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How to Properly Give Cunnilingus? 2 Most Important Things to Keep in Mind
Cunnilingus is undeservedly considered one of the most difficult sexual acts. Perhaps this stereotype comes from another stereotype – about the “complexity” and “mystery” of the female genitalia.

The well-known American sexologist, psychotherapist and book author Ian Kerner assures that it is really not difficult to bring a woman to orgasm. An expert dispels myths and shares practical advice for men.

1. Let your partner relax

Many women experience discomfort during cunnilingus. For some, it is related to complexes about the smell and taste of their body or the belief that the genitals are not beautiful. Others worry that their man does not like to do it. And then there are those who don’t like to be the center of attention and just cannot relax.

Usually, women are hypercritical of their bodies, so a man’s eyes, nose and mouth in her most sensitive and vulnerable area cause even a little resistance.

Of course, you won’t be able to instantly change how your partner feels. But you can help her relax. In many ways, success will depend on your approach to oral sex.

One of the main myths about cunnilingus is that it is not as pleasurable as penetrative intercourse. The fact is that many women have the exact opposite. Therefore, let her know that you take the process seriously, that for you it is not just foreplay before the “main part” and that you are really passionate about it.
In order to fully enjoy the process together with a partner, a man must learn three things:
- During cunnilingus, forget about yourself: now your main goal and source of pleasure is creating pleasure for her.
- Take your time: she is worth all your time.
- The smell of her is exciting, the taste is wonderful. And that is part of the beautiful nature. If you can show your partner that you really like it, you will be on her list of best lovers.
2. Prepare your partner and yourself for long-lasting pleasure

Foreplay before cunnilingus is another way to relax and arouse a woman. It should be like a rule: the clitoris is too sensitive – it should not be touched right away. Direct stimulation is not the best solution. Therefore, take time for kisses, hugs, touches, fantasies. And only when the woman is sufficiently aroused, you can move on to the genitals.

No need to rush: start with light movements with your tongue up and down.

Keep in mind: even after such preparation, your partner will reach orgasm after about 20 minutes. So take care of your comfort. Make yourself comfortable. Try to keep your lips and tongue at a 45 degree angle to her instead of a 90 degree angle, this will make it easier for you. Rest your head on your partner’s leg. If you don’t like cunnilingus lying down, you can kneel next to the bed. Regardless of the method you choose, make sure you’re comfortable and willing to put in the time.
03.21.2023.
A Delicate Problem After Oral Sex – Spit or Swallow? Science Has Explained What Happens in Both Cases
Fellatio is an activity enjoyed by both humans and animals. However, its ending can be a bit problematic. Those who do, very quickly wonder whether to swallow the seed or spit it out, so read up on what the scientists have to say before making a decision.

Is it Better to Swallow?

Fans of swallowing might like the fact that a study was published in 2002 that found that hormones in semen can have a positive effect on a person’s mental health. However, it should be noted that in this study sperm entered the participants’ bodies vaginally, not orally, and it was not possible to establish a causal relationship between sperm and emotional state. Nevertheless, the results are still intriguing.

According to the authors, women who do not use condoms during intercourse have lower levels of depression than those whose partners use condoms, and “women’s depressive symptoms and suicide attempts were proportional to the consistency of condom use.”

Much more research would be needed to confirm such an effect, but the researchers note that semen contains significant amounts of mood-enhancing hormones such as oxytocin and serotonin, which were found in women’s blood when the sperm entered their bodies.

It’s hard to say if the same thing happens after swallowing sperm. But it can also be done for other reasons, as 100 ml of male ejaculate contains about 5000 mg of protein, as well as quite a large dose of zinc and small amounts of vitamin C, magnesium and potassium. Of course, daily doses of these substances are better obtained through food.

In addition to the good vitamins, semen also contains an antioxidant called spermidine. Studies show that it slows the aging process in yeast, worm, fly and mouse liver cells. This effect is due to spermidine’s ability to regulate the self-digesting process of cells called autophagy. However, it seems unlikely that such an effect would be achieved with oral sex.

Is It Better to Spit It Out?

On the other hand, by spitting and not getting all of the above, you greatly reduce your chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, herpes, and hepatitis. Of course, these diseases can also be contracted by not swallowing semen, and the chance of getting an infection increases significantly if the person performing oral sex has open sores in or near the mouth.

Spitting is also necessary for those who are allergic to sperm – this is called Human Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity (HSP). This allergy, caused by certain proteins produced by the prostate, can cause a range of local and systemic symptoms. This is why some people cannot enjoy sex without protection.

Fortunately, this condition is very rare and will not cause concern for most oral sex users.

There are pros and cons to your decision to spit out or swallow, but when it comes to climaxing, it’s best to stick with your personal preference alone.
10.10.2022.
Research: Oral sex improves women’s health and helps fight depression
A study found that oral sex affects a woman’s mental health. In addition to being a natural anti-depressant, male seed has many other good properties.

Researchers at the State University of New York conducted a study to find out the relation between sex and a woman’s mental health. Researchers conducted a survey of 293 sexually active women. It turns out that there is a strong connection between oral sex and a woman’s mental health, and it is even more effective than regular intercourse for women in the fight against depression.

Scientists have long discovered that male sperm contains natural substances that improve mood and increase libido, as well as positively affect the quality of sleep. Three antidepressants are found in seminal fluid:
- Cortisol
- Oxytocin
- Melotanin
Cortisol speeds up metabolism, regulates glucose release, stimulates metabolism and is known as the sex drive hormone. Deviation of its indicators from the norm can indicate all kinds of health problems (depression, frequent infections, chronic diseases of internal organs, excess weight), but it is very important to find out the cause of the decrease or increase in the level of cortisol in the body.

The study found that women who have unprotected sex are less likely to suffer from depression, anxiety and mental illness compared to women who use barrier contraception (such as condoms). But unprotected sex isn’t the only way to naturally increase cortisol levels in the body. Don’t forget that this hormone is also produced during oral sex!

Let’s get acquainted with another natural hormone of happiness – oxytocin. This hormone is one of the main neurotransmitters found in sperm.

And the third antidepressant, which is also found in semen, is melotanin. Melatonin is responsible for the normal human biological rhythm and is essential for quality sleep.

Oral movements produce oxytocin

During oral sex, the nerve endings on the lips are actively stimulated, and the body produces more of the hormone oxytocin, which also has a relaxing effect. So even if the seed is not tasted at the climax of oral sex, the benefit is still there.

And, if you suffer from stomach pain and gastritis, the complex of natural components of lipids and amino acids absorbed from sperm has an excellent healing effect.

Pregnancy

When a woman receives a regular dose of ejaculation during oral sex, the body begins to recognize her partner’s DNA. In the future, in order to have an offspring, it will help the fetus to attach to the uterus more easily. (Of course, this does not necessarily mean that it is impossible to get pregnant during any kind of intimacy.) However, acclimating the body to the same partner’s semen reduces the risk of early miscarriage. This is because the female body accepts the recognized protein more easily. Statistics show that at the beginning of pregnancy, about 15-20% of women experience a miscarriage. Therefore, in order to reduce these threats, it is important to take measures so that the woman’s body does not react aggressively to pregnancy.

Calories burned

We have already mentioned that some hormones affect the metabolism and provide other valuable benefits. In addition, French researchers claim that three hamburgers and a bag of chips are “burned” during 53 minutes of oral sex.

For beauty and happiness

Experts claim that sex has a positive effect on the body and improves the condition of the skin. The absorption of progesterone and other substances into the skin allows you to get rid of acne and small wrinkles on the skin. Women who regularly make love look more attractive and are more cheerful than those who give up this pleasure.

For many women, oral sex is still associated with something dirty and devoid of spiritual values, and a “happy ending” in the mouth is tantamount to self-humiliation. However, no matter how the relationship between oral sex and spiritual values is perceived, it does not change the fact that nature itself has created us in such a way that contact with a man’s seed has a positive effect on a woman’s mental and physical health.
07.19.2022.
Oral Sex Positions You Need To Try
You can enjoy sex in all possible ways, positions and styles, and it doesn’t have to be only vaginal sex. But does this mean that oral sex is still sex? 100%! Sex is any intimate activity that you both consider a “main course” and that includes oral sex. What are the best oral sex positions?

69

“69” is an oral sex position in which the partners are facing each others intimate parts, thus providing the best access to the partner’s genitals. One of the partners usually lies on their back and the other on top, kneeling above the partner’s head. Regardless of your gender, “69” is a great oral sex position for everyone. However, for many it can be a little uncomfortable – it is difficult to maintain this position for a long time. For this reason, you can try to sleep on your side, which allows you to relax your neck muscles.

You can also try the “68” position, which is a variation of the “69”: your partner lies on back and points his/her crotch against the face of the person lying below (or next to). At this angle, you can please your partner with controlled movements, use pressure, rhythm and depth. Oral sex poses – Pose 68 Sex

“68” position

On stomach

While lying on your stomach, spread your legs and lift your hips slightly so that your partner can satisfy you orally from behind. This position is more for women and is also great for sex. Since you are lying, this position is a little more comfortable than a doggy style. You can diversify it with sex toys or use your own hands.

On the face

This is sometimes called ‘queening’ – oral sex while sitting on someones face is exactly what it sounds like – one person is sitting on the other’s face and he or she can lick, suck or kiss their partner’s genitals. This position is fun and sexy, because the person sitting can be more involved in moving their hips. In addition, it creates a sense of dominance that can be incredibly erotic.
06.02.2022.
Oral sex technique that will get him going
You’re already in bed and ready to do just about anything, but suddenly you don’t know exactly what he wants? For this purpose, we have prepared some interesting techniques that will excite you both and help to diversify your sex life. Let’s look at oral sex technique that will drive him crazy!

Do it slowly!

Starting oral sex requires minimal speed. But the dessert must be left for later! To start, you will need to kiss his neck, chest, slowly geeting lower, caress, kiss and gently touch different parts of his body on the way to the long-term goal.

Bottle opener

At first glance, this may not seem like a very smart technique. But in fact, everything is very simple and you will not have to wait long for the perfect result.

Take the head of his penis with your lips as if you were sucking candy and create a vacuum effect in your mouth. At the same time, with a firm grip, push your palms down his penis, changing your arms. After a few such movements, lean back a little and releases the hostage from your mouth. These actions will produce a sound reminiscent of a uncorked bottle of wine. Repeat these steps as many times as you want. It is important to have enough lubricant in your hands, otherwise your hand movements will not make your man feel good.

Tempting whirl

Surround the head of his penis and guide it around your tongue. At the same time, you have to work harmoniously with both hands: one hand goes from top to bottom, and the other constantly follows it. Just move them up and down, like climbing the rope. Don’t stop for a second! At the same time, it is desirable to perform vertical head movements.

Your man should feel as if hundreds of hands are running around him, pulling him into a warm, seductive whirlpool. The most important thing in this method is the synchronization of movements, because it disruption of the rhythm can distract him. So concentration is important for a woman here.

Gentle breeze

The nerve endings of his erogenous zones can be awakened in an incredibly simple way that will make a man tremble with pleasure. This technique will allow your loved one to feel the changing coolness and warmth of your breath. Do this when his penis is in an erected state.

Lightly inflated penis, testicles and other erogenous areas. The moist skin from your tongue and the coolness of your breath will create a wonderful contrast.

By the way, if you are tempted to pleasure your man in this way, sometimes breathe cold, sometimes hot breath. This contrast will excite him even more. To improve the senses, lubricate the erogenous zones with a special, warming or cooling gel.
05.10.2022.
10 Common Sex Dreams (And What They Really Mean)
I will admit – I often dream about eating sandwiches. But while I dream about food, the rest of the world seems to dream of their partners cheating or them failing an exam. And while the most popular thing people dream about (and want to dream of) is flying, physical activities like sex and sports aren’t too far behind. We all occasionally see dreams about sex, but who can tell how to translate them? What these sex dreams really mean?

10 common sex dreams and how to translate them

1. You dream of cheating your partner

Dreams of cheating your partner can mean two things:
- You are feeling guilty of something (but not always guilty about real cheating)
- You experience some confirmation of the passion you feel for your partner. If these dreams appear before your wedding (which is the most common option), it reflects a fresh, renewed sexual attachment to your partner. So don’t worry if sex dreams make you feel unfaithful.
2. The dream that your partner is cheating on you

There is a good chance that these dreams mean that you are trapped, neglected, or you just need attention. A dream of mistrust may also reflect some problems of inner self-esteem and your trust.

3. Dreams about anal sex

Anal sex dreams can mean that you are ready to be obedient or that you hide your worries about expressing your inner thoughts and emotions for fear of rejection or pain.

4. Sex with a celebrity

Let’s be real: who hasn’t had a sexy dream about Ryan Gosling or Justin Timberlake? While it is completely harmless to dream of someone you may never meet in real life, if you dream of having sex with a famous person, it can mean that you have a strong desire to succeed and gain recognition for that success. Basically you want to be a star!

5. Orgasm dream

Have you ever woken up in the middle of a sex dream to realize that you are actually experiencing an orgasm? No hand movements, no effort, just lying in bed, having an orgasm? If not, you’ve missed a lot. But even if you just have dreams of having an orgasm, it’s not bad, because it symbolizes “a great conclusion to some process.”

Dreaming about orgasm can also mean that you just need to have sex in real life or deal with any problems you are currently having in sex.

6. Dream of same sex partner

If you are heterosexual and dream of having sex with a partner of your sex, it has two meanings: either it means that you truly love yourself and have fully accepted yourself, or vice versa – you have insecurity about your masculinity or femininity.

7. Sex with your boss

If I had a coin for every sexual dream with one of the many bosses I have had over the years, I would be rich. Although at the time I thought it was a kind of repressed sexual desire towards these particular men, these dreams actually reflected a desire for control, authority and demonstration of one’s abilities. You just want to be a boss in real life.

8. Dream of having sex with your best friend

Just like dreaming about your boss, having sex with your best friend doesn’t always mean you actually want to do it. It can only signify your emotional intimacy, and this close connection manifests itself as… sex. However, if you are sexually attracted to your friend, sex with him/her in a dream means that you are not ready to express those feelings in life, so you try to solve it in your dream world.

9. Sex with your ex

Well, this is not surprising – dreams of your ex mean you have to let him or her go. If you are with a new partner but still cannot get rid of the awkward dreams of your ex, you are not satisfied with the new relationship or you are worried that your current partner has similar characteristics to your ex.

10. Dreams of oral sex

If you dream of having oral sex or giving it to someone, it means that you are on the right path in your life – just keep going in that direction. It also points to your creativity skills. But if you dream of giving yourself oral sex, it may mean that you want to feel satisfied with yourself. Why else would you dream of being so flexible?
02.04.2022.
Bad blowjob – the main mistakes women make during oral sex
So how exactly is a perfect blowjob performed? And what is a bad blowjob? What methods to use and in what positions to do it? Today advice can be found on almost anything, such as how to imitate a “deepthroat” if a woman is not really ready to “swallow” a penis as deeply as he would most likely want to. Everything has its basic principles, which are often forgotten – and as a result, the partner receives much less pleasure or does not receive it at all.

You focus only on the head of the penis

The head of the penis is very sensitive. But if you work around it for too long, it loses its sensitivity and the senses become dull. Therefore, it is useful to focus on something else too. The penis itself is also sensitive, especially the upper third. And despite the fact that the sensitivity of the rest of it is not too high, most men appreciate it if a woman can perform deep oral sex by taking the whole penis in her mouth. But even if you do not intend to do so, it is useful to pay attention to all of his thing, licking it from the bottom up and vice versa.

You are not paying attention to his balls

They have many sensitive areas. Not all men know this, because they usually don’t touch their balls during masturbation. The scrotum can be caressed both by hand and by mouth. It is important to moisten it thoroughly with saliva, as moisture will quickly turn into a dryness – and this can be unpleasant.

You do it too fast

It is believed that a man is always ready for sex. But is he really? They also need adjustment – both psychological and physiological – and time to prepare. Therefore, oral sex should not start too soon and end too suddenly. A separate question is whether to let the man finish in your mouth. Not all women like this. If you are not ready to complete this process, it is a good idea to notify your partner in advance and offer him other options.

Bad blowjob is too intense

If you want to lead a man to orgasm as soon as possible, it won’t end well. Blowjob will be mechanical and will not be much different from his own masturbation. Your man will start to think that the process is unpleasant for you and that you just want it to end sooner. He may also feel that you are not enjoying it, but simply doing your job. If you ask – what’s wrong that? Well, men also want not only to be satisfied, but also to feel like objects of lust. Therefore, it is important for a man to receive various assurances that a woman wants him and that she is aroused too.

Too repetitious

Sex involves not only our physiology, but also attention and imagination. If the same thing happens all the time, the ability to concentrate is lost and the senses become dull (according to the natural laws of the nervous system). Simple back and forth movements are not enough – after all, a man can provide them for himself with his hand. Therefore, it is important to switch, involving different erogenous zones, varying and inventing new techniques. Balance is important: the movements must be changed, but not too often, so that the received impulses have enough time to add up.

You are too tense

Any pleasure, even an oral one, is not an exam. When a woman is tense, both she and her partner feel that she is going to do something complicated, difficult or even unpleasant. (The gag reflex is sometimes caused by insufficient relaxation.) So, first of all, relax the muscles of your body, face and neck. First of all create a comfortable environment and a pleasant mood for yourself.

Hiding your fafacial expressions

There is a popular saying – “Women love with their ears and men with their eyes.” Indeed, many men get a significant portion of their enjoyment not only from the feelings but also from the view that opens up to them. Therefore, it is useful to let him see what your face looks like during oral sex.

You are too quiet

The fact that men are visual does not mean that they are indifferent to sounds. Moand, sighs and admiration are what make them realize: you like what you do. He does not want to think that you are forcing yourself to do it just for his pleasure.

Not enjoying the process

Sex is a mutual pleasure. And if one of the partners does it without joy, the other will definitely notice it. Mutual enjoyment is especially important in long-term relationship. What to do? One option is to pretend you enjoy it, but it’s much better to learn to really enjoy it.

You can learn to show and feel pleasure. Can you imagine something that you didn’t like at first, but when you got to know the nuances, you liked it? For example, the taste of wine, jazz music or the Renaissance painting? In the same way you can dig into the complexity of the male genitals. You can fall in love with everything – start admiring it, how harmoniously everything is arranged down there, how exactly its shape corresponds to the intended purpose, how sensitive a man reacts to your interest and touches.

Improve your technique. Your growing skills and the responsiveness of your partner will give you more and more satisfaction.

While pleasing your partner, please yourself with a vibrator or your fingers (men like to watch a woman satisfy themselves), or choose the possition where your clitoris can rub against his leg, or allow your partner to please you.
01.26.2022.
Cunnilingus Guide – Common Mistakes and Why Some Men Don’t Want to Do It

Unfortunately, not all men want to give women oral pleasure or in other words – cunnilingus. There are many reasons for this, from a lack of experience and the fear that the intended result will not be achieved, to the principle of “this is not for me”. Here are the most common reasons why men don’t want to do it.

He finds it unpleasant

Some men find that licking a woman’s vagina is simply not pleasant. Just as some women do not want to orally satisfy their partner, they do not want to do cunnilingus.

She does not ask for it

There are many reasons why women do not express their wishes: some are shy to admit what they like, others do not want to put pressure on their partner, while others simply do not know what they like.

Man is not sure about his skills

Some men may be intimidated by the complexity of cunnilingus. After all, we’ve mentioned in previous articles that every woman’s vagina is different, and a woman’s anatomy is much more complex than a man’s. Moreover, even if a man has theoretically mastered everything, he can do so in a way that the woman will not like. After all, women so often fake orgasms and apparent arousal that men often have no opportunity to learn from mistakes. If you are unsure of your skills, take a look here (Cunnilingus Guide – Things Beginners Need to Know) and here (Cunnilingus guide – techniques and best poses).

Some men are selfish

Sometimes there is nothing left in the mind of an aroused man but one thought – his own orgasm.

5 Most Common Mistakes Men Make while giving cunnilingus

They believe that every woman’s body is the same

It is easy to assume that what one woman likes will be liked by another. However, each woman’s intimate areas are different, so do not think that what your ex liked will appeal to the next.

Lack of interest in what the partner likes

Communication is the key in every aspect of a relationship. Before you start kissing her, tell her what you will do with her and ask her what she thinks about it.

The belief that he already knows everything

Men often think that women will get orgasm from simple penetration. Therefore, they tend to believe that the tongue should be used just like the fingers or the penis. Of course, deeper penetration of the tongue into the vagina is pleasing, but by doing this one technique alone, she will definitely not experience an orgasm. Your mission is to stimulate the clitoris, and penetrating the vagina can only be an additional aid in this process.

Too fast

Cunnilingus is an amazing journey in which all parts are equally important. Enjoy it, take your time and immerse yourself with your partner. Oral sex is a marathon, not a sprint.

Too short

You probably wouldn’t last more than 5 minutes if a particularly talented partner gave you oral sex. Remember that women are different. Women need a lot more time to warm up properly, so be patient. On average, a woman experiences an orgasm in 20 minutes, so be prepared to sweat. Giving a woman an orgasm during oral sex will definitely reward you – it’s a really hard, time-consuming job. Cunnilingus art is also a great way to show a woman that you know what you’re doing, trust yourself and that you can be a great lover. When you master this art, your partner will look at you with different eyes, so go ahead, gentlemen!

12.08.2021.
Cunnilingus guide – techniques and best poses
If you have read the previous article, which looked at things that everyone should know about giving cunnilingus, then you can start to develop the technique, which is a particularly important part of it. In this article, we will look at a number of cunnilingus techniques that you can use to give your partner pleasure, as well as the positions in which it will be most comfortable.

Flat tongue
- Using a firm, flat tongue, rub the panties lightly until the material is wet;
- When your partner is wet, place your tongue slightly above the clitoris. Don’t forget the inside of her thighs either;
- Bless her vulva with a firm and flat tongue, licking it from the bottom up;
- With a firm tongue, make small circular movements on the skin that surrounds the clitoris;
- Gently pull the skin covering the clitoris with your fingers and lick the clitoris. Start with light and not too intense pressure, then gradually increase the intensity;
- When you have reached the level of intensity that your partner likes, don’t stop!
Labia

Holding both parts of her outer labia with your lips, move the tongue between the inner and outer labia from one side to the other.

Move your tongue in and out

Most of the nerve endings in a woman’s vagina are at its entrance and a few inches deep. Get to these points using your tongue. The method is quite restrictive due to the length of your tongue, but try to push it firmly in and out as well as to circle it inside the entrance.

Return to the clitoris

Open the outer lip of the vagina with your fingers. Gently move your tongue around your partner’s clitoris. Use your tongue elsewhere, but keep coming back to your clitoris because it is the most sensitive place. Most women adore this method, but for some it is too intense. If you are not sure if she likes it, be sure to start stimulating her clitoris slowly. Try and pay attention to whether she is moaning in ecstasy or frustration.

The following methods should not be used until your partner is warm enough (ie wet). These are more intense methods and can cause some women to feel too uncomfortable, even if they are close to orgasm.

Clit sucking I

Uncover her clit and performe fast, easy suction movements; gently pull it into your mouth and release. It’s like you would suck whipped cream from your finger. It’s an incredible feeling, but by no means exaggerate! We do not recommend using teeth or strict suction at first.

Clit sucking II

Take the clitoris in your mouth and carefully suck it in, making various sudden movements of the tongue around or above it. This can be done very easily or very aggressively. Insert your fingers into her vagina at the same time – it will accelerate the approach of an intense orgasm.

Tongue in a tube

Create a tube with your tongue (if you can’t do that, forget about this point because it’s a genetic ability that can’t be learned). This technique will work best if you are in position 69. The tongue in the tube is placed on her clit. Move it back and forth; in fact, your tongue will do something similar to what a woman’s vagina does to a man’s penis. This can lead any woman to an extremely explosive orgasm.

Alphabet

Try to use your tongue as if you were writing the alphabet on her genitals. It works surprisingly well because the tongue is constantly moving in different directions. Find out her favorite letters and sequences for the best score!

Positions

With your imagination, you can turn almost any of your favorite sex positions into a cunnilingus position, but if you don’t want to think for so long, we recommend the following positions:

On her back

Allow your partner to sleep on her back with a pillow under her bottom. Spread her legs and kneel before her;

Full control

Lie on your back and have your partner wrap her legs around your face. That way she will be able to control the intensity of the movement and pressure, as well as see you;

Almost 69

She embraces your face with her legs, only this time her face is turned away from you, so she can pamper you orally too.
12.07.2021.
Cunnilingus Guide – Things Beginners Need to Know
Oral sex for men is probably the best pleasure a woman can give. It is such a relaxing and enjoyable activity when a man can fully rely on a woman. But women are a little different – they need a little more time to feel comfortable and relaxed, so sometimes it’s impossible to hope that a 10-minute cannulation will shake her world and give her a unique orgasm. Every woman likes different things, so it is imperative to listen to what she says and watch her body, but by reading and memorizing our advice, you can become a real master of cunnilingus. Read on and find out how to give a woman the best oral pleasure in her life.

The best cunnilingus – how to do it?

Cunnilingus can be a perfect introduction, but it can just as well be a great “main course” or “dessert”, so don’t limit yourself. Remember that the anatomy of each woman is completely unique – no two women’s intimate parts are the same, so pay close attention to what is happening. Watch the reaction of your partner’s body and even better – ask what she likes. And don’t forget – no one becomes a master in an instant – you need to practice in providing unforgettable cunnilingus, and experience will come with it.

Smell

You can shower as much as you want, but each of us has an odor that is impossible to wash. It is completely natural, so keep in mind that a woman’s vagina also has a specific natural aroma. However, before giving oral pleasure, it would be good to clean up:
- Ask your partner to take a shower or bath (even better if you do it together);
- Odorless wipes can also be used for this purpose;
- The use of deodorants and perfumes in the genital area should be avoided as they may disturb the natural pH balance.
Taste

Each person’s genitals and secretions also have a certain taste. If the person has good hygiene habits and is healthy, their taste will be normal, but if your partner worries that she may not taste good, offer her to eat pineapple, papaya, nutmeg, cinnamon or celery. Garlic, onions, asparagus and cabbage should be avoided.

Is cunnilingus safe?

There is no risk of pregnancy, but there is a risk of transmitting STD. After all, any contact with the genitals can carry STDs. To protect yourself, you can use special wipes that create a barrier between the vagina and mouth (available here).

How to give cunnilingus?

Preparation

For best results, you need to make sure that your partner is completely relaxed and comfortable. Start with a gentle full body massage, touches and kisses. Give her compliments – make her feel damn sexy and show her enthusiasm. It is also very important to ensure that it is comfortable not only for her but also for you. Arrange so that you are sure to feel comfortable for a long time and avoid neck or wrist pain or numbness. Communication is very important in this process, so ask her how she feels and what she likes, and be prepared to accept your partner’s comments.

Increase your excitement

Often men get to the point too quickly, but it will be much more pleasant for her if you don’t hurry and do everything slowly. Create tension just like in music: start with a gentle, exciting introduction, gradually move on to the main action and don’t forget about the real culmination. Starting slowly and changing the level of intensity will create sexual tension that will eventually escalate into an orgasm.

What to do with the clitoris?

Stimulation of the clitoris is the greatest pleasure for almost every woman. It has more than 8,000 nerve endings that are twice as large as the head of the penis. Women can experience as long and intense orgasms as men can only dream of. But ignoring the clitoris will definitely not give her such pleasure. This erogenous zone of a woman is much larger than it is visible to the naked eye. In addition, it covers both sides of the vagina. Rhythmic massage of these areas before using the tongue will stimulate blood circulation in her genitals and give her a particularly pleasant feeling.

The most sensitive part is the clitoral hump. This area is slightly hidden in the skin fold, so when you are ready to pamper it, gently stretch the skin that wraps around her clitoris. Place your thumb and forefinger on either side of the clitoris, grasp the skin around clitoris with your fingertips, pull it lightly, and let her enjoy it.
12.06.2021.