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Mistakes made by almost every man during love

Intimate life is just like a two-way movement, in which both sides, both women and men, have to play their part. However, often one of the two behaves coolly in the bedroom, even with restraint, without delving into the shortcomings and problems of intimacy. Let’s look at the most common mistakes that almost every man…

Intimate life is just like a two-way movement, in which both sides, both women and men, have to play their part. However, often one of the two behaves coolly in the bedroom, even with restraint, without delving into the shortcomings and problems of intimacy. Let’s look at the most common mistakes that almost every man makes in the bedroom.

Foreplay? What is it like?

Often men can “connect” to an intimate event very quickly, according to the portal “Web MD”. However, it does not happen so quickly for women – they are waiting for attention, flight, caresses, and tenderness, which later leads to the joys of bed. Some men ignore this difference, as a result of which there is no moment of intimacy, no joy for themselves or the other half.

No matter how much a man wants to satisfy his desire to get a woman as soon as possible, the wishes and needs of the other party must also be taken into account. The woman herself can also help here, pointing out the existence of the problem – sometimes the partner has no idea that other tactics are needed for the joys of love to succeed. The man should also make a connection in the sexual field. Even small expressions of love during the day, such as a hug, a kiss, or a lovely text message, allow a woman to flourish to meet her partner and go to the bedroom later.

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Developed postures and types of making love

Another typical mistake that can often be felt in a long-term relationship is that a man uses the same tactics, type, and even posture every time he makes love. If at first this may not seem like a problem-worthy cause, over time, a woman’s dissatisfaction with intimate life can erupt. The assumption that a woman wants the same thing every time, based on past experience, is absolutely misleading.

A woman’s wishes and needs are also determined by her monthly cycle, mood, and current sensitivity. One person will have a desire for a hotter night, another will have a desire for love, hugs, and tenderness. No matter how a woman feels, a man should not perceive that sex should be repeated from previous experience. Instead, they should both understand each other’s wishes in a given situation – they should not be rigid conversations, but, for example, in the form of foreplay, positively asking how you feel today, what your mood is and what you want.

Men should also beware of too frequent variability. It is often believed that more poses, as many different kisses as possible and constant change are enhancers of intimate life. However, just as often women need only half of the range on offer. They are interested in intimacy, enjoyment, and harmony, not a constant transition to the next bed of joy activities.

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Physical inclination over emotional intimacy

Intimate life consists of physical and emotional intimacy. Understandably, the couple has every right to decide for themselves the pleasures of their bed and to exclude the emotions of the concept from the conversation. However, most women want not only physical contact, but to feel the other person and feel the moment together. However, some men make a significant mistake by not wanting or forgetting about emotions, allowing intimacy to control physical drives that may not satisfy the other half.

Women have a tendency to use fantasy when making love. It is used already during the foreplay to get the best possible mood for the intimate moment. On the other hand, in order for the gentlemen not to make this mistake, it is already advisable to join the process of arousing the ladies. It can be a conversation, a role-play or a look at the eyes – each couple has their own ways to express their fantasies. Also great are some sexual memories, for example, related only to lovers. Remembering them alone can create an emotional connection that leads to more complete bed pleasures.

Not knowing how to give a woman pleasure

Many men do not know and do not even try to find out ways to give women the pinnacle of pleasure. It is not said that this aspect is in the hands of men alone, but men are just as important as women in making intimate life a success. Countless women simply cannot reach orgasm without additional stimulation, which can be done by a man.

Here can help a variety of equipment to which may indicate a woman, as well as sex toys . Nowadays, the range is wide enough for every couple to find their favorite intimate toys, but gentlemen should not consider them a threat, but accept them as part of a couple’s bed life. A simple reference in the sexual literature or a conversation with the other party, who is likely to be able to explain what and how she wants, can also help.

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Forget about the art of seduction

Not only do men like to be lured and seduced, but most women also want to feel and enjoy it. However, some gentlemen forget about this part of intimate contact and turn to other activities. Sometimes even seduction is more important than anything else because it allows the couple to enjoy each other, covet and indulge in additional stimulation processes.

This can apply to both women and men – find your partner’s favorite ways of seduction, such as verbal before going to the bedroom, messages, and calls all day long, or physical expressions. It must be borne in mind that seduction is what both parties want, but in the case of men, it should not be forgotten that women also feel this need.

I know what women want!

Another mistake among men is the assumption that they know what a woman wants in intimate life. This can be explained in several ways – a woman does not want to share her wishes and needs or vice versa – often men make unfounded assumptions. The problem is further fueled by the fact that ladies are increasingly choosing to simulate pleasure peaks.

It is advisable not to be afraid to ask direct questions, even if it seems that the woman will avoid answering. Only in this way can a man find out everything the other party wants. Nor should we avoid clarifying the details that underpin intimate life as much – the more details are learned, the easier it is to make the intimate moment as relevant as possible to a woman’s needs. On the other hand, avoiding accepting the truth can lead not only to a joyful bed life but also to a relationship splurge.

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