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Myths about men and sex that destroy relationships

Not all people feel comfortable talking about sex. This is partly because the topic of sex is seemingly taboo and therefore spreads misinformation. It is even worse when people choose novels or movies as their main source of information. Sex in books and movies is not like in real life, which also creates myths. The portal hellodoctor.com introduces 7 myths about male sexuality, as well as explains why such myths only hinder a full-fledged sex life.

MYTH 1 – THE BIGGER THE MEMBER, THE BETTER THE LOVER

The most common myth about male sexuality is that the bigger the penis, the more skilled the man will be in bed. In fact, larger size does not mean that a man is a better lover or that he will be able to fully satisfy his partner.

Male penises come in different sizes and shapes, and the size of the male genitals is not the determining factor during sex.

Also important are the emotional relationship with the partner, listening to each other’s needs and desires and the desire to fulfill them.

MYTH 2 – SEX MUST BE LONG

Another common myth about male sexuality is that sex must be long. Perhaps this myth could be based on fictitious pornography, which shows continuous, long sex. In real life, sex doesn’t always last for hours. According to studies by sexologists in Canada and the USA, the average duration of sexual intercourse is 7-13 minutes. Longer sexual activity was rated as unpleasant, but shorter one was considered too short.

Another study found that men reach orgasm after an average of 5.4 minutes. This confirms that sexual activity does not have to be as long as many think. The most important thing is that both partners are happy with sex, no matter how long the process.

MYTH 3 – A MAN MUST HAVE A LASTING ERECTION

The average erection time for men is usually 25-30 minutes. You really don’t have to worry if the erection is shorter. The duration of an erection is affected by factors such as anxiety, depression, stress and general health.

MYTH 4 – MEN ALWAYS WANT SEX

This myth is deeply rooted and suggests that the only thing men want is sex. In fact, men, like women, experience different periods and phases in their lives – sometimes they want sex more often, but sometimes they don’t want to make love at all.

Believing in the myth that men are constantly ready for sex can sometimes cause problems. Men can feel pressured to make love when they don’t want to. By feeling psychological pressure, a man can move emotionally away from a relationship or even experience erectile dysfunction.

A man may feel anxious that he will not be able to satisfy his partner, so he feels heightened anxiety, and eventually the desire to have sex disappears.

Men should keep in mind – not wanting sex is only natural. In addition to sex, there are other ways to please yourself and your partner.

MYTH 5 – TO MAKE LOVE REQUIRES AN ERECTION

It is often sacred for men to believe that sex is just sexual intercourse with a member entering the vagina, and that it necessarily requires an erection.

In fact, passionate caresses, kisses, oral sex, and touches can provide no less pleasure. By using the various methods mentioned above, you will only enrich your sex life.

Don’t be afraid to try sex toys and diversify your sex. Explore, be interested in trying something new – then sex will not become monotonous.

MYTH 6 – ORGASM IS THE ONLY EXPRESSION OF SATISFACTION

This is a popular myth that men themselves tend to believe. Of course, orgasm is super, but it is also natural if sex does not end with orgasm. It is not necessary to assume that sex without a climax is harmful to health.

This myth is disturbing because men focus only on how to experience orgasm, forgetting to bring joy to their partner. Sexologists strongly advise men to focus more on the sexual process itself, not just on the end result. Then the feelings will be more diverse and more pleasant.

MYTH 7 – MEN DON’T WANT TO DO ANYTHING AFTER ORGASM

Due to this ancient myth, couples often face difficulties in the bedroom. It is often assumed that a man who has just had an orgasm no longer wants to hear anything about sex, regardless of whether the partner is satisfied or not.

This is not always the case. In fact, by waiting 15-20 minutes after orgasm, most healthy men will be ready to make love again.

Let’s hope that by dispelling the most common myths about male sexuality, the sexual life of many people will become significantly more enjoyable.

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