When you start a new relationship, women usually wonder if he will call again there will be no sex this time, but men wonder when she will finally be ready? Sex is a touchy subject, especially when you’re with a new partner. It is very important to make love only at the right moment in a relationship, because the first time with a new partner can determine the entire future course of friendship.
Do it for yourself
Make love when you want to, not when you feel pressured or think that the other person will leave if you don’t do it. Such people are not looking for a serious relationship. Have sex when you feel good and are confident that you are doing it for yourself.
Better later and more
Whether you’re a man or a woman, it’s always better to do it later. Why? Because then you will get to know each other better, you will be able to decide if this is really the right person with whom you want to sleep.
People try to achieve intimacy through sex, but sex is the result of increased intimacy, not the cause.
Focus on friendship
Sex can be really meaningful when it’s a genuine and progressive relationship. Try to get to know your significant other as best as possible, let him/her get to know you. When you ask yourself, “Do I trust him/her?”, the answer should be an certain yes! It’s a way to feel comfortable together, and it’s a prerequisite for good sex. Physical interest will definitely become stronger and more exciting.
Is there enough of other things?
Think about how much physical intimacy you already have. Do you hold hands? Maybe you have trouble holding each other’s hand? Do you feel a spark between you? When you kiss, do you want something more? What does your lover’s kissing style say about his/her preferences in bed? By answering these questions, you will also find the answer to the question of whether it is a good time for an intimate relationship.
Choose the right time
Whether it’s spontaneous or planned, make sure your first time is private and smooth. You don’t have to light candles or lay satin sheets, but the back seat of a car or a quiet street corner might not be the best place. Always be responsible, don’t forget to use protection.
In today’s society, sex has become an important reason to judge relationships, but make sure that your first time with a new partner does not pressure you or make you feel uncomfortable.