No matter where, but there is no right place for boredom in the bedroom! This time, let’s look at six things worth trying for each couple to get the monotony out of their bed and let in a little spiciness and passion.
Create a “Yes / No / Maybe” wish list
Make a list of sexual fantasies with your loved one (one at a time) and mark your answer according to each wish: “yes” – if you really want to try it, “no” – if it is completely unacceptable to you, and “maybe” – if it still dares not do, but you will probably try in the future. Exchange lists and see if your secret fantasies, which you never talk out loud, can become a reality. After all, admit, sometimes it’s hard for the other party to reveal they’re obscene desires.
Mirror in the bedroom
Watching your and your partner’s rhythmic body movements during sex is one of the most exciting things. If you’re a little shy, you don’t have to do it in full light. Light candles so that only your shadows are visible, and also focus on visual enjoyment.
Sex toys and lubricant
Some erotic toys can really diversify your sex life. After all, the choice is very wide. Maybe some will like handcuffs, while others will suffice with a silky eye bandage. Think about it and don’t be afraid to experiment.
Buy a lubricant and invite your loved one to join you in the shower or wait for the warm time to take a summer swim in the lake, where no one will see you.
Enjoy a “selfish” night
Every loving person in bed tries to please the other as much as possible, but to get as much satisfaction as possible during sex, try to organize a “selfish” night. One evening all the attention is paid only to you, the next – to the other. This simple idea will allow you to fully relax and focus on your enjoyment.
Even more tempting
Do not close the bathroom door when taking a shower. Allow your partner to watch you from the sidelines. If you want more sensations, offer your partner to have sex by the window (if the light is not on, hardly anyone will see you from the outside, but you will see everything that happens outside).
Sex just before bedtime? Definitely no! Unexpected sex is much more exciting than a predicted and scheduled session. Just surprise him while he watches TV or sits at the computer, opening his zipper. If you want to surprise your woman, let her fall asleep tightly for at least a couple of hours so that she doesn’t get upset when she wakes up. Light candles in the bedroom to create a romantic atmosphere. Cuddle up to your loved one and gently caress her. Take your time, tease her and make her heat up. The main thing – do not be afraid to experiment!