Porn movies are usually characterized by extremely unrealistic scenarios and events. However, even though we understand that this is not reality, sometimes we still expect a performance or reaction worthy of a porn movie from our partners. Later you have to wonder: “What? Doesn’t that happen in real life?” The answer is simple: it almost never happens in real life! However, if you want to have sex like in a porn movie, let’s take a look at what an adult movie-worthy act really is.
The reality is much simpler
Many people believe that pornography shows what usually happens in the bedrooms of sexually active people. But this is not true. Porn movies are created to satisfy your bored brain in the simplest way and show you something that will make you wonder and interest you. And if you believe that everyone is doing what you see on the screen, it is very easy to create a false concept of “good sex”, which, unfortunately, will not give you the satisfaction you want, not to mention that it will limit your opportunities to explore your senses, interests, feelings and thus will prevent you from discovering the most suitable turns of love games for you and only you.
Double the pleasure
If you look at the pages of pornography, you will quickly realize that about one in five scenes has double penetration in them. In real life, hardly anyone has tried this trick. Why? Because this type of lovemaking is usually uncomfortable and even painful for the woman involved. However, if the couple agrees that they want to try this sensation in their bedroom, try it with a small diameter vibrator first: it may not be as intriguing as you expected, but it will help you understand whether you both enjoy it and are ready to move on to more serious activities.
She can’t stop moaning
If women were really turned on enough to moan at the sight of a man undressing, they would have multiple orgasms every day without even having sex. In fact, as many as 75 percent of women admit that they regularly fake their orgasms and moan because they want to arouse themselves, their partner, or simply finish what they started faster. Don’t forget that most porn is made by men for men, so the ‘movies’ are made to appeal to a male audience as much as possible.
“Indecent” expressions
In scenes of porn movies, women are regularly referred to as “dirty sluts”, which could be quite offensive in everyday life. Although in real life a small amount of dirty talk is really sexy, how we address our partner in bed should be agreed upon in advance. Otherwise, to put it mildly, a person can be offended. And this is natural: a reasonable people feel uncomfortable when they are humiliated.
Triumphant splashes
Ejaculation on the partner’s face lets the movie watchers know that what is happening on the screen is real. That is to say, if the action ends in, say, the vagina, how can you convince the viewer that the man finished at all? However, many women admit that they do not like it when their partner cums on their face or in their mouth. In addition, the reaction of porn actresses to such a climax distorts reality: on the screen it seems that the woman is experiencing ecstasy at this moment. In fact, even those who find such endings acceptable usually do not derive pleasure from the action alone. Therefore, it is better not to present such a “surprise” to your partner without warning, and if you dream of repeating it at home, be sure to discuss everything in advance, not half a minute before orgasm.
His erection is always hard
You will hardly ever see a flaccid penis in pornography. The script dictates its own rules: masculinity must be strong from the moment you take off your pants until the end. And even some time after that.
However, psychologists have found that the more often a man watches porn and the more he sees this “always hard” myth, the less confident he is on his performance and the more often he experiences erectile dysfunction.
Therefore, in this case, it is recommended to worry as little as possible about the situation during sex and focus more on what your partner feels. Some men tend to view sex as a game to be won rather than an experience that helps strengthen the relationship. And while intercourse is very important in a couple’s relationship, sex itself involves a wider range of feelings and actions than just inserting a penis into the vagina. Therefore, even the process of erection itself can become a pleasant erotic experience.