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The type of sex popularized by porn is dangerous to health: a whole generation of women is at risk
Women are increasingly suffering from various injuries and health problems as this type of sex popularized by porn – anal sex – becomes more popular among heterosexual couples, doctors warn.

Common problems include: fecal incontinence, sexually transmitted diseases, pain and bleeding when injured during anal sex.

Doctors Tabitha Gana and Lesley M Hunt emphasize that doctors do not discuss the dangers of anal sex with women, so, they say, a whole generation of women have no idea that this type of sex can cause long-term health problems. According to them, “anal intercourse is a risky activity because it usually involves alcohol, drugs and multiple sex partners”.

According to doctors, pop culture has moved anal sex from porn movies to artistic cinematography, TV series; for example, in Sex and the City, anal sex is presented as something spicy.

However, women are at greater risk than men during anal sex. “This creates a risk of faecal incontinence and can also damage the sphincter.” Due to differences in anatomy, hormones, and the effects of pregnancy and childbirth on the pelvic floor muscles, the risk of faecal incontinence is greater in women than in men. “Women’s anal sphincter is less rigid, which increases the risk of injury during intercourse,” says an article published in the British Medical Journal.

The study conducted in Great Britain revealed – 16-24 y.o. heterosexual youth are increasingly engaging in anal sex, rising from 12.5 to 28.5 percent in recent decades. In the US, the practice of anal sex has increased from 30 to 45 percent.

According to T. Gana and L. Hunt, “anal sex is no longer seen as extreme behavior, on the contrary, it is praised as a pleasurable experience”.

According to these doctors, other doctors don’t warn women about the potential risks of anal sex because they don’t want to appear judgmental or homophobic.

The information provided by the British National Health Service on the risks of anal sex is incomplete, as it only mentions the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, but does not mention “anal injuries, faecal incontinence, let alone the psychological aspect of anal sex if the sex is forced”.

Dr. Claudia Estcourt, a member of the British Association for Sexual Health and HIV (BASHH), supports the two doctors’ calls for any doctor to speak openly about anal sex. “BASHH supports the call for women to ask thoughtful, non-judgmental questions about anal sex if there are any concerns about anal health or other reasons.”

During health examinations, women will be asked questions about their most frequently used sex method, so that based on this information, symptoms and their causes can be analyzed and evaluated.

How I Found Out I Am an Anal Queen
08.24.2023.
How to Prepare For Your First Anal Sex?
If you’re interested in anal sex, you’re not the only one. According to a survey published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, one in three women between the ages of 19 and 44 have tried anal sex. And this is not at all surprising, because there are many nerve endings in the anus that can be stimulated. For some people, anal sex is even more pleasurable than other types of sex. Here are 8 tips to prepare for anal sex, especially if it’s your first time.

What exactly are you interested in?

Anal sex usually means penetrating sex, i.e. penetration of the penis into the anus. But the choice of anal pleasures is really very wide. If you know in advance what exactly interests you, it will be easier to prepare accordingly. There are several types of anal sex that you should known:

• Using the penis: This is what many people think of when it comes to anal sex.

• Using a sex toy: The range of anal sex toys is very large. There are anal vibrators that can be used much like penises, but your options don’t end there. There are also anal plugs that are smaller and designed to be inserted and left in. When using anal beads, the pleasure is experienced both when inserting and removing them. Prostate toys are uniquely shaped devices designed to massage the prostate, much like the anal equivalent of a G-spot vibrator.

• Using fingers: This is a great exploration of anal play, especially for beginners. If you are going to explore anal sex with a penis or toy, you may need to start with your fingers, “working in” the area. However, it is always necessary to make sure of the hygiene of hands and nails: hands should be clean and smooth, nails – without sharp edges and relatively short.

• Oral stimulation: This is oral sex in the anus, known as anilingus.

Discuss everything with your partner

You MUST talk about it before having anal sex. Consent is the most important thing in all erotic games. You should never surprise your partner by trying a new sexual act.

Discuss and determine your comfort level together. Take it step-by-step. To respect both parties and get maximum pleasure, make sure that nothing is forced on you or your partner. If you know what to expect and feel prepared, you will feel more comfortable and satisfied. This is the only way to have an anal orgasm.

Taking care of hygiene

Many people worry about the possible uncleanliness associated with anal sex. Before having anal sex, it is preferable to take a bath, but it is worth remembering that anal sex is likely to involve some unpleasant element. The more accepting you are of the idea, the less shocked you will feel if it happens. Talking about these fears with your partner (you can laugh about them together) will help dispel the shame that others experience when thinking about dirtiness and anal sex.

An enema is not necessary, but if you decide to do it, do the procedure 1-2 hours before. While it’s generally safe, it’s best to do it in moderation. Doing it too often can cause electrolyte imbalances, bloating or even diarrhea.

We recommend keeping a towel handy. Sex tends to be messy, too, and anal play can get especially messy. If you have a towel at hand, it will be faster and easier.

Relax your mind and body

The last thing you want to experience during anal sex is tension. If you are trying anal sex for the first time, take some time to relax – take a hot bath, ask your partner to perform a sensual massage.

To prepare for anal sex, you can also focus on relaxing the anal sphincter muscles. Tighten and release the gluteal muscles similar to Kegel exercises.

Take your time – start slowly

If anal sex is new to you, start with small steps to ease the process. For example, you can use a butt plug to reduce the chance of tear as you transition to the penis. If the penetration is too aggressive, you risk tearing the muscles of the anal sphincter.

Fingers and anal balls are also reliable ways to initiate anal play. You can also try an anal training kit. Start with the smallest toy and only move up to the next size after you can put it in and take it out effortlessly.

Warm sex toys and lubricant

The warming lubricant increases the pleasure and provides even more comfort. Heat promotes blood flow and stimulates nerve endings in the rectum and anus.

Also consider trying a heated sex toy that heats right up to your body temperature. Much like a lubricant, it will help relax your muscles and get your blood flowing in preparation for what’s to come.

Use condoms

Condoms will protect you and your partner during anal sex. You can use both male and female condoms, which are inserted into the anus before intercourse. Some people feel safer using extra thick condoms for anal sex.

Although pregnancy is not possible, the risk of sexually transmitted infections increases. Small skin lesions in and around the anus increase the risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections and bacteria, including:

• chlamydia;
• gonorrhea;
• HIV;
• human papilloma virus (HPV);
• A, B and C hepatitis;
• parasites such as giardia;
• intestinal amoebae.

Condoms should also be placed on all the sex toys you use. Don’t forget to change condoms between partners or stimulation methods.

Don’t skimp on lubricant

The anus, unlike the vagina, does not get wet during preparation. Lubricant is not only safe and pleasant, but also a must for anal play. This facilitates penetration and reduces the risk of tears, which in turn reduces the risk of infection.

When choosing a product for anal sex, use silicone lubricant with a thicker consistency. However, water-based lubricants or a mixture of both are also suitable. Both of these products are safe to use with condoms. Although oil-based lubricants are great for anal sex, they are not suitable for use with condoms.
11.23.2022.
How I Found Out I Am an Anal Queen
I’ve never really identified with the feminine-princess trope, and yet here I am: an anal queen. Some women have vaginal orgasms, some don’t. Some women can get off from nipple stimulation, while others cannot. I fall into the category of women who are restricted from having anal sex in a hotel, because I can’t control the volume of my pleasure noises.

I wasn’t always one for taking it up the butt. Like many young women, I bought into the nonsense that rectal integrity equalled integrity of character — so, for many years, I proudly resisted the curiosity to stick things in my ass. I would refer to myself as “kinky” and “sexually liberated” in the same breath as I denounced anal sex and those who engaged in it. Let me make it clear that no one has to take it up the butt to be either of those things; it’s just that my reasoning for not having anal sex was puritanical, and therefore hypocritical. I had a lot of growing up to do, butt-wise.

Even when losing my vaginal virginity, I was caught up in the notion that my value and worth as a woman was increased by having an intact hymen. And so it was with my booty: Having anal sex would make me dirty and slutty, and therefore it must remain a No Man’s Land. (Little did I know.)

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Then one night, I discovered tequila, and loudly urged my boyfriend to take the road less traveled — even with no lube in sight. Everyone who has had anal sex just cringed at that sentence, and for good reason: The key to successful anal sex, for those of us who like it, is plentiful lube.

Some people want it to hurt, though, and that’s cool, too. But I’m here to talk about my ass getting plowed, not anyone else’s.

In any case, that initial attempt was painful, yet even so, my curiosity was piqued. That brief exploration into my anus awoke something inside me — literally — and although I hadn’t fully moved on from my initial prejudices, I began to accept that I had plenty more spelunking to do in my sexual future.

In all honesty, it wasn’t the threat of pain that held me back for all those years. It was ingrained notions that my sexuality was a spectacle for others, worthy of judgment from perspectives outside of those with whom I choose to partner. My virgin ass didn’t know at the time that sodomy gets its (totally unjustified) bad rap because of the association with homosexuality. So it’s extra disappointing that, for so long, I bought into the bullshit that butt-play should be avoided. In a way, my refusal to have anal sex made me complicit in the oppression against an already marginalized community.

Fortunately, I’m pretty sure I’ve absolved myself of that nonsense by becoming a goddamn anal champ, taking it up the ass from whoever or whatever wanted to get in there. I asked the same man that had entertained me in college — and who I later married — if he would do me the honor of officially, soberly deflowering my ass before I gave it to anyone else. From that point on, no other sexual acts could compete. I even dated someone for months whose penis never formally met my vagina, because why would it need to?

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Not all women experience the level of pleasure I get from butt play, which is what makes the ending to this saga even sadder. My enthusiasm for anal, coupled with an overactive libido, did in fact lower my rectal integrity, and now it tears with too much vigor, so my anal sex days are over. I understand that the human digestive system has been naturally selected over millennia to go one direction — which is where I’m assuming the boy band gets its name — but I thought my hyper-erogenous ass could withstand more than it could. Every so often, I check in with a few extra pokes in the area, but for now, my booty remains exit only.

Even if my reign as anal queen has ended, I’m glad that I had the opportunity to work through the issues that kept me from the throne in the first place. Consenting adults should be able to put their genitals all over each other — in each other’s mouths and butts and wherever — without fear of reprisal from a puritanical, prejudiced authority. And who knows, maybe other ladies out there will overcome a similar hangup and discover they like buttsex as much as I did.

Working up the courage to share this story, I got myself into the mood by looking up “anal” on Spotify, which delivered to me the song “How Far I’ll Go” from the Disney movie Moana. Fitting.

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09.30.2022.
Men’s Erotic Fantasies – What Are They And Should They Be Realized?
How to find out what are men’s biggest erotic fantasies? As you can see, they sometimes have nothing to do with sweet ‘vanilla’ sex. At best, we learn about them from his laptop that is accidentally left open, and at worst,… But let’s not talk about it this time. Let’s take a look at the most popular men’s fantasies and share tips on how to make them true.

First of all, the existence of erotic fantasies does not mean that there is something wrong with your chosen one or that he is going to take a side step. Both men and women have sex fantasies (take a look here and find out what the women fantasizes about). Secondly, despite the most common desires, each of us has an individual approach to one or another story. What seems to one to be an innocent act can cause mental trauma to another. Therefore, the basic principle of checking fantasies should always be voluntary. Do only what you like and something that does not cause fear or discust.

Male erotic fantasies: sex with a stranger

Sex with a stranger is one of the most popular scenes of all time and nations. Romance, passion, tension and fear, revealing one’s spontaneous desires. Who has at least once dreamed of such thing? Do not blame him for such a need, it is better to become this stranger. The easiest way is to change your image or do some role-playing. Buy an erotic stewardess costume, change your hairstyle, make-up and start foreplay from the moment you serve your ‘customer’. Longer performances are suitable for more discerning couples, such as playing strangers on the beach and later going to a secret meeting in a hotel room.

Sex as a wild animal

The desire to take a woman roughly and repeatedly several times in a row is a kind of wild thing. This kind of sex makes a man feel like a wild beast who does not waste time on human conditions, gentle foreplay and romance. Admittedly, ladies often support such fantasies. However, unlike in pornographic films, there is usually one big problem: the arousal physiologies of men and women are different. Generally, women need a longer foreplay to reach combat readiness. In such situations, small tricks such as a special stimulating gel to increase the sensitivity of the clitoris or sex toy placed in vagina can help.

Who will be the third?

Sex with two women is undoubtedly another leader in men’s erotic fantasies. This is due to the natural, innate polygamy, that is, the desire to have as many women as possible at the same time. The truth is that quite a few couples choose such experiments, which is perfectly normal. However, it must be understood that a third person enters your relationship, which means that there is usually mistrust, shyness, complexes and other things.

Diversity in all ways and places

The fantasy of using a woman for oral, anal and vaginal satisfaction in one session is related to the desire to use all the partner’s erogenous zones and thus to fully realize themselves as a man. If your partner is really one of those who is ready for such a marathon, don’t forget about precautions.

Sensual mouth

Let me tell you a secret. If you can give him oral sex perfectly, you will become the best woman in his life. I an not joking. For a man, oral sex is not only the highest expression of trust, but also the maximum expression of humility. In addition, oral sex, thanks to the structure of the oral cavity and tightness, it gives a man unsurpassed feelings. Many men find that these feelings are much more pleasurable than vaginal sex.

It only takes three things to give him an idea of this dream. The first is to acquire these skills. The second – use a special lubricant that eliminates unpleasant taste sensations and provides slipperiness. Third – serve this food effectively. You can do it unexpectedly or vice versa, torment him all day with intriguing hints and present it in a romantic evening.

Attack from behind

Anal sex is also at the top of the sex fantasy rating. Like oral pleasure, this format of intimacy embodies the couple’s great trust and male dominance. Many of the stronger sex adore it because it is a violation of what is forbidden and there is no risk of an unwanted pregnancy. In addition, of course, one of the main reasons is the feeling provided by the narrow entrance and flexible penetration.

Despite the fact that many couples today engage in anal sex, many women are wary of such intimacy. And that is completely fine. Improper preparation can really harm you. But if you do everything according to the rules, you will not only give pleasure to your man, but you will also experience completely new feelings. The most important condition is the use of special anal lubricants, and hygiene.
06.16.2022.
10 Common Sex Dreams (And What They Really Mean)
I will admit – I often dream about eating sandwiches. But while I dream about food, the rest of the world seems to dream of their partners cheating or them failing an exam. And while the most popular thing people dream about (and want to dream of) is flying, physical activities like sex and sports aren’t too far behind. We all occasionally see dreams about sex, but who can tell how to translate them? What these sex dreams really mean?

10 common sex dreams and how to translate them

1. You dream of cheating your partner

Dreams of cheating your partner can mean two things:
- You are feeling guilty of something (but not always guilty about real cheating)
- You experience some confirmation of the passion you feel for your partner. If these dreams appear before your wedding (which is the most common option), it reflects a fresh, renewed sexual attachment to your partner. So don’t worry if sex dreams make you feel unfaithful.
2. The dream that your partner is cheating on you

There is a good chance that these dreams mean that you are trapped, neglected, or you just need attention. A dream of mistrust may also reflect some problems of inner self-esteem and your trust.

3. Dreams about anal sex

Anal sex dreams can mean that you are ready to be obedient or that you hide your worries about expressing your inner thoughts and emotions for fear of rejection or pain.

4. Sex with a celebrity

Let’s be real: who hasn’t had a sexy dream about Ryan Gosling or Justin Timberlake? While it is completely harmless to dream of someone you may never meet in real life, if you dream of having sex with a famous person, it can mean that you have a strong desire to succeed and gain recognition for that success. Basically you want to be a star!

5. Orgasm dream

Have you ever woken up in the middle of a sex dream to realize that you are actually experiencing an orgasm? No hand movements, no effort, just lying in bed, having an orgasm? If not, you’ve missed a lot. But even if you just have dreams of having an orgasm, it’s not bad, because it symbolizes “a great conclusion to some process.”

Dreaming about orgasm can also mean that you just need to have sex in real life or deal with any problems you are currently having in sex.

6. Dream of same sex partner

If you are heterosexual and dream of having sex with a partner of your sex, it has two meanings: either it means that you truly love yourself and have fully accepted yourself, or vice versa – you have insecurity about your masculinity or femininity.

7. Sex with your boss

If I had a coin for every sexual dream with one of the many bosses I have had over the years, I would be rich. Although at the time I thought it was a kind of repressed sexual desire towards these particular men, these dreams actually reflected a desire for control, authority and demonstration of one’s abilities. You just want to be a boss in real life.

8. Dream of having sex with your best friend

Just like dreaming about your boss, having sex with your best friend doesn’t always mean you actually want to do it. It can only signify your emotional intimacy, and this close connection manifests itself as… sex. However, if you are sexually attracted to your friend, sex with him/her in a dream means that you are not ready to express those feelings in life, so you try to solve it in your dream world.

9. Sex with your ex

Well, this is not surprising – dreams of your ex mean you have to let him or her go. If you are with a new partner but still cannot get rid of the awkward dreams of your ex, you are not satisfied with the new relationship or you are worried that your current partner has similar characteristics to your ex.

10. Dreams of oral sex

If you dream of having oral sex or giving it to someone, it means that you are on the right path in your life – just keep going in that direction. It also points to your creativity skills. But if you dream of giving yourself oral sex, it may mean that you want to feel satisfied with yourself. Why else would you dream of being so flexible?
02.04.2022.
Is anal sex harmful to health? The sexologist answers
There are often opinions that anal sex can pose various risks to lovers. For example, fecal incontinence. Sexologist Artūrs Šulcs comments on this and other shadows of doubt that may arise about this different sex.

OPINION:

“Anal sex – sounds beautiful, but there is one big BUT. Nowhere is there any comment on what the proctologists (specialists with a narrower focus on the lower intestines) think about this topic. It is not mentioned that by stretching the anus in this way, one can not only become infected with STDs from the relatively large “microcracks” in the anal area but over time experience things such as fecal incontinence. I will not mention hemorrhoids at all. If they already exist, then the bleeding can be profound and threatened with a long lying-upright regimen. Also, it is easy to infect the genitals with a bowel rod after anal sex with the vagina, and do not understand later why you can not get pregnant due to chronic inflammation. Unfortunately, these are not just my fantasies on the subject. Of course, it gives a man more pleasure than vaginal sex, because the sphincter is tighter than the vagina, but is it worth it? ”

COMMENT BY SEXOLOGIST ARTURS ŠULCS :

“Yes, it is true that the feelings during anal sex are different than during vaginal sex. However, not to mention the flowers, the size of the hole alone does not determine how well both or one of the partners will feel. Anal sex is not just a simple physical contact, it requires much more contact and trust. And often these are the essential things that bring pleasure. Anal sex is not a simple insertion of the penis into the anus. This type of sex requires prior preparation and mood. It requires special tenderness and attention. Anal sex can also end not with some insertion into the anus, but only with massage and stimulation in the area.

Yes, sexually transmitted diseases can be acquired during anal sex. At the same time, it is a myth. Often people think that if I have anal sex, I will get sick, if not, then no ailments will affect me. In this case, it all depends on the sexual life of both partners. If they are the only ones to each other, if they are convinced or even checked that they are not suffering from any of the sexually transmitted diseases, there is not the slightest reason to get sick during anal sex. After all, STDs do not fly in the air!

If you want to have anal sex with a less familiar partner, you should use a condom, thus protecting yourself. However, a condom should also be used if you have traditional sex with a little-known partner.

Reasonable concerns about anal opening could arise if a disproportionately large object is inserted into the anal opening. If a finger, two fingers, or even the penis, which is commensurate with the size of the feces, is inserted, no problems should occur. To avoid the risk of opening stretching, anal sex should not be practiced every day for three hours. However, if it is a holiday full of Sunday evening romance, tenderness, and trust, everything will be fine.

If anal sex is performed in such a way that neither partner is in pain, there will be no rupture or bleeding. Hemorrhoids are not an anal sex disease. They are much more common for reasons such as poor diet and sedentary work. ”
10.13.2021.
Five misconceptions about sex, which many believe
There is a lot of writing and talk about sex nowadays. The knowledge of young people, as well as adults, in this area is improving compared to the time when the issue was practically not discussed at all. However, even today there are myths and misconceptions about sex, which many believe.

There may be too much information today and it is difficult to understand what is true and what is not. Inspired by the opinions of Huffpost experts, we offer to get acquainted with several myths about intimate intimacy, which many still believe. The harmfulness of masturbation and the belief that the main rule of good sex is a strong orgasm are just some of them.

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If you masturbate, so do not love your partner

One of the myths associated with sex life is the belief that people do not masturbate in relationships. If this is done, it is a clear sign that the love and passion for the partner has disappeared. However, this is not the case. The joys of love alone are a completely normal and harmless activity, regardless of the status of the relationship.

Self-satisfaction can be a calming and liberating activity, and it helps to get to know your body. This is very important for improving sex life. Knowing what touches excite you and what exactly you like will help make intimate intimacy more enjoyable and exciting. Masturbation is a problem when it is harassing and replaces a relationship with a partner. In this case, you may need to consult a specialist.

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Male orgasm is more important than female orgasm

Another misconception that many believe is the idea that it is not as important for a woman to have an orgasm during sex as it is for a man. Yes, women reach orgasm less often than men, but that does not mean it is less important. “Men are not used to trying for their women. Many ignore the fact that men need about six minutes to get aroused before intercourse, and women 26 minutes. Given that sexual intercourse lasts on average six minutes, women simply cannot get to orgasm, ” said sex life expert Rita Lasmane .

Women may not reach orgasm during intercourse for various reasons, such as too short foreplay, insufficient clitoral stimulation and poor communication between partners. It should also be borne in mind that very often a man’s sexual expectations and needs are considered a priority. When it comes to who needs an orgasm more – a man or a woman – there is no reason to think that one or the other needs it more. This means that equality will certainly not hurt in this area either.

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Orgasm indicates the quality of sex

However, we should not fall to the other extreme either. There is no shortage of people who believe that sex has only been good if it has reached orgasm. Yes, reaching the peaks of pleasure is indeed a wonderful experience and striving for it is not to be condemned. But think – is orgasm really the only thing you enjoy during sex? Do you really not like anything else that is happening? Even if the peaks of pleasure remain unattained at the end of sex, it can still be enjoyable for both partners.

Making love is much more than physical contact. It is an exchange of energy and emotions that coincides with a physical adventure. Remember that sex is a very important part of a relationship that helps you get to know and understand each other better. Sometimes what is experienced is much more significant and valuable when those things are not going as planned and one of the partners (or both) does not reach orgasm.

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Pornography causes erectile dysfunction in young men

There is also a lot of talk about the negative effects of pornography on sexual relationships. There are people who believe that watching pornography causes erectile dysfunction in young men. Yes, young men nowadays masturbate more often when watching pornographic videos than they once did. However, there is no evidence or study to suggest a link between this activity and erectile dysfunction.

Erectile dysfunction can be caused by both physiological and psychological causes. For young men, the second type of factor is often the problem. True, it is usually the anxiety that affects the ability to have sex, not watching pornography. However, it is worth noting that pornography, especially videos of this nature, is by no means completely harmless. In some cases, they can cause difficulty in arousal, as well as limit the ability to fantasize.

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If a man wants anal sex, he is gay

There is no shortage of men who have once fantasized about anal sex. There is also no shortage of people who believe that this kind of fantasy means that a man is actually homosexual. However, this view is not true either. Men and women, regardless of their sexual orientation, tend to enjoy or fantasize about a wide variety of sexual games. This should not make them question their sexual identity.

The myth that fantasies about anal sex testify to a man’s homosexuality arises because many people believe that behavior fully reflects a person’s identity. In fact, identity and behavior do not define each other. Just as fantasies about anal sex do not mean that a man is gay, just as a homosexual woman has had sex with a man does not mean that she is actually heterosexual.
07.12.2021.
Tutorial: anal masturbation for beginners

It’s no secret that we live in rather bottom-up times. Already in 2014, people were confused about the rebirth of round, juicy bottoms in pop culture, and even then there was talk of a cultural movement that was only in the process of being created.

This is by no means a scientific thesis, but bottom culture has inevitably led to people being more confident in discussing topics such as rimming , pegging and anal sex .

There is only one aspect that may seem strange: although people are increasingly focusing on anal games, the three most common forms (pegging, rimming and anal sex) are games that usually involve two partners. There is much less talk about anal masturbation, solo action, which is no less enjoyable.

Anal masturbation is simple enough, but to make the experience enjoyable, let’s take a look at some useful tips prepared by lelo.com :

The most valuable investment – a bottle of lubricant

Since there is no one right way (ie with a finger or a sex toy) to stimulate the anus, canal or prostate, there is one important aspect that unites these activities and that is proper lubrication. When it comes to anal stimulation, rubbing is not your friend. To avoid abrasions, even if you do not get to the anus, but rather massage it, the lubricant will make everything more comfortable.

If the hand is not enough, help with sex toys

Although there are many specially designed sex toys designed specifically for anal stimulation, you can also use a dildo or a traditional vibrator for these activities.

Anal sex toys, such as plaques or inserts, are ideal because many of them are designed to fit the contours of the anal opening and have a curved base that does not allow the toy to penetrate too deeply.

The first step: please yourself. Don’t just get caught in the anal opening. Make sure you are in the right mood and excited before you knock on the back door. By doing this, you will ensure relaxation and receptivity to the feelings you are experimenting with.

For the first time, you can experiment by masturbating in the shower, because the warm water will ensure that the muscles are relaxed.

Choose the correct pose

If for some reason you do not want or can not experiment in the shower, choose the classic way: lying on your back, lift your legs to the knees. Stay under the bottom of the pillow so that the hips are facing up. Both hand and sex toys will be convenient to use in this position.

You can also try a dog pose (on the arms and knees), which will also allow easy access, but in both cases, remember to place a towel under you so that you do not have to clean the bed linen afterwards.

Cut your nails

Avoid injuries by keeping away from this place anything that is sharp, jagged or cornered. Including your nails. A well-groomed (and clean) pair of hands will ensure that nothing bad happens to your back.

07.06.2021.
Spinners, pokemon, and Putin – anal stimulators that surprise

Anal sex is clearly one of the most popular sexual fantasies that reside in the minds of both domestic men and beautiful Latvian national girls. Of course, the male member plays the most important role in this love ballad, but for the needs of anal sex in today’s market, you can find not only traditional style butt plugs but also tools that will make your eyes (and bottom) literally open! Sekss.lv has prepared a whole selection of anal stimulators for your curious mind, the peculiarities of which will surprise even the most experienced anal sex enthusiasts.

FOR ” POKEMON GO ” ENTHUSIASTS

Although the train of the exciting game “Pokemon Go” is long gone, the public interest in these cute beasts does not disappear and takes on rather strange forms. Sexually minded pokemon lovers emphasize that by choosing a variety of accessories appropriate to the theme of pokemon , such as the Pikachu tail shown in the picture, they are able to fully feel the image of a small swear, as well as live their wildest fantasies. Yes – you can only try to imagine what fantasies are here.

The tail is almost 54 cm long, but the stimulator itself reaches only 10 cm. The flirtatious pikachu headphones also come with the same intimate suit.

ESPECIALLY FOR HELLISH EVENINGS

In case the anal stimulators from the world of pokemon do not seem very attractive to you, take a step further and invite your loved one to dress up in the form of an obscene devil! This effective-looking tail reaches a whole meter in its size! When you insert the tail stimulator particle into your or your partner’s anus, it will hang attractively along the wearer’s bare feet.

Of course, the amazing set also includes sexy devil horns, which will give your erotic themed play even more sharpness. Rarrr!

SPINNERS IN 18+ VERSION

Do you remember these excitingly entertaining toys? Spinner fans have not stopped at this insignificant joke alone and have made their favorite spinner conquer brand new horizons – this time in the 18+ field. “What could be more exciting than a spinner illuminated with LEDs, which, when turning in the dark, illuminates your partner’s coveted circles!”

It must be said that the idea itself is quite rude, but there is a certain charm in it. Imagine your partner coming into the bedroom completely naked saying, “Honey, please cut me!”

KEEP YOUR FILES SMART

The witty sex toy manufacturers, going into their passionate daily routine, have not forgotten the important effect nowadays. Have you ever wondered what else your favorite bottom stopper might be useful for? The “USB flash” or “flash memory” stimulator shown in the picture, in the words of the manufacturers themselves, is intended for people who know what really important files mean.

” Keep your files with you, not with you! Brilliant! ” – one of the buyers of the special intimate item made such a remark.

VLADIMIR VLADIMIROVICH PUTIN

The next stimulator, in our opinion, surpasses everything we have seen so far. The story of this toy is quite simple, namely, once a manufacturer of anal stimulators decided to show a rather peculiar variation of protest against the Russian president’s style of governance, creating a bottom-up image of Vladimir Putin.

“This baby is perfect for a passionate prostate massage, and you can all put him in. You know where!”

Understandably, the anal stimulators discussed in today’s article are not suitable for all tastes, but in a way, they are a great way to refresh the routine of your love games. If the idea of anal sex as such is still flourishing and flourishing at the level of your deepest fantasies, be sure to keep an eye on this article as well! And remember – while some are just dreaming, others are already doing it!

10.27.2020.
30 spicy questions about and around sex to ask your husband
Be true – how well do you know your beloved man’s thoughts and ideas about his ideal version of intimate life? In order to introduce new inspirations, as well as refresh your knowledge about your partner’s wishes and desires in the field of sexual contact, the editors of Sekss.lv have prepared 30 whole spicy erotic questions for you, with the help of which you will be well prepared for a particularly interesting end of the evening. Let’s start!
- When was the last time you dreamed of me in a sexual context?
- If I could only wear yoga panties or shorts for the rest of my life, which option would you prefer?
- Guess what color my underwear is?
- What is the most outrageous thing you have ever done?
- What is your craziest sexual fantasy?
- Have you ever had the name of another woman during sex?
- What is the most sensitive part of your body, apart from the penis?
- Have you ever met two or more girls at the same time?
- Have you ever been caught masturbating?
- Have you ever fallen in love outdoors?
- Have you ever used sex toys for masturbation?
- When was the last time you were complacent?
- If you had the opportunity to enjoy only one type of sex for the rest of your life, which one would you choose: oral, anal or vaginal?
- Do you think it is better to leave a little hair in the intimate place or to wipe completely?
- What is your favorite sex posture?
- Have you ever fallen in love with the so-called “extraction method”?
- How often do you fantasize about threesome sex?
- If you had a chance to sleep with one of the celebrities, which one would it be?
- Have you ever been jealous of seeing me with another guy?
- Of all the things we’ve done in bed, what have you liked best?
- Have you ever woken up and realized that you regret having sex with that person?
- What kind of sex do you prefer – obscene or obscene?
- Have you ever woken up your neighbors because of loud love?
- In which of the specific places would you prefer to have passionate sex – in a dressing room or in a car?
- What do you like better – dominant or submissive women?
- How excited are you about the idea of regular anal sex?
- Have you ever fantasized about getting a prostate massage?
- How often have you experienced so-called “wet dreams”?
- Do you think about me with self-satisfaction?
- What do you think about giving / receiving erotic massage during the foreplay?
Remember that mutual contact and maximum openness in sexual matters is very important. Feel free to ask your partner additional questions that are not included in this list! Be creative and don’t forget to reward your partner for honest answers!
10.19.2020.