The smell of her new friend, a man, had not yet faded from her hair when she was already on the phone to call the man she met at the club yesterday. She wants to meet a new acquaintance… No, she wants to sleep with her. Looking in the mirror, she will never say she has nymphomania. At least not yet, because the new friend has already come to the house and is waiting for him… All you have to do is paint your lips, tighten the edge of the lace sock, let go of your hair, smell the scent given by another man and go!
Nymphomania – no matter with whom and where…
The word nymphomania translates from the Greek words “nympho” and “mania” to mean bridal mania. It sounds beautiful, but in reality, it is often not just a way of life, because often this mania is an abnormal sexual desire of a woman. A woman becomes a slave to her sexual intercourse, she begins to subordinate life to it all. In this case, a nymphomaniac is a woman who does not care with whom, where, and how, the main thing is to have a sexual act.
It is difficult to judge whether this tendency is physiological or psychological. However, according to sexologists, the root of the whole cause is the dissonance of psychological and biological factors. Nymphomania can best be described as chaos, disorder within oneself, which creates an exaggerated desire for sex. Nymphomania can never be confused with hypersexuality, which is simply a healthy and active desire for sex. It may be exacerbated, but it does not take the form of a mental illness. Hypersexuality involves choosing partners according to what criteria and satisfaction are at the end. But in nymphomania, the most important thing is physical contact.
Even an orgasm is not important, it is not achieved, but the desire is to fall again and again in someone’s arms.
Sex – a test of your true quest
Most often, nymphomaniacs live alone, do not maintain a serious and long-lasting relationship, because they are in search of their partner. While it is also true that sex is an important part of a relationship, nymphomaniac sex as such is measured by a very high bar. In principle, sex determines whether you are meant for me or not…
The era today is in a hurry. We can now do everything very quickly (years ago it all started with a romantic letter). Now we can have sex here on the Internet. We become careless and divided among ourselves. We cannot pause. It is so very easy for us to change, to consume, we do not have to create anything because we can get the next one. And this is where its division develops.
A woman who is looking for the next one, slowly and even unconsciously, but remains in a way dependent on this process. In a way, addiction arises. A woman is lonely, she tries to find a man next to her as soon as possible, but she is not and is not…
If another problem drowns in a bottle, then there are women who want to destroy their problems through sexual adventures – one after another, again and again… Until a prince on a white horse is found who will give her an orgasm. Often this crisis of self-confidence and mania has been pushed so far that the real encounter is overgrown with another problem. The woman no longer understands what she wants, she doesn’t care that so much someone gets her, someone wants and covets her. And here we go to another cause of nymphomania.
I can get them all in bed!
I think you have often heard such a phrase in girls’ conversations. Well, it takes courage to say something like that, but obviously, it’s important to someone. It is important to prove it. And here sex works as a competition. A woman wants to inadvertently prove to herself and others that she can get any man in bed. That each of these men in a nightclub longs for sex with him.
A woman puts sex first, and this ironic belief that “men only need IT from women!” works as a major road sign.
A woman goes on a comparable hunt, she collects her trophies, not at one immediately for a long time. Others would call it a passionate woman, which is every man’s dream, but it is not, in this case, the woman is desperately trying to prove something to herself, which does not end in a relationship. Here, too, there is a misconception that men need only sex from a woman. A person in a relationship in crisis and sexual coldness seeks its fulfillment elsewhere – in casual relationships. A female nymphomaniac uses these communications to possibly stifle her complexes, being unable to find her real man, that she is alone. Casual communication allows her to forget for a moment, to feel coveted, but it does not last long, because one goes and the next is sought. A woman is basically unhappy,
Another aspect is that a woman is able to show her power through these connections. If a man wants to sleep with him again, then a woman here has the opportunity to say no! A woman can reject her, thus showing power and ability to control the situation.
We are currently talking about single women who are looking for their other half, but there are also women who are looking for partners in sex, even though they have a husband and children at home.
When sex solves everything and erases the ghosts of the past
As I said, nymphomaniacs do not always have to be alone. There are cases when a woman is married and has been living with her husband for many years, but sex still dominates as the main factor. One way is when a nymphomaniac begins to use sex to resolve a conflict, problem, or crisis that arises in that relationship. Sex can also be a control, a manipulation, and a way to show power over another person. Often this control of power can be like a ghost of the past, which a woman tries to erase in a future relationship with revenge.
There is also a known scene when sexual intercourse has taken place in a relationship, but people are thirsty for sexual intercourse. This often happens in middle age. This is where the problem begins because it turns out that this is when a woman’s sexuality flourishes. Thus, a woman either ends up unhappy with herself and tries to suppress her sexuality, or on the contrary – she looks for sex partners elsewhere, trying to maintain her family status. In short – I love my husband, but I sleep with my lover! In this case, the woman does not consider it a fraud, because she remains faithful to her husband, sex is something else.
But can we say that a woman is ready only for pure sex, without emotions?
Nymphomania – a disease only for women
Returning to the change of many partners, we must remember about the famous men of this type, we can even read about the love adventures of Casanova or Don Juan in the classics. Now think of women… A woman with this lifestyle is surrounded by society. She is attributed the status of a mild woman, she is dirty. She does not deserve to sleep with many men, because she is a woman. Although after all it is placed on the same shelf with such men. Both women and men can be addicted to sex, only men are chanted with songs of praise, while women are ashamed of their choice to live a free sex life. According to the family counselor, a woman should think and get rid of the views and norms of society. While all this has not turned into a sickness called nymphomania, in the meantime everything is very good. There are things to learn.
Female Nymphomaniac:
– the cause can be anything from crisis in relationships or loneliness to anatomical pathologies;
– also a way to solve your psychological problems;
– treated: in more severe cases a psychiatrist, in the most severe cases – a psychologist;
– orgasm is not achieved;
– alcohol is often used as a helper to get rid of it;
– it is not possible to live with one man while the disease exists;
– excruciating addiction.
An article from the magazine “Sieviete”.