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Threesome – how not to ruin an existing relationship

Threesome – many dreams about it, but dare to implement it in life – much less. Gives up prejudice and allows yourself to gain new experiences and feelings. How did you not ruin your first experience if you are in a serious relationship and have decided to involve a third party? In which cases, the…

Threesome – many dreams about it, but dare to implement it in life – much less. Gives up prejudice and allows yourself to gain new experiences and feelings. How did you not ruin your first experience if you are in a serious relationship and have decided to involve a third party?

In which cases, the tips below won’t help:

• If you meet by chance one night;
• If you are two men or two women who wanted sharp feelings here and now;
• If you don’t care what happens next, no iteration is planned and no matter if everyone is happy.

threesome sex

Tips to help a resilient couple with long-term relationship experience gain new feelings and not “burn out”

Why do you need to diversify your sex? The passion disappears over time and this is a proven fact. If you’ve been together for more than three years, you probably understand. Threesome sex is one of the ways to diversify that can help someone, but for someone, it will seem to be missed.

The first experience

The first experience of threesome sex is a test for any relationship. It is necessary to treat each other with special care to make it clear that you are here for each other, the highest value – it is your relationship, not the third party. If in the process you see that your partner does not like something, take a break, pull him to the bathroom, and talk about what is happening.

Tell me how much you love each other. Relax, calm down, inspire – you know best what to say. And if the discomfort disappears – continue. If not, it is better to stop altogether. You will still have the opportunity to try.

If you have not had such an experience, it is better not to invite a good friend as a third party. If something goes wrong, you risk permanently damaging the relationship with the third party.

THREESOME – DECIDE WHAT THE FORMAT WILL BE

Man-woman-man

Pluses
  • Two men can meet a woman much better than one. Four hands, two mouths, two limbs. Double entry. Double enjoyment. One of the most common women’s fantasies – she and two macho (or more). The lady feels like a queen, is the focus of two men at once.
  • This format requires very little preparation. The woman just needs to be trusted, then everything will happen. Two men will always find what to do with a woman.
  • Everyone has heard of multiple orgasms in women. The male body is decorated differently. They need time to regain strength after ejaculation. While one is active, the other is resting and vice versa.
  • There is no danger of transmitting microflora. If the guest has condoms, then no one will get new germs and fungi. Unlike the woman-man-woman format, you need to follow it much more carefully.
Minuses
  • A woman must rightly trust at least one of the men. It is necessary for someone to be able to hear: “Stop, I do not want to”.

Passion surges four strong hands greatly reduces a woman’s degree of freedom and it is easy not to notice that something is causing discomfort.

For example, that something in this position is painful. Pain and pleasure are difficult to distinguish, especially if you are not familiar. There must be someone who will be able to stop the woman’s unpleasant behavior, change the posture or amplitude.

threesome sex

Or, for example, she wasn’t going to have anal sex. Games in the heat of two men are easy to insist on their own. It’s not forced, no. After another orgasm, she may not have the time or opportunity to object. But later she will say, “No, I didn’t want that, it just happened. I was against it, I don’t like it. ” And the impression is damaged, resentment remains. To avoid this, a special word “stop” needs to be agreed upon.

  • The man must be aware that he will be in the same bed with another naked guy with a horny member. And there is no way to prevent accidental contact at all. If you do not like this thought, it is better to refrain from such adventures. The psyche is more expensive.

Woman-man-woman

If a threesome is between two women and one man, then everything is much more complicated. There is a widespread legend among men that having sex with two women is just wow! A charming picture in front of your eyes: two women are dancing, kissing passionately, caressing each other, sometimes looking at a man. Excited throws on top of a man and… Nonsense! In nine out of ten cases, one or both women remain frustrated with what they say.

threesome sex

Causes:
• the man paid less attention to her than she would have liked;
• the man had been dealing with the other woman for too long and she was already “cool”;
• the man was too agitated and stopped quickly;
• one of the women was jealous;
• Women began to compare themselves and suffered from imaginary physical disabilities, etc.

But the main reason is that a man does not have enough energy and attention for both!

Pluses
  • It is very beautiful. Two naked women in bed – a delightful view. Men, (with a few exceptions) find lesbian erotica exciting. No wonder it is one of the most popular scenes in the porn industry. Most women like it too.
  • Lets open up female sexuality and find out about it. Maybe she’s bisexual – a great and safe way to explore this aspect of her sexuality.
Minuses
  • The man will have to work hard to satisfy both. It is really difficult and there is a risk that all three will be dissatisfied. In addition, women are more sensitive than men and will notice and react to all the nuances of the trio’s mood. Bad joke – and the temperature of arousal drops. Or, for example, a woman would usually drink sweet champagne, but you’ve bought Brut. And yet – women are more ashamed of each other than men – “oh no, she will see my excess weight on my hips, horror, turn off the light faster!”
  • You have to prepare for the meeting. The ladies should get acquainted. Find out who likes it. Make sure the invited girl is not afraid and trusts you. Once again, tell your wife how much you love her. Make sure your woman doesn’t see a stranger as a threat to your relationship.
  • Increased safety measures must be observed. The vaginal microflora can be transferred from one woman to another not only with a member, but also with fingers, lips and other parts of the body.
  • There are women who have completely unacceptable sex or even just erotic games with a member of their gender.

For the game to be successful, there must be cooperation, a team game in which two partners deal with the third. Start with the invited girl. Together with your regular partner, pay full attention to her. Then, after the climax and rest, change roles.

Pin on Threesome

What if your partner is strictly heterosexual? No need to portray lesbian porn, do dicking, or squeeze breasts. Even kissing is not obligatory. It is enough to caress the back, abdomen, legs. Kiss your neck, shoulders, and ears. Caress your head and hair. Even just hug, look into your eyes and smile encouragingly while the man is working with him.

General practical advice

  1. Most importantly, all three must have mutual sympathy. If at least one participant has a dislike for another, sex will only increase. Look for another partner.
  2. Arrange a stop word with your regular partner, which should be stopped immediately.
  3. Some sexologists recommend abstaining from sex a few days before the meeting, as well as including aphrodisiacs in your diet .
  4. Better to meet in a neutral area. The invited participant will feel uncomfortable in the owner’s apartment in any case. In a neutral place, everyone is equal and it is easier to relax. If there is a sauna, then it is always possible to fill an awkward break with the words “Let’s go to the pool!” In the worst case – a hotel. Not everyone will like the threesome to go to the number in front of the administrator. If possible, make sure the rooms are clean in advance. Dirty floors and dust on furniture – a safe way to a damaged evening.
  5. Provide a romantic atmosphere. Appropriate music, candles, flowers, chocolate, twilight. This is important for two, but even more for three. If you are not sure that all participants like scented candles, take the usual ones.
  6. If you wish, you can start the evening together by watching porn.
  7. Fruit, water and light snacks. Some snacks are half a banana, others half a grilled chicken. Everything is relative, so you should know in advance which types of snacks and what alcohol would be recommended. Food and alcohol better less and lighter. Strong drinks should not be taken. There must always be water!
  8. Provide adequate lubricant and contraception.

PS The author of the article is a man with a long-term relationship experience.

Source: lifehacker.ru

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