There are things you can only find out by asking. Not only at the beginning of a relationship, but also in a long-term partnership, it would be nice to know what your partner’s sexual priorities are – what the other person prefers.
It is especially important to find out what excites them, what suppresses the excitement, what happens in their fantasies, what the other person dreams about. Knowing this, the question of how to give pleasure to a woman or a man becomes much easier to solve.
A question like, for example, “How many sex partners have you had in your life?” is of course not allowed. It’s just confusing, even humiliating, and trust me, you don’t really want to know. The questions asked should help you find out how to arouse the other person and what your partner wants in sex.
NOTE. Some of the suggested questions are quite direct. When asking questions, do not lose alertness and judgement. Don’t push the other person to open up if you notice that the question is bothering them. Also, start with the most innocent questions: later you can move on to the more daring ones.
50 questions to ask to find out all your partner’s sexual priorities
1) Do you like to use your tongue when kissing?
2) Which parts of your body are most sensitive to kisses?
3) What do you think about quickies?
4) Do you like caresses your breasts and nipples?
5) Would you like to be spanked during sex?
6) What is your attitude towards receiving/giving a slap during sex?
7) Do you prefer dominance or submission in love games?
8) Would you like to try role-playing?
9) Do you like to be a little rude in an outburst of passion?
10) What would you like me to call you when we make love?
11) Is eye contact important to you during sex?
12) How long do you think the perfect sex act should last?
13) Is there a thing that you did not dare to try for a long time, but later you liked it?
14) Is there something that you wanted to try for a long time, but later you were disappointed in it?
15) Would you like a threesome? If yes, which variant – FFM or MMF?
16) Do you like watching people make love?
17) Would you like to be watched during sex?
18) What are your favorite sex positions?
19) What is most likely to bring you to orgasm?
20) Have you tried anal sex? Maybe you want to try it?
21) Your attitude towards giving anal pleasure to a man?
22) Have you ever had the urge to anally satisfy a man using a vibrator?
23) Do you like it when your loved one chokes you during sex?
24) What kind of porn do you like?
25) What sex toys do you like to use when you masturbate?
26) What sex toys do you like to use when you have sex with your partner?
27) Do you like to make love in the shower?
28) How would you react if a familiar/unfamiliar couple offered you to become a partner in sex games?
29) Which places do you stimulate yourself with your hand to feel pleasure?
30) Do you like to please your partner orally? Why do you like/dislike it?
31) What’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
32) Have you dreamed about having sex in a public place, such as a party?
33) How naked have you posed for pictures that you dared to send to someone?
34) What has been the most obscene sentence from your sexting repertoire?
35) Maybe there is something unusual that excites you?
36) Do you like it when food is involved in sex games?
37) Have you had virtual sex?
38) Do you like rough or soft sex?
39) Do you like the “69” position?
40) Do you prefer to make love in the light or in the dark?
41) Do you like it when your partner pulls your hair during sex?
42) Do you like erotic massage?
43) Would you like to be tied up or tie up your partner during sex?
44) Have you tried the sensory ‘shutdown’ effect achieved by using a blindfold or earplugs?
45) How long do you think caresses should last after sex?
46) Where do you like to feel your partner’s ejaculation?
47) Do you like to make love in your underwear?
48) Which people would you like to try threesome with?
49) What kind of sex would you call unforgettable?
50) What should I do to make your wildest sexual fantasies come true?