Dick pics have never been as popular as they are today. Because almost everyone has a relatively high-quality camera in their pocket, anyone can take clear nude photos at any time and share them with recipients anywhere in the world. Oh, the wonders of modern technology!
But not everyone is happy to receive “penis” pictures. It is a well-known fact that such images do not win women’s hearts because a large number of women tend to consider them rude, annoying, and sometimes even disgusting. They traditionally serve as the size of the sender’s penis, and women suffer from an almost constant influx of images of strangers online that usually appear in their inboxes without their consent. In addition, these nude photos are almost always of poor quality, taken in low light, blurred, and taken at a non-flattering angle, and have nothing to do with eroticism or intrigue.
When better NOT to send a picture of your penis
Unfortunately, receiving a “dick pic” very often seems to women to be an intrusive, uncomfortable, and deeply sexual experience; short, digital interactions that make her day worse than before. And an important reason why getting pictures of the penis is so unpleasant is that so many men send them, without even asking if a woman wants to see them. Unwanted receipt of nude photos is a violation of personal boundaries.
There’s an implied message that reads something like this: “I don’t care if you like it or not, but I want you to look at my penis, whether you want it at all.”
What could be worse and less erotic than that?
Most importantly, for this experience to be positive for both parties involved, you must first obtain the other person’s consent. Always send your nude photo only to people who definitely want to see it, and under no circumstances should it be posted directly on dating sites or social media – it will most often be perceived negatively.
Obtaining consent is not as inconvenient as you might think: just ask the other one if he would like to see your nude photo. Of course, it won’t work with people you’ve just met, and it’s usually good to wait until you’ve exchanged some intimate phrases, or the other person has shared their nude photo first. It is also important to remember that some women will never want to get a picture of your dick, and you have to respect that. In short, send it only if you are absolutely sure she wants it.
What you SHOULD send
When you have no doubt that the recipient will be happy to see what you have received, it is time to take a picture of your treasure. However, it will take a bit of work to take the photo to make it go as planned.
First and foremost, don’t be shy about your size. Many men are obsessed with the size of their limbs (whether large or small). For example, one of the worst things you can do is include objects such as lighters or bottles in the image to scale. This is a surprisingly common tactic that immediately indicates a man’s insecurity. There is no need to advertise your size – just be confident in what nature has given you.
Good pictures are taken thoughtfully and creatively, so no matter what you do, don’t take it from a “bird’s eye view” angle. This is the view when the camera is turned straight down towards the body and the genitals take up the entire frame. Images taken in this way are boring and unoriginal, and they will not leave a good impression.
Instead, try moving the camera a little further and including other parts of the body, such as the thighs, abdomen, and arms.
It is also important to pay attention to lighting: use natural light whenever possible. Also, take into account that a safe way to make a photo more erotic is to include hands in it. The hands are a very attractive part of the body.
Finally, you will need to think about the environment in which you will take the picture. It is not necessary to overdo it with extreme places – a bedroom or bathroom will suffice, but it is important to make sure that the background is clean and tidy. No one will want to see a pile of laundry in the background or your collection of half-empty shower gels.