they are, as a rule, mentally unstable. I am afraid of such women.
I used to use advertisements in the press. The services advertised there guarantee a quality service. Only if you are not a regular customer can you get a product that does not have a good sales. Sometimes I ordered two girls for myself – it excites me more, so the appearance of the girls is not so important anymore. Now I use the internet to see pictures of girls .
Once out of curiosity, I ordered a “heavy lady.” I wasn’t particularly excited about it. I prefer classic sex and massage. Especially if the massage is performed on the whole body.
Girls are different
If one thinks that the representatives of the most profession are all model-type girls, then he is very wrong. They are so different – both fat and ugly, and so on. Looks don’t really matter too much, the main thing is that she has experience and talent. Age also doesn’t matter. I have recently liked a forty-five-year-old lady with whom I have met several times and am planning to meet again.
But in general, I treat all girls well. It happens to be a fool, but most of all they are life-wise women with their own plans. They do not intend to work this job forever. I do not believe that prostitution is an inevitable path for a woman to decline. They earn well and, by managing money wisely, it is possible to start a small business.
I have gone to prostitutes and will continue to do so
I can’t answer why I’m doing that. But I can say for sure that not because I have problems in my private life. I have a great relationship with my wife and in bed we are very nice and wonderful. I have such clicks that my wife doesn’t quite support. She doesn’t like oral sex at all. Women’s magazines claim that precisely because a woman refuses to do something in bed, men go to prostitutes. As if improving her “mastery”, she could focus on her husband’s sexual interest only to herself.
Not true! In fact, when sex is with a close and loved woman, there are emotions and feelings involved. It depends a lot on whether you have just had a dispute or feel an attack on each other.
With a prostitute, you get sex in a pure way, just the way you want it, not the way your wife is ready at the moment.
Of course, a prostitute will never lose control of herself, as a woman in bed can love because she loves you. But at the same time, the partner’s feelings are more related to emotions than to sex itself. One should not think that a girl does not feel anything for money. The more enthusiastic the client shows, the more profitable the girl works.
What really strikes me is that visiting prostitutes is like an illegal activity. It’s a dangerous game, but it’s exciting – you pay and set the rules. And there is another tempting moment in sex for money: the fact that it is done by women who have a special attitude towards sex. I am not talking about those who are forced into prostitution. I am talking about those who like to do TO, and this attitude would be comparable to that of men. That’s why I’m already drawn to them. We are supposed to be secret allies who do not want to know much about each other.
Sometimes I think that I treat these girls like my guys, who understand me without words, even though they have their shortcomings. ”