I will describe a classic situation: people live with each other not because they love each other, but because a lot of time has passed, there is really nowhere to go, or there is no desire to go somewhere, to look for something new. You just want to live with a person you know well, you know what to expect from this person. But what could a woman do to make a man love her forever? Even if it’s been decades since you started living together?
First, routine kills love. A person is already known to the ends of their hair: everything that could have been – has already been, everything that was once unclear – now isn’t. But we all need something new and something that sparks interest. Therefore, some go in search of another partner. However, the question – how to “force” a man not only to stay, but also to love you – remains relevant.
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The first characteristic is that a woman must change so that a man can fall in love with her anew every day. Yes, this quality is very difficult to develop in yourself. After all, you have to devote yourself to self-improvement, to change. And it’s not just about appearance – you won’t surprise anyone with that today.
You have to change inside. For example, when a person reads a lot, they change and improve. New experience is gained, a new attitude is formed.
Change, do something new, learn new things, travel. Today do one thing, tomorrow something else. Impress him today with your dancing skills, tomorrow with your knowledge of the French. The advantage of this approach is that if a man loves you, he will follow your example – he too will develop and change.
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The ability to find a compromise is another quality that will make him love you for life. Everyone knows how men do not like unnecessary arguments. And not everyone has enough patience. If a woman constantly generates conflicts, a man will not be happy.
Conflict kills love. Who wants to be with a person who just tolerates you and your arguments instead of truly loving you? A woman must be able to find a compromise, and (mostly) give in if a man finds one.
After all, family life is full of conflicting moments. And it’s so nice to see a woman next to you who can calmly find a way out of conflict situations.
I’m not saying that a woman has to conform to a man all the time. Compromise is when both are satisfied with the result.
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The third quality is that a woman brings love and peace. After all, to receive love, you have to give it back. A man must see that it is mutual love, that he is accepted and loved.
Yes, not every man can answer this the way a woman would like, but here you have to make a choice in advance before starting a relationship. Because if a man does not particularly want to share love from the very beginning of the relationship, it would be absurd to expect it from him later.