It is not so easy to sexually arouse a woman. We are all different, and each of us is fueled by something else – one likes to touch, another – massage, still another wants to hear obscene words. In addition, your partner may not be at all sure about what excites her. Fourteen of our readers agreed to tell us which partner’s activities excite them the most so that you also have the opportunity to come up with ideas to warm up on cold autumn evenings.
“My partner speaks two languages very well, and in one of them, my vocabulary is very small. But I understand everything he says. During sex, he tells me obscene words in his native language. It’s extremely sexy, especially if he tells me in a quiet, low voice right in my headset. ” – Anonymous reader
“Once at a party he pushed me to the wall, kissed him passionately and told me how he would be satisfied later. He is usually quite shy, does not speak indecently, so this situation was a pleasant surprise. “- Anonymous reader
“I did not reply to his SMS in words but sent him a sexy picture. He sent a voice message telling him about his reaction (and detailing how he would like to love me later. ”- Anonymous reader
“I am very excited when my partner in bed takes the initiative. In the bedroom, I want completely different things than in life. ” – Anna
“I get excited when he starts massaging my legs while watching TV.” – Lija
“I get angry if obscene words whisper in my ear in a public place.” – Sintija
“When he grabs me by the hips, I will always be happy.” – GL
“Once during my period, my partner focused exclusively on my breasts, and from that, I had an orgasm. I didn’t even know that it was possible to get an orgasm from kissing and loving breasts. ” – Anonymous reader
“The most erotic? If it helps to tidy up the house (unfortunately I’m not kidding). ” – Amanda
“I once met a guy. He once asked if I had ever used ice during sex. I replied that no. He said, “Feelings are super!” I suggested trying. He took me to the bedroom and slowly slid a piece of ice across my body, skipping the intimate places. Then began to touch the neck and chest. Finally, he rushed to the place with both ice and kisses. These slow movements were so pleasant and at the same time a bit excruciating. Overall very exciting. – Regīna
“The guy we only exchanged sexy news with decided to move on to the next level. We started composing voice messages with stories about how we love, and we sent them out in parts. He told about himself, told everything in detail, without missing anything, loving what I like and imagining doing what fascinates me. Each message always ended with a scene or description that excited me greatly. The last story was about sex with eyes closed and hands tied. I could barely listen to his voice and the content of the message. I had never been so excited in my life. – Elizabete
One morning the guy woke me up, slowly stroking my whole body, and whispered in my ear, “Wake up and play with me.” (It was insanely erotic). ” – Karīna
“For me, the most attractive, most erotic behavior of a man is his self-confidence, when a man does not try to prove anything, does not exaggerate. The same goes for the behavior in the bedroom. I like when a man takes the initiative, but on the other hand, I also like to dictate the pace myself. I like surprises, new things, I like the feeling when my partner seems to let me lead, but in the end, it shows that he is the main thing. ” – Ketija
“I am excited to have sexual fantasies with my partner. Then I feel incredibly sexy and attractive to a man. For example, I started, “It would be wonderful to kiss me gently at first.” He replies, “Yes, what’s next?” That’s how we create exciting, erotic stories. ” – Natālija
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