More than half of the men dream of being with a younger woman, while 56% of ladies think of living with an older man. Forbes’ top 400 richest men are married to women younger than themselves, with an average age difference of 7 years. But what exactly an older man can give to a younger woman? Solve some daddy issues or ensure carefree life? And most importantly, will he be consistently good in bed, regardless of age?
Relationship with an older man is not a sign of a sexual complex. An older man symbolizes life experience and trust. He can offer emotional support to a younger woman. Oprahdaily has done a study to find out how many women have had relationships with men who are 10+ years older. She found out that 73% of women had romances with an older man.
Celebrities with a large age difference, such as George and Amal Clooney or Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones, also support the positive public view that age is just a number and does not affect love. However, the large age difference causes its own problems – usually in sex.
Is it possible to have a relationship with an older man?
At first, everything seems as great as if you were created for each other. However, statistics show that couples with a large age gap face much greater challenges. If the age difference is only 5 years, there is an 18% chance that the marriage will be divorced. Couples of the same age – only 3% chance of divorce.
Almost 13% of men out of 40 million Zoosk users are looking for a relationship with a 10 years younger woman. However, there is a fact that these men may not have taken into account: if a man is 10 years older than a woman, there is a 39% chance that the relationship will fail. If the difference is 20 years, there is a 95% chance that the relationship will fail.
When pink glasses fall, life problems usually come to the fore, causing discord and emotional distance between couples. While her young wife’s friends share pictures of sports and newborns on social networks, she is sitting by her elderly husband’s sick bed. The topics and social norms of conversation between a man’s friends and family members can also differ greatly from those to which a woman is accustomed. An older man may not be as physically active as a woman’s friends. The differences usually become visible when a woman reaches the age of 30. Along with the woman’s youthful and modern friends, her former superhero seems simple or even old.
Is sex with an older man better?
An older man has a lot of experience – after all, he was once young. He is well aware of what younger men can give to his beauty. But unlike a younger man, an experienced gentleman is usually in no hurry to try something new and realize a woman’s wild fantasies. However, this does not mean that having sex with an older man is boring. On the contrary, it can be an extremely intimatey.
The body and hormones in men and women change over the years. Women reach their sexual peak at the age of 30-40. In men of the same age, libido increases but sexual ability decreases. In a relationship with a large age difference, it is rare for a man to replace his new wife with an even younger one. It is usually the woman who leaves her older husband to choose a younger one.
Erection, where are you?
Erectile dysfunction affects many people. Happy are those who have it in a light form. As a man gets older, his body produces less and less testosterone and it becomes increasingly difficult to get or keep an erection. Morning erections appear less and less often, and the previous endurance is gone.
For an older man, the balance between mental and physical well-being can be paramount. Stress and anxiety interfere with erections and are also affected by age-related physical changes. If erectile dysfunction occurs only occasionally, there is no need to worry about it. But if you have this problem often, you should see a doctor.
What needs to be done to pleasure a younger woman?
As you get older, it takes more time and physical intimacy to get aroused. At the age of 20, a man’s active libido is very high, and the desire for sex is always present. However, later, at the age of 50, reactive libido begins to dominate. It is enough to have an eye contact and a seductive lover to get excited. But thinking about sex alone is no longer enough.
Often men think of sex as an orgasm, but this way of thinking should be changed. The best advice for couples with a larger age difference is to expand their knowledge of sex. Sex is not just about reaching orgasm. Even in long-term and stable relationships, various methods should be tried, such as prostate stimulation for men and clitoral massage for women. Introduce a variety of sex toys and games, masturbation and a variety of oral activities for both men and women.