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  • I only reach orgasm when I’m alone. Is this normal?

    I only reach orgasm when I’m alone. Is this normal?

    Probably many of us have read an article or thought about the fact that orgasm is sometimes considered to be the whole essence of sex. And while we shouldn’t really think that climaxing is the main purpose of sex, we probably shouldn’t say that orgasm is completely unimportant either. Perhaps that is why we feel confused when in some cases it is possible to reach orgasm when you are alone, sometimes it’s faster, sometimes slower, and sometimes it cannot be reached at all.

    Very often, a woman masturbates easily to orgasm, but when making love to her partner(s), the whole experience becomes an inextricable maze that makes orgasm impossible. According to sex therapist Vanessa Merin, it is quite often more difficult to achieve orgasm with a partner than when masturbating. It can be caused by various reasons: inability to relax, inadequate stimulation, stress, emotional state, hormones and many other ‘problems’.

    Why do I only reach orgasm when I’m alone?

    First of all, you have to remember that each time an orgasm can be experienced differently, depending on factors such as: emotional and physical state, sexual activity, type of stimulation, our energy level, degree of arousal and even the menstrual cycle.

    Our bodies are very different. Some women experience orgasm during vaginal intercourse, others feel pleasure from external stimulation of the clitoris, caressing of the nipples. Still others experience an orgasm just by using a vibrator – and that’s completely normal.

    We ourselves know our bodies best, so you shouldn’t expect your partner to know in the first minutes of sex which body “buttons” will bring you the most pleasure. During masturbation, we perfectly know when and where to touch ourselves, what stimulation, what movements are most pleasant to us. That’s why it’s much easier to orgasm alone than with another person who doesn’t know what you like the most.

    One of the reasons may also be the inability to relax. When we are alone, we don’t think about how we look – we just close our eyes and enjoy ourselves. When we are in love with another person, we can have many unwanted thoughts. “How do I look from that side?”, “Oh no, now he’s going to see my stomach”, “Am I doing everything right?” and others. Self-doubt can prevent us from relaxing, and if we are stressed, it will be very difficult to achieve pleasure.

    What can help you experience an orgasm while making love with your partner?

    There are even some methods that can be tried if it is difficult to reach orgasm while making love with your partner(s).

    Open conversation before sex

    In more than one article, we have emphasized the power of conversation not only for better relationships, but also for ensuring quality sex. Expressing your needs and listening to your partner can help you create the intimate life you’ve been dreaming of.

    First, be honest with yourself. Think about your needs: maybe you have some fantasies that you would like to realize? Maybe you only like clitoral stimulation and nipple stimulation gives you unpleasant sensations? What touches from your partner do you enjoy the most, and which ones would you like to eliminate from your sex routine?

    Once you have a “plan” in mind, try to start a conversation. Express your needs and encourage your partner to open up – listen carefully to his observations and suggestions. We recommend that you get interested in this topic – read books, watch movies, listen to podcasts about sex, and then discuss all the information together. Don’t try to adapt to someone else’s sex norms or laws – adapt them to your relationship.

    During the conversation, try to stay positive and never blame each other – let praise and good emotions take a bigger place in the conversation than negative thoughts and complaints.

    External clitoral stimulation

    Sometimes it also happens that during sex the partner forgets (or does not know) how much influence the external stimulation of the clitoris has on a woman’s pleasure. All orgasms: vaginal, external, and anal, originate from the clitoris.

    Include oral sex in your sex routine and don’t forget clitoral stimulation (both you and your partner can do this). It is also very useful to consider buying sex toys. Couple vibrators, clitoral massagers, vibrating penis rings or G-spot vibrators can become a real revolution in your sex life. They are designed to provide much more intense stimulation than a person can give to themselves or another. Why should you refrain from such pleasure?

    Relaxation during sex

    Another important step towards pleasure is complete relaxation during sex. The more relaxed we are, the easier it is to reach orgasm (and the more intense it becomes).

    Some simple tips for a better relaxation:

    •   Add massage to your sex routine. Gentle touches will warm and relax tense muscles, while the fragrant massage oil will help you forget all negative emotions and fully surrender to what is happening here and now. (Erotic massage – tips on how to do it perfectly)
    •   Enjoy longer intros. Not only will they help you relax, but they will also make you more excited. Kisses, caresses, and touches are a very important part of sex, so we recommend you enjoy it a little longer.
    •   Accept your body. When we are insecure about our appearance, ashamed of our body and hiding it, there is no question of relaxation or intimacy. Although finding a connection with your body is a lifelong process, it is very important to start now.
    •   Don’t forget to breathe. Deep! Give it time – it will help you calm down.

    It takes 20 to 30 minutes of proper clitoral stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm and flood her vulva with blood. The most important word here is ‘correct’, and its meaning will change with each woman. Therefore, we wish you patience, fun experiments and successful orgasm searches!

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  • How to Turn Yourself On: Masturbation Tips

    How to Turn Yourself On: Masturbation Tips

    Statistics and various surveys show that most women are masturbating and most do it on a regular basis. So, lets look at some masturbation tips for more enjoyment, or how to turn yourself on.

    1. Use a lubricant – the wetter the better.

    2. Involve your breasts in the process. Nipple orgasm has been proven, give it a try!

    3. Invest money in sex toys – buy different and try tehm.

    4. Arrange the room so that it creates better mood. Buy flowers, candles, change bedding and wear something sexy.

    5. Do everything slowly. The moment you feel like you’re going to come, slow down a bit and start all over again, so you’ll have a super orgasm. (Also read: What is Edging and How to Learn to Control Your Orgasm?)

    6. Involve the whole body – your vagina is not the only erogenous zone.

    7. Focus on your clit, it has a lot of nerves and this is the easiest tool to get to the big O. (Read also: Clit Stimulators For Oral Sex Lovers).

    8. But don’t forget about your G-spot, which also has a lot of nerve endings that also like to be a little tickled.

    9. Watch a porn movie. Of course, nothing is real there, but it will create a mood in a split-second.

    10. If porn movies are not for you, read some spicy literature and create porn in your imagination. (You will find spicy sex stories here).

    11. Exercise your buttocks every day with the special Kegel exercises, the instructions of which can be found here.

    12. The most important thing, both when having sex with a man and for masturbation, is to use your imagination. During the process, think of something that excites you, but dirty dishes or work. Sexy thoughts have been shown to lead to orgasm much faster.

    13. Do not stop at the first orgasm. We women have the advantage of being able to reach many orgasms.

    14. Change position as you would with a partner.

    15. Try to do it in the bath. Warm water always helps you feel more relaxed.

    16. Take a shower. Massage yourself with it.

  • How Do Women Masturbate? Experiences and Ideas

    How Do Women Masturbate? Experiences and Ideas

    Long story short – almost everyone masturbates, but very few people talk about it. Here, 24 young women share stories of how they masturbate. Very openly about why they do it and how.


    “It may sound strange, but sometimes I replace a man with a pillow. I lie in a missionary position, with one hand touching myself, but with the other I hug the pillow as if to put my nails in his back. It’s like real sex.”

    “My vibrator is incredibly powerful. To reduce its vibration, I usually undress, cover with a blanket and place this toy in my crotch above the blanket. Then everything is exactly as it should be.”

    “I take some pieces of ice, wrap them in a cloth towel and gently move them against my clit. The combination of soft towel and cold ice hits the right spot.”

    “I am living with four girls, and the hardest part is not to pay attention to the surrounding noise – people talking, the rustle of pots and pans in the kitchen. So I put in my earplugs or listen to music on the headphones. It allows me to relax and get in mood.”

    “I imagine girls body, although I like guys in general. It really gets me going! ”

    “To reach orgasm, I need simultaneous stimulation of my clitoris and vagina, so I use two toys – a vibrator for the clitoris and a smaller thing inside. I have to handle it with both hands, but it’s worth it.”

    “While satisfying myself, I am harsh on my nipples at the same time. The pleasure passes from the chest directly to the clitoris.”

    “Whenever I’m in the jacuzzi, I lean against the water jet and let the charming warm water do its thing.”

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    “To get in mood, I read erotic literature online. I like the broad variety and the fact that I can always find something exciting.”

    “All it takes is warm water! I put the adjustable shower between my legs and – yeah! I change the modes from slow to fast and move it around my clit. It remindes me of tongue movements. Wonderful! ”

    “I prefer quick self-satisfaction in the middle of the day. The light of day gives me the feeling that I may get caught. The higher the stakes, the more enjoyment.”

    “It used to take me a long time to reach the climax, but then I tried lubricant, and that’s the key.”

    “Three words: The Thomas Crown Affair! There’s something about that seductive 90’s investigator that excites me.”

    “First I squeeze my legs very tightly and then I gently caress my clitoris through my panties for a few minutes. When I get hot, I open my legs and gradually let myself go deeper. The end result is worth it. ”

    “I dirty talk to myself. Murmuring words like ‘stronger’ and ‘faster’ helps me achieve a stunning O. ”

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    “Before I bought a vibrator, I used a battery-based facial cleanser. I simply removed the cap, leaving a slippery and smooth surface, and rubbed it along my clitoris. Now I have a real vibrator, but I still use the usual method from time to time.”

    “My fantasy is my boyfriend, so when I touch myself, I am thinking of him inside of me. To make it easier to imagine him next to me, I always put on one of “our” songs.”

    “Drumming with my fingertips over my clitoris works better for me than rubbing.”

    “I put my favorite glass toy in the fridge for an hour and then take it in the hot shower. You can’t get such a fantastic temperature contrast with a real penis! ”

    “Immediately after waxing, when I am still very sensitive, I prepare a hot bath, lay in it and touch myself very gently. It helps to achieve that real – soothingly perfect – orgasm. ”

    “I roll up a towel or a small blanket, lie on my stomach over it and just work until I’m done. I thought I’m the only one doing it, but my best friend revealed to me that she was doing the same thing. Believe me – it works.”

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    “I found out that if I moan as if I were with a man, I would get done a lot faster than if I was completely silent.”

    “I turne off all electrical appliances – lights, televisions, phone. Disconnecting from the world makes it much easier for me to connect with myself.”

    “I do not take off my underwear, but what I leave on is very important. The tighter and softer the lingerie, the better. To keep the underwear warm, I sometimes put it in the dryer for a while. ”

  • Bad blowjob – the main mistakes women make during oral sex

    Bad blowjob – the main mistakes women make during oral sex

    So how exactly is a perfect blowjob performed? And what is a bad blowjob? What methods to use and in what positions to do it? Today advice can be found on almost anything, such as how to imitate a “deepthroat” if a woman is not really ready to “swallow” a penis as deeply as he would most likely want to. Everything has its basic principles, which are often forgotten – and as a result, the partner receives much less pleasure or does not receive it at all.

    You focus only on the head of the penis

    The head of the penis is very sensitive. But if you work around it for too long, it loses its sensitivity and the senses become dull. Therefore, it is useful to focus on something else too. The penis itself is also sensitive, especially the upper third. And despite the fact that the sensitivity of the rest of it is not too high, most men appreciate it if a woman can perform deep oral sex by taking the whole penis in her mouth. But even if you do not intend to do so, it is useful to pay attention to all of his thing, licking it from the bottom up and vice versa.

    You are not paying attention to his balls

    They have many sensitive areas. Not all men know this, because they usually don’t touch their balls during masturbation. The scrotum can be caressed both by hand and by mouth. It is important to moisten it thoroughly with saliva, as moisture will quickly turn into a dryness – and this can be unpleasant.

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    You do it too fast

    It is believed that a man is always ready for sex. But is he really? They also need adjustment – both psychological and physiological – and time to prepare. Therefore, oral sex should not start too soon and end too suddenly. A separate question is whether to let the man finish in your mouth. Not all women like this. If you are not ready to complete this process, it is a good idea to notify your partner in advance and offer him other options.

    Bad blowjob is too intense

    If you want to lead a man to orgasm as soon as possible, it won’t end well. Blowjob will be mechanical and will not be much different from his own masturbation. Your man will start to think that the process is unpleasant for you and that you just want it to end sooner. He may also feel that you are not enjoying it, but simply doing your job. If you ask – what’s wrong that? Well, men also want not only to be satisfied, but also to feel like objects of lust. Therefore, it is important for a man to receive various assurances that a woman wants him and that she is aroused too.

    Too repetitious

    Sex involves not only our physiology, but also attention and imagination. If the same thing happens all the time, the ability to concentrate is lost and the senses become dull (according to the natural laws of the nervous system). Simple back and forth movements are not enough – after all, a man can provide them for himself with his hand. Therefore, it is important to switch, involving different erogenous zones, varying and inventing new techniques. Balance is important: the movements must be changed, but not too often, so that the received impulses have enough time to add up.

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    You are too tense

    Any pleasure, even an oral one, is not an exam. When a woman is tense, both she and her partner feel that she is going to do something complicated, difficult or even unpleasant. (The gag reflex is sometimes caused by insufficient relaxation.) So, first of all, relax the muscles of your body, face and neck. First of all create a comfortable environment and a pleasant mood for yourself.

    Hiding your fafacial expressions

    There is a popular saying – “Women love with their ears and men with their eyes.” Indeed, many men get a significant portion of their enjoyment not only from the feelings but also from the view that opens up to them. Therefore, it is useful to let him see what your face looks like during oral sex.

    You are too quiet

    The fact that men are visual does not mean that they are indifferent to sounds. Moand, sighs and admiration are what make them realize: you like what you do. He does not want to think that you are forcing yourself to do it just for his pleasure.

    Not enjoying the process

    Sex is a mutual pleasure. And if one of the partners does it without joy, the other will definitely notice it. Mutual enjoyment is especially important in long-term relationship. What to do? One option is to pretend you enjoy it, but it’s much better to learn to really enjoy it.

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    You can learn to show and feel pleasure. Can you imagine something that you didn’t like at first, but when you got to know the nuances, you liked it? For example, the taste of wine, jazz music or the Renaissance painting? In the same way you can dig into the complexity of the male genitals. You can fall in love with everything – start admiring it, how harmoniously everything is arranged down there, how exactly its shape corresponds to the intended purpose, how sensitive a man reacts to your interest and touches.

    Improve your technique. Your growing skills and the responsiveness of your partner will give you more and more satisfaction.

    While pleasing your partner, please yourself with a vibrator or your fingers (men like to watch a woman satisfy themselves), or choose the possition where your clitoris can rub against his leg, or allow your partner to please you.

  • 10 craziest things men think about when masturbating

    10 craziest things men think about when masturbating

    The best part of masturbating is that you can have sex with anyone, in any style, and no one will ever know it. This is everyone’s little secret. Of course, this does not apply to the 1,500 people who revealed their deepest and darkest fantasies to many sex researchers. In a 2015 study for a sexual medicine magazine, men rated how often they fantasized about certain sexual scenarios.

    Let’s take a look at the data collected by scientists:

    10% of men have fantasized about cross-dressing or changing clothes in women’s clothes.


    64% of men have fantasized about being met by an acquaintance.


    48% of men have imagined touching a complete stranger in a public place, such as a bus.


    10% of men have dreamed that their partner is urinating on them.


    9% of men have fantasized about urinating on their partner.


    16% of men have thought about having sex with two men, although only 12 percent of respondents identified themselves as gay or bisexual.


    29% of men fantasize about ejaculating on them.


    30% of men imagine being forced to have sex.


    52% fantasize about a relationship with a woman with very small breasts.


    28% of men have fantasized about having sex with a non-sexual object.


  • Masturbating Mistakes: So terrible that even funny

    Masturbating Mistakes: So terrible that even funny

    When it comes to masturbation, simplicity guarantees safety. But because diversity is the salt of life, many guys diversify this routine with new elements: exotic methods or different items writes Men’sHealth. However strange as it may seem, masturbation can often lead to injuries.

    Here’s a 28-year-old man. He decided that it would be great to restrict blood flow in the penis with a plastic bottle. You probably have a clue what it ended up with. According to the Indian Journal of Surgery, a member of the bottle got stuck. It “pinched” his penis and caused edema, a sudden build-up of blood in the organ that doubled its normal size when aroused. It is not known whether this incident had long-term health consequences, as the patient was too shy to answer doctors’ questions when he was discharged from the hospital.

    Too frequent games

    After two days of vomiting, fever, swelling of the scrotum, and muscle pain, the 29-year-old finally decided to see a doctor. Fourier gangrene was diagnosed. It is a rare case of traumatized testicular tissue being infected with various microorganisms. The reason? He masturbated so often that rubbing through the skin of the penis resulted in an infection. He was prescribed antibiotic treatment and several skin tissue reconstruction surgeries to save the injured penis from pathogenic bacteria.

    Fracture from masturbation

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    Although it is thought to be related to boisterous sex, a study described in the journal Trauma and Acute Care Surgery found that regular sex accounted for only 19% of all penile fractures. An impressive 60% of them are masturbating. What do you think is the most common cause? According to the study, it is “deliberate bending and deformation”. In short, the guys squeeze their organ too hard and bend it so that the cylindrical tubes, which fill with blood during an erection, rupture. According to the authors of the study, internal bleeding and the multiple consequences of such a fracture can lead to penile dysfunction, although a penile fracture is usually treated without complications.

    Cocktail shaker

    During masturbation, the penis does not always break due to extremely vigorous hand movements. According to several studies published in the Journal of the Canadian Association of Urology, many men who have broken a penis have been injured while masturbating at the wheel. In particular, during sudden braking, the penis crashed into the steering wheel or panel. There are also cases where the penis broke when hitting a shower wall or a cocktail shaker (although no detailed description is given here, it is clear that the goal was to finish the container).

    Foreign bodies

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    It is not worth trying to insert something into the penis. For some, this is obvious, but according to a traumatology department, someone had the idea to insert an electrical cord into the urethra and thus stimulate it. Another lover of sharp senses inserted a cord into the penis so deeply that it wrapped around the bladder. Both men miraculously recovered completely.

  • Christmas present for yourself – a VIBRATOR!

    Christmas present for yourself – a VIBRATOR!

    Christmas is approaching again, and I must admit that this time I am not at all happy with the fluffy and slightly sunny festive mood that has taken over all the other inhabitants of the planet for a long time. Why? Well, let’s start with the fact that this year my relationship is ruined. Then there additives divorced and my parents (father entangled with some kind of www. Oho.lv meet blonde, imagine?), And the general crisis, and I do not have any spare penny to soul to buy Christmas gifts for all. If I can’t for everyone, then I won’t buy for anyone. Point and Amen!

    WITHOUT HO-HO-HO BETWEEN THE SHEETS

    Christmas gift for a woman - a vibrator

    However, this is by no means the main reason why I am so significantly acidified. In fact, my lack of SEX is to blame for my miserable mood. Yes exactly! Nobody kicks me . It does n’t shine for me any ho-ho-ho between the sheets. No one, not even a bearded fat man in a red suit, will try to clean my smoky chimney this Christmas. I’ve only had sex once in the last six months, and I don’t even want to remember the same thing. I want it. Really wanted!

    MY DESPAIR IS ALREADY BECOMING DANGEROUS TO SOCIETY

    The range of my hypothetical age has increased and at the same time decreased by a whole ten years, because now the accessories in my bag for the right moment of pleasure with the right jack are the following: condoms, viagra and chupchup.

    I have had sexual fantasies about a bartender with feathered breasts from my favorite place to drink, a jack delivering products to the restaurant I work for, my forty-five-year-old (married!) Boss, and the hero of a novel from a series of erotic stories, what I read on lonely winter evenings when I can’t fall asleep (imaginary image! Not just imaginary sex, but imaginary sex with an imaginary image!).

    Let’s not forget about George Clooney (a lot of Martini, but still – from the party !), A guy from a sports club, who always has a ‘ Rage Against the Machine’ T-shirt on his back, and even a modest spectacular customer who comes to the restaurant every day to have a drink. coffee to use our free internet. One can only hope that my fantasies are not in the palm of my friends and colleagues. At times it seems that it is written on my forehead: I WANT SEX! Help me!

    SMALL AND BIG VIBRATOR WINS

    Christmas gift for a woman - a vibrator

    What the hell am I not going and sleeping with any of them? It would not be very complicated. I am attractive, connected, in good shape, witty enough. I know what the name of the prime minister is and why Lāčplēsis Day is celebrated in Latvia (unlike the jeeps filmed by MTV on November 18). Age also purely nothing – twenty with a tail. Good though, but I don’t have thirty yet (thank God!). Of course, for many guys, the things I have listed are not so important. As long as you can be proud of uninfected female genitals and be a cut Christmas tree. Tough? Maybe. Therefore, continuing my period of abstinence, I have decided to buy only one gift for the holiday – for myself. Vibrator! I am sure that in many ways this obscene Christmas present will be better than casual sex with a living but unloved man. Why?

    I CAN LIST AT LEAST TEN RELATED REASONS

    • The vibrator will never ask me to take it in my mouth before I have been able to pull it out of the drawer. 2. I won’t have to fool around and like it to get it in bed.
    • No awkward moments of silence after sex. I won’t even have to look at him. I’ll put it back in the nightstand drawer and peace
    • The vibrator will not tell other household items that I like to do it in a doggy position, that I adore slapping, and so on.
    • The vibrator won’t turn off exactly the moment I’m ready to reach orgasm, and if it does turn off, it will be saved by a new pair of batteries (remember to buy!).
    • The vibrator won’t stick to me with STDs and won’t make it hard.
    • I won’t have to endure another ten minutes of monotonous jolts, staring dullly at the ceiling and thinking about tomorrow’s manicure.
    • The vibrator will not remove the entire blanket and will not blow in bed.
    • Because of the vibrator, I won’t have to wax the bikini more often than I can handle it or can afford it.

    AND FINALLY

    • At any time, I will be able to buy a new, even bigger and more powerful model with six speeds and five interchangeable accessories. The old vibrator will not threaten me, I will not be at work, I will not tell everyone that I am a ‘fallen bitch’ and drunk will not call me at three to remind me how good we were together. Because it’s just a damn vibrator!

    Have a vibrant Christmas! And I want it wholeheartedly, with the best of intentions!

  • Is (NO) masturbation harmful to health?

    Is (NO) masturbation harmful to health?

    November is here, and as we all know, it is the month of ‘ No Nut November ‘ or a time when all men are called to spend 30 days without complacency, sex or any other contact with their genitals. But is non-masturbation safe for health?

    The Christian Church and medieval scholars considered masturbation to be dangerous. It can cause loss of vision, dementia, hair growth on the palms. Well, it is already known that they are all complete nonsense.

    It is a natural and safe way to explore your body, feel pleasure and release the accumulated sexual tension.

    In addition, despite all the myths about and around this topic, masturbation actually has no physically harmful side effects .

    However, it must be acknowledged that too often (well, really often) complacency can be detrimental to relationships and daily life. Other than that, masturbation is a fun, normal and healthy making.

    It is for these positive reasons that we have researched everything about and around this topic to tell you what the side effects and potential health benefits of complacency are.

    Masturbation side effects

    Masturbation has no harmful side effects. However, some people may feel guilty about masturbating or face chronic masturbation problems.

    Guilt can arise for a variety of reasons, which may be related to belonging to a particular cultural, spiritual or religious group. However, there is no need to worry about this, because there is nothing wrong or immoral about the process of complacency, even if one might say that the process is “dirty” and “shameful”. Fortunately, it has long been known that masturbating hands do not dry out and the brain does not dry out.

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    Let’s not deny, it’s a pleasant process, so some people may become addicted to it . This should be considered if this process is very time-consuming and results in, for example, skipping various daily activities, delays in work or school, cancellation of plans with friends or family, or delays in important social activities.

    The good news is that it can be corrected by replacing masturbation with other activities. To quell this desire you can go running, write a reflection diary, spend time with friends or go for a walk.

    Does complacency reduce the desire for sexual intimacy?

    For women with sexual dysfunction, increased stimulation – including complacency – can directly help increase libido and sensitivity.

    masturbation enhances the desire for sex

    The use of vibrators among women and men turns out to be associated with an increase in lust, arousal and general sexual function. Women admitted that it increases the moisture down there and men get a better erection as a bonus.

    The benefits of complacency

    Masturbation is a healthy sexual activity. It has many benefits in both physical and mental health. Various studies have listed the benefits of complacency. Here are some of them: reduces stress and tension in the body, it helps to fall asleep better, improves mood, relaxes, reduces menstrual cramps, reduces sexual tension, helps to improve sex life with a partner, helps to understand your needs and desires.

    Well, prostate cancer

    Some studies suggest that regular ejaculation may reduce the risk of prostate cancer, although doctors aren’t really sure why. One study found that the risk of prostate cancer was reduced by about 20% in men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month. Therefore, we encourage men to think before accepting the ‘No Nut November’ challenge.

  • The strangest questions from innocent girls ,or forum pearls

    Sex education is undoubtedly an integral part of the daily life of today’s youth, but some of the questions asked by young people at home in various Internet forums are involuntarily laughed at. At the end of the working week, Sekss.lv offers to take a look at the strangest questions of innocent girls about and around sex. To leave!

    BATH SEX AND DAMN SPERM

    The strangest questions about sex
    • My guy satisfied me with his fingers and I started to bleed. Have I lost my virginity? I don’t understand anything!
    • Can I have sex with two condoms? Has anyone tried? Is it really safer?
    • When does the hymen appear? Before or after sex? Please illuminate!
    • How can I tell if I’m done?
    • When the body is overwhelmed by pleasant tremors and the muscles contract – is it an orgasm?

    Please tell me, how big is a penis to a 14 to 15 year old boy? 

    • How long do those damn sperms keep their viability? One or more days?
    • I have decided to make love in the bath with my first boyfriend. How big is the risk of getting pregnant from sperm roaming the water?
    • What sounds would be best to mimic an orgasm? ” Oooo ” or ” Ahhhhh ”?
    • If an innocent girl has oral sex, is she still considered innocent?
    • Somewhere I heard such a thing – if a girl has sex with several guys in one day, the chances of getting pregnant are zero. Is it true?

    Fucks like God. How does he do it? I do not understand!

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    The strangest questions about sex
    • How is masturbation different from sex?
    • Can a boy bite eggs during a gathering? Will he like it?
    • Is it true that a year after losing her virginity, a girl can safely continue having sex and not get pregnant?
    • Can you really get rid of that? That is terribly harmful!
    • My periods had to start on June 5 – but didn’t start. What does it mean? Am I accidentally sleeping with someone?

    Yesterday I tried to put my little finger in my anus. Well, it didn’t work! Tell me, how will a man’s penis go in, if even my little finger doesn’t get in there?

    • The day before yesterday, I saw a video in which a guy put his fist in a girl’s vagina. How is this possible at all? That is not real!
    • I’ve noticed that my guy regularly masturbates – tell me, should I consider it a scam?
    • About how many years can you start having oral and anal sex?
    • Why don’t men use desiccants and other means to keep their members from smelling so bad?
    • What could be more painful? Ordinary or oral sex?

    What is minet(oral sex) and does it need a condom?

    BANANA OR TOOTHBRUSH?

    The strangest questions about sex
    • Or are boys painful and uncomfortably stinky for the first time?
    • Is giving it harmful to a girl’s health?
    • Is it true that if a girl does not lose her virginity until the age of 18, her vagina will overgrow?
    • How many goods are needed for the first time?
    • Can a woman get pregnant by swallowing a man’s semen? Maybe it’s better to spit it out?

    Is it true that when you sleep with an innocent girl, the boy’s penis will be in blood?

    • What would be the best choice for the first masturbation – a banana or a toothbrush? Help please! Very willing to try!
    • The first sex was at 11 years old, but the second one, haven’t still got it. Where to look for it?
    • What does the size of the clitoris depend on? What gives a big clit to me?
    • Does it mean that when boys slide their hands at a girl’s vagina, do they want her?
    • After my first sex with my boyfriend, I got sick all the time. Is sex really that very harmful?

    My friend tried to get me in the ass, but something didn’t really work. The next day, my ass started bleeding – does that mean my virginity was taken? I think it only happens after childbirth!

  • Making love in the COVID-19 era – tips and valuable information

    Making love in the COVID-19 era – tips and valuable information

    Let’s be honest – although the visit of the highly contagious coronavirus in our country has already become quite a common part of everyday life, our adaptation to the current situation still tends to stick. Let’s say you are a responsible citizen and follow all the norms of social distance, as well as wash and disinfect your hands regularly – but is that enough? Do the rules of social separation also apply to your sex life? You will find questions on these and other topical issues of the population here!

    Sex in the age of coronavirus

    Risks of infection

    Let’s start with the answer to the most important question, whether it is possible to become infected with COVID-19 during sex. Definitely! Making love means physically close contact, during which both you and your partner excrete a variety of physiological solutions, including saliva. It is the saliva of the infected person that is particularly dangerous, as it contains the highest concentration of virus particles. This means only one thing – it is possible to get infected with this dangerous virus already during the foreplay, namely by kissing.

    With regard to other physiological fluids, it has not been established that the semen of an infected man or the vaginal fluids of an infected woman contains particles of contagious coronavirus. It should be emphasized here that safety must come first and that you can’t do without a condom!

    If you and your partner regularly stay in the same household, the risk of infection is, of course, relatively lower. Particular caution should be exercised in this regard for couples living apart or people who are passionate about casual relationships.

    Note – You cannot be sure whether or not this person you met has been in close contact with the patient!

    The right moment to discover yourself

    At a time when it is not yet clear whether we will be exposed to the second wave of the coronavirus outbreak, we should think more about complacency and its endless possibilities. This is the right time to find out about yourself and your sexuality! Masturbate while in the mirror, try the long-coveted sex toys, watch the latest porn short film by Kimmy Granger, do sexting, or indulge in the great arousal skills of tempting web models – the possibilities are many and varied, all you have to do is get and realize them!

    COVID-19 and sex

    Precautions

    If you are in a relationship and complacency is not a long-term solution, consider the following COVID-19 love precautions:

    • Don’t use so-called “face to face” poses! Solution? More frequent practice of doggy and inverted riding poses;
    • Avoid kissing! Yes, kisses are cool, but they also mean a higher risk of infection;
    • Face masks during sex? Yes, this is one of the latest fashion cries in the world of fetish!
    • Observe enhanced personal hygiene and have your partner do the same! This will protect you not only from potential infection with COVID-19, but also from sexually transmitted diseases!
    • Take note – if you or your partner do not feel well, it is better to postpone the joys of love!

    How is it done in America?

    While we can be proud of the fact that the situation of COVID-19 in our country is quite controlled, in other countries of the world the new coronavirus is actively raging – literally. For example, several couples from the virus-stricken America have shared their coronavirus intimate experiences and admit that regular use of face masks during an act truly adds a whole new tone to the process. On the other hand, other Americans recommend doing more remote masturbation, that is, simultaneous self-satisfaction of you and your partner via a mobile phone or webcam. Try it too – you will not regret it!

    COVID-19 and sex

    Once you’ve educated yourself and your partner about making love in the new COVID-19 era, take a look at how sexy webmasters are doing their job in this viral age!