It is great fun to indulge in the joys of love with someone – but sex is considered good only when you and your sex partner feel satisfied and happy. We have all experienced the selfishness of a loved one at some point in our lives and tried to take the blame for a less well-spent night instead of putting things in the right words. Let’s look at things that can happen in the bedroom and which will definitely confirm that you are not the right person next to you.
1. You avoid sex with him
Whenever possible, you find excuses for not being able to have sex. You lie about a sore stomach, headache, back pain, fever. You may as well excuse yourself for being too tired because you couldn’t sleep last night or it was a difficult day. Or you don’t say anything because you just don’t have the mood.
2. There are better ways to spend time
During sex you do not enjoy the moment, rather count the minutes when it ends. Instead of being present, you think about everything else that needs to be done. You secretly hope that the sex will end as soon as possible to continue other work.
3. You almost never stop
Definitely your partner should not be the only one who has an orgasm. You should enjoy it as often. However, if he is the only one who benefits from sexual intercourse, you should seriously talk about this topic.
4. You represent an orgasm
One should never lie about orgasm. The right person will know how to best satisfy you in bed. He will also realize that for some reason you are not in the right mood to continue. You should never lie about these things and feel the pressure.
5. You touch yourself, not let the other do it
If you prefer to be alone in intimate activities than spend time with a partner, something is wrong. There is simply something missing in your relationship.
6. There is no passion between you
You do not feel tempted and do not really want to have sex with this person.
7. You think of someone else during sex
You are not focused on the person you are in bed with. You do not enjoy your body’s face. You dream of your former or some famous movie star.
8. You want to make your partner happy
You don’t really care about sex, and undress just because you want to make your partner happy. You want the other to enjoy it, but if you had to choose, you wouldn’t have sex at all.